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ORIGINAL: OnyxGoddess
Oh and MsMac-I agree with you about the cuckold situation (white guy, white woman, black stud) is demeaning to all.  I looked for a million and one sites with black women cuckolding and couldn't find many at all.
 

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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou
As an example the whole gangsta rap thing, I just don't get at all, and the group that plays into that the most is black people, to a lesser degree whites

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"fact" that "70% of hip-hop consumers are white."

2) It's "proof" that if hip-hop has gone to hell in a handbasket, it's not because the Black youth community has decided to embrace sex, drugs, violence and general nihilism, it's because that's what voyeuristic white kids want and since white kids are the main consumer demographic, record labels push their albums to fill that consumer desire.

this argument has been used to explain why conscious rap is dead, dead, dead and why pimps, players and hustlers have become the new norm

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 NeedtoUseYou
It has nothing to do with anything other than the dress in the "scene" the general attitude, and language displayed is not attractive to me. Listening to it is one thing but applying it to everything in your life is another. So, the color doesn't matter, but it's how the person acts that is important. Acting in the Hip-Hop/ Rap ghetto style will simply repulse me right from the beginning. And, hot, is hot, is hot, no matter what color the woman is, but acting a way I find unattractive is killer for me, no matter how attractive.
Hmmmmm, waiting for the flames. arggghhhhhh.

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou
As an example the whole gangsta rap thing, I just don't get at all, and the group that plays into that the most is black people, to a lesser degree whites

I think you're just trying to get my attention by acting less than well informed.   Poor black youth have discovered a way to get rich by giving you what you want, sex and violence, mixed with a little taboo of the lustful black woman already in your head.  Did you read my post above http://poplicks.com/2005/06/who-buys-hip-hop.html

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"fact" that "70% of hip-hop consumers are white."

2) It's "proof" that if hip-hop has gone to hell in a handbasket, it's not because the Black youth community has decided to embrace sex, drugs, violence and general nihilism, it's because that's what voyeuristic white kids want and since white kids are the main consumer demographic, record labels push their albums to fill that consumer desire.

this argument has been used to explain why conscious rap is dead, dead, dead and why pimps, players and hustlers have become the new norm

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 NeedtoUseYou
It has nothing to do with anything other than the dress in the "scene" the general attitude, and language displayed is not attractive to me. Listening to it is one thing but applying it to everything in your life is another. So, the color doesn't matter, but it's how the person acts that is important. Acting in the Hip-Hop/ Rap ghetto style will simply repulse me right from the beginning. And, hot, is hot, is hot, no matter what color the woman is, but acting a way I find unattractive is killer for me, no matter how attractive.
Hmmmmm, waiting for the flames. arggghhhhhh.

No flames, I think you just wanted a spanking from afar, but you're not manipulating me that way.

I agree and you should know (if you don't) that hip hop as a representation of black love/life is ridiculous and a lie.   The other side of the coin is that in a country where Godliness is measured in amount of dollars/glitter, it's no wonder some desperately poor folks are selling their mothers/sisters/souls to make it.    M

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

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ORIGINAL: mstresskayla

I am also inclined to agree with BlkTallFullfig's statement about African Americans being quite conservative when it comes to sexuality.

Granted, I am possibly respresenting a different age group, but I have experienced quite a bit of closed mindedness from my fellow Black folk when it comes to sex. There are quite a few Black men who still think giving a woman oral is disgusting, however they will quickly guide her to her knees to please them, as there is nothing wrong with that, you know.

Amen to that.  In my previous vanilla life, I was with black alpha males who were the absolute worst at giving oral.  At one point I thought something was wrong with me because I didn't enjoy it.  
  As a black domme, seems I have not had many racial issues.  90% of my subs have been white, the rest latino or asian.  They all had one thing in common, an overwhelming desire to be dominated by a black woman.  On that 1-10 scale, the worst was a 6 for oral skills,m and that was easily corrected.  Works for me.

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It's all over but the crying.

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ORIGINAL: mstresskayla
I am also inclined to agree with BlkTallFullfig's statement about African Americans being quite conservative when it comes to sexuality

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LadyMolasses
Amen to that.  In my previous vanilla life, I was with black alpha males who were the absolute worst at giving oral.  At one point I thought something was wrong with me because I didn't enjoy it.  
  As a black domme, seems I have not had many racial issues.  90% of my subs have been white, the rest latino or asian.  They all had one thing in common, an overwhelming desire to be dominated by a black woman.  On that 1-10 scale, the worst was a 6 for oral skills,m and that was easily corrected

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse
'almost' totaly irrelevant.A slight bias toward caucasian and oriental in my aesthetic tastes but thats about it. None of the important things, like the D/s dynamic, the spark of attraction and affection or the intelectual rapour between us is linked in any way toward the colour of her skin.