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RE: 99 Year Old Dommes? - 12/30/2010 11:41:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: naughtysubK

how many HNG's actually READ the words in a profile?

I just imagine a HNG reading this post and going "Words, what are those words in a profile they are talking about? WORDS? I was looking at the pictures!"

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RE: 99 Year Old Dommes? - 12/30/2010 3:31:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: SthrnCom4t
Thanks LnT, I was beginning to wonder if mm321 was trying to group himself in that undesirable category by debating FemDom reasoning.

If you choose to categorize any statements I make as "FemDom reasoning", then I must ask if you would also categorize any post that an African-American makes as "Black reasoning". I personally prefer to avoid such stereotyping, even in jest, as it is inaccurate and may be seen as offensive.

If I make a clear statement according to my experience and observation, there is no difference in the reasoning process whether I'm saying it here or in a science paper. Granted, I'm a lot more likely to check and document my work if it's a science paper. But the state of my reasoning is not categorically different because I am genetically female and dominant. Debate is welcome in either location as long as it is reasonably backed up by factual observations and references.

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RE: 99 Year Old Dommes? - 12/30/2010 3:39:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: mummyman321
What LnT failed to read and the point I was trying to make was that using an age of 99 is not an effective filter for Dommes who are not looking and do not want to be contacted.

Er, if it demonstrably cuts down on the number of total contacts, including a higher percentage of the undesirables with "hot babe" filters, how can it not be an effective filter? Obviously the most effective filter if you want no personal contacts at all is to turn your profile off or hide it, but if you don't mind hearing from select folks who actually have something to say as opposed to random HNG's who solicit strangers for kinky sex, setting your age to 99 and your weight to 900 lbs does tend to work a treat.

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Simply set your age filter to 99 and look at who is looking and who is not looking. I think you will see the majority are looking thus proving my point. Math never lies!

The number of dommes who set their age to 99 and also state that they are looking proves mainly that what these dommes are looking for is someone who actually reads profiles and who does not set their search parameters based on age.

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Now as to can I debate FemDom Reasoning? Certainly I can. Will I be right? Will I be wrong?

Reasoning is reasoning. It is either good or bad. It does not vary depending on the gender, race, religion or sexual orientation of the person doing the reasoning. That's kind of like saying there is such a thing as black science and white science depending on the race of the scientist. Uh, no, there's just science.

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RE: 99 Year Old Dommes? - 12/31/2010 12:59:13 AM

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Or is there some unwritten internet code that I do not know about?

Yes. There is. But we can't tell you. It's a secret....

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