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SnowRanger -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/12/2010 10:19:58 PM)
Hello A/all, I have to say first that I am with Lady Pact on this one. I suspect that, "Tell me why you want to serve me!" is an in-artful whay of saying, "Please explain what interests you about me." Did you read the profile or just look at the first photo? Is this a message expressing interest in her or is this a blanket query that you send to every Domme within 500 miles? Seeks, You have to give these ladies a break. Some ladies are bombarded with with one liners and vulgar messages (just like all of mine) that would make a slab of granite blush. Respecfully, Mike SnowRanger OKAY Chia... For $100... These patties of grated potatoes are usually served with eggs and are popular with the customers from the 'bar rush." OH Lady Pact, I have sentements similar to (but not completely congruent to) those expressed by SunshineMiss

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 6:15:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SeeksSadisticTop Apparently the "'Sidney University Disclaimer" has become so widespread that nobody even reads them anymore, otherwise someone might have noticed that my version is just a wee bit different. I read every word and saw where you were rolling out the welcome mat for them to use you in a study, and yes, it made me laugh because that was the first time I saw someone volunteering to be a lab rat here at CM. However, the huge bold print almost slices my ageing eyeballs in half. My answer tried to stick with your opening post, not to derail it by critiquing your profile.

FriendlyMuppet -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 3:07:26 PM)
There may also be more going on than you already know because a lot of submissives come into a discussion in the latter part of the discussion and then want to know why they don't know more about the conversation. Think of it this way: If that woman you talk about with her profile (and I'm being as generic as you were being) is actually a dominant who is quite well known in her bdsm community, she might already be tired and exhausted by the numerous males who write her wanting to get close to her, so rather than deal with any of that nonsense, she write a profile that states: Tell me why you want to serve Me. I know of a couple of dominants who do that all of the time because they expect you to know who they are, and if you don't, they're probably not that interested in you in the first place. I've always felt that if someone writes something in a profile that doesn't make me happy, I go onto the next profile and try not to worry about what caused someone to write a profile that got me upset. In simple communication terms, you've lost the battle if you're going to allow someone to control your emotions that well before you've even met the person. No one is capable of making you feel anything until you really get to know that person. So, if you see a profile that says something you don't like, go onto the next profile. Psychoanalyzing why some random woman writes something seems like such a waste of valuable time that could be spent watching Elmo teach us about the virtues of counting to the number 5. Well, it's valuable for me at least. But I'm just a friendly muppet.

ReginaMirus -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 6:39:37 PM)
Ok, so here's a conversation from just today, where I posed pretty much the same question... quote: reginamirus: hello there. s-type male: hey reginamirus: hey? s-type male: hi miss? reginamirus: well, that's better than a guttural grunt, I suppose s-type male: awesome reginamirus: you propositioned me, yes? s-type male: yes... are you seeking a slave currently? reginamirus: slave, no reginamirus: course I suppose that depends on how one defines the word "slave" s-type male: hmm ok s-type male: a slave-like person? lol reginamirus: explain... (about a 10 min gap, here) reginamirus: hello? s-type male: hi s-type male: sorry s-type male: umm im looking for an owner personally s-type male: someone to control me in many aspects reginamirus: such as? s-type male: chastity, clothing, activities, protocol, schedule reginamirus: k, so we're 1 for 5 s-type male: lol ouch reginamirus: did you happen to actually read my profile? s-type male: yeah reginamirus: another guttural response reginamirus: yes? s-type male: yes reginamirus: so what was it about my profile that made you think "yes, she might be the one for me"(<<----my version of "Tell me why you want to serve me") s-type male: well your profile intrigued me reginamirus: explain... s-type male: i was definitely not sure you might be the one s-type male: thats why i like to talk to someone reginamirus: ok... reginamirus: ok, so what intrigued you?(again, rephrased differently, but even more pointed) wait for it... [8\|] reginamirus: did I lose you again? reginamirus: sigh... Sadly, I can't even begin to express how so very common this is.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 6:51:06 PM)
I could translate that for you "You are female, I am very horny so I wrote you and I really didn't think about it much..."

ReginaMirus -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 6:53:46 PM)
Or, "I'm lying about actually READING your profile, and have now effectively painted myself in a corner, because now you're going to see me reading your profile, and you're going to call me on my bullshit". And yes, yes I will.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 7:00:07 PM)
I doubt they think as far as that you can see them reading the profile, they are possibly trying to cram it all in, doing speed reading so that they can try and wing it...

ReginaMirus -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 7:02:38 PM)
Lol, yes that may well be true. Epic failure though, all the way around.

PeonForHer -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 7:28:54 PM)
Blimey. You're a lot more easy-going than I'd have been. I think I'd have ditched the conversation after that first 'awesome'.

ReginaMirus -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 7:35:11 PM)
Eh. Most times when I'm bored, I'll make sport of it, like a cat toying with a mouse. Ya know, give them enough rope to hang themselves with... [;)]

LadyConstanze -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 7:37:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus Eh. Most times when I'm bored, I'll make sport of it, like a cat toying with a mouse. Ya know, give them enough rope to hang themselves with... [;)] They wouldn't be the first ones who hang themselves with Barbie's shoe laces, they don't really need much rope

PeonForHer -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 7:46:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus Eh. Most times when I'm bored, I'll make sport of it, like a cat toying with a mouse. Ya know, give them enough rope to hang themselves with... [;)] Heh. It's fun if you're a submale dealing with an obvious baiter-and-switcher. They never read your profile and frequently write something short and 'dommely-commanding' like (as I had this morning), only the words, 'Write Me'. Most often I just ignore them, but sometimes I'll reply - as I did in this case - with just the one word, 'No.'.

eleanorr -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/13/2010 9:04:34 PM)
My profile may seem new- but I've been on CM for a number of years... and I think every woman here tries to figure out some way to encourage those people who respond to her more erudite and verbose... I finally gave up and just realized that I would have to wade through the messages that were simply inappropriate... especially since the folks who are particularly wretched don't read your entire profile anyway...

WideBlueEyes -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 8:40:53 AM)
To me, it is incredibly disrespectful to NOT learn as much as you can about someone before you contact them. The information contained in a profile is a free and hopefully honest look into who they are. As to answering the question, I would just be honest and 'pour forth' as I call it. If I offer too much and/or say something that doesn't appeal to them, I just think they decided I am not for them. I have hope that I will find someone to serve some day.

chiaThePet -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 9:44:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SnowRanger OKAY Chia... For $100... These patties of grated potatoes are usually served with eggs and are popular with the customers from the 'bar rush." What are the Euroclubs blurry eyed patrons favorite, Latkes Alex? (side note Alex, hash browns are shredded) We'll return with The Breakfast of Champions Tournament Final Jeopardy after a word from our sponsor. chia* (the pet)

DMFParadox -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 4:17:35 PM)
Ok, seriously, what would you people ever have done before the internet? Made small talk. Said stupid shit. Played silly games. And started with 'hello'. For Christ's sake, give it a break!Not everyone is a great communicator, that does NOT make them a bad person. Be better than this trite fucking bullshit I'm seeing, PLEASE, somebody, anybody. Stop getting so hung up on what guys are doing wrong and start looking for what they're doing right, and you'll find more of it even in places you didn't see before. Fuck! I hate this shit.

Lockit -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 4:28:59 PM)
Oh my... says the man who treats women the way he does. Clean out your own backyard before you start shitting pissy fits in others backyards. For gods sake man... relax.. no skin off your dominant nose. [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 4:31:25 PM)
Someone pass this on to DMF…… These guys are incapable of small talk. They are incapable of asking a woman out. They are just piss poor specimens all around. What they do best is maKw otherr guys look great! Seriously, the guy who is not lying about his other attachments, and is able to carry on a conversation without prompting? Gets asked out for coffee.

DMFParadox -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 4:45:49 PM)
I think I'm glad I can't see what those two ladies replied.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tell Me why you want to serve Me. (12/14/2010 4:48:30 PM)
LOL! Yeah, worried about pot/kettle commentary? You should be, but what would be the point?

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