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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/6/2011 8:29:51 PM)
Aqua, Daddy beats me with spikes tail* our stegasoaur* if I have been to crabby or something.

Valyraen -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/6/2011 8:29:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Val does similiar. Only he usually uses the furbabies. Like he will hold the ferret in front of him and ask in a squeaky voice "have you forgiven Daddy? Cause I'd be sad if you killed him." or something else completely off the wall and silly. [:)] ...and when all else fails, there is the power of the Baby Penguin Dance. Mock ye not the Baby Penguin Dance! In that ritual, there is power untold over the minds of women... ...or at least over Kitten.

AquaticSub -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/6/2011 8:31:57 PM)
OMG I love the baby penguin dance!!! It just makes me HAVE to hug you and bury your face in my boobies cause it is so damn cute!!!! It is impossible for me to be mad or cry while watching the baby penguin dance.

mummyman321 -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/6/2011 11:02:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy Hi there. My slave is currently under doctor's orders to rest and stay in bed as much as possible for the next few weeks. She can't perform many (if any) of her normal duties - housework etc. She is also not allowed any vaginal penetration and only gentle anal penetration. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for training and tasks I can do with her over the next few weeks which will keep her mind appropriately focussed and also alleviate the inevitable boredom and frustration of being unable to perform her normal tasks and duties? Many thanks. You really have not given us enough information to help you. First and foremost is her health and that responsibility lies with you. If her mental acuity is not affected by whatever condition she has, then reading books, updating your calander of events, answering your emails might be a suggestion. If she has had a traumatic event and healing emotionaly then I would put the D/s aside and focus on her complete recovery so you can get back to your D/s lifestyle. Medical questions really need to be directed back to your doctor.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/6/2011 11:27:55 PM)
questions about what are some tasks my slave can do to feel like a slave while on bed rest is notreally a medical question nor one you even need to ask the dr about. quote: ORIGINAL: mummyman321 quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy Hi there. My slave is currently under doctor's orders to rest and stay in bed as much as possible for the next few weeks. She can't perform many (if any) of her normal duties - housework etc. She is also not allowed any vaginal penetration and only gentle anal penetration. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for training and tasks I can do with her over the next few weeks which will keep her mind appropriately focussed and also alleviate the inevitable boredom and frustration of being unable to perform her normal tasks and duties? Many thanks. You really have not given us enough information to help you. First and foremost is her health and that responsibility lies with you. If her mental acuity is not affected by whatever condition she has, then reading books, updating your calander of events, answering your emails might be a suggestion. If she has had a traumatic event and healing emotionaly then I would put the D/s aside and focus on her complete recovery so you can get back to your D/s lifestyle. Medical questions really need to be directed back to your doctor.

mummyman321 -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/6/2011 11:38:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom questions about what are some tasks my slave can do to feel like a slave while on bed rest is notreally a medical question nor one you even need to ask the dr about. You can intelligently ask the doctor her physical and mental limitations. You do not have to tell the doctor you have a slave. You can ask: can she fold laundry, can she have sex, can she have anal sex, can she have oral sex, can she sit up in bed and do X, Y and Z task.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 12:04:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss My G*D... did barely an angel and I actually disagree? Be warned: hell just froze over. dang... That was sposed to be "agree".... sunshine, foolish for posting pre-coffee.

crazyml -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 2:17:07 AM)
Awww c'mon people.... here's the OP's reply to some of the early comments on this thread (from Page 2)... quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy Hi All Thanks for your suggestions so far. I feel I should probably elaborate a little. She is on bed rest because she has a cyst on her ovary - she has a scan next week to see if it has changed in size. quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to - 1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her 2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her 3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want 4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up 5) Entertain her 6) Fetch books and magazines 7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him..... To me that goes without saying - of course I do everything I can to help. quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance You could respect the fact that shes on doctor ordered bedrest, put the Ds asside for that time and care for her as if shes a human being not just a serving tool.... Ya know like people try to do...when people they love and care for are sick... I do respect that - hence why I am trying to find alternative things to do. FYI it is she who has requested not to be treated as if she's a human being. She wants to keep as much as possible in the slave mindset. quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I have to say, if I were sick to the point that my doctor had ordered bed rest and my domme came in and asked for a massage or tried to restrain me...she would be looking for a new sub, and I would have someone else in to take care of me. How fucking selfish can a person be. She is sick for fucks sake I am NOT being selfish - I am trying to help her in a way that is primarily focussed on her recovery but whilst still enabling her to focus on her chosen role and lifestyle. My initial reaction to the OP was to wonder whether we had a jackass on our hands or not - but his response to these early comments did seem to show that he's pretty fucking clued in where it comes to supporting his sub. So... I'm gonna tip my hat to him one more time.. <tips hat>

MaitreDeRoissy -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 5:11:53 AM)
Thanks to those who have taken time to give a positive contribution to this - it has certainly given me plenty of food for thought. Some of the ideas I had thought of anyway, such as research and writing etc but good to have reassurance that I was on the right path. My slave is now a lot more content and seems to be on the road to recovery. She has a scan coming up at which point I can hopefully ask the doctor for some more advice as to what she can and cannot do. I wasn't present at the last appointment so was unable to do so. I will keep you posted as to her progress and perhaps update the thread with what I actually do with her - what works well, what doesn't etc.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 6:17:47 AM)
wishing her a speedy recovery ^_^

LadyPact -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 8:46:26 AM)
You're welcome and best of luck. I hope she is feeling better very soon.

petmonkey -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 8:48:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy My slave is now a lot more content and seems to be on the road to recovery. Very glad to hear this! quote: I will keep you posted as to her progress and perhaps update the thread with what I actually do with her - what works well, what doesn't etc. Yes, please, that would be lovely. i think a follow-up posting on what went well to keep her mind occupied and on task would be great to add. Thank you in advance.

RapierFugue -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 8:49:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy My slave is now a lot more content and seems to be on the road to recovery. Good news! :) Hope things continue to improve for her (and you).

AquaticSub -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/7/2011 10:15:52 AM)
Wonderful. All my best to you and her! [:)]

CherryNeko -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/9/2011 3:08:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I have to say, if I were sick to the point that my doctor had ordered bed rest and my domme came in and asked for a massage or tried to restrain me...she would be looking for a new sub, and I would have someone else in to take care of me. How fucking selfish can a person be. She is sick for fucks sake[8\|] Hello. Now, now. I am not saying he should try them all, because I don't know how she is. I just suggested some so they can can consider them in the light of the present situation, and practice the winners. We are assuming, since she's sick, that they will talk about everything first. Like it should be. However, you'd be doing good, and I'd be doing the same thing. It's just that there are people who really NEED it, a lot more periodically than I do. I'm terribly sorry for the late reply. I hadn't visited the thread.

CherryNeko -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/9/2011 3:15:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop quote: giving you a massage. You can forbid her to move, ::snip::, you can use cuffs, too. You can still spank her! Pull her hair, play with her body, make her dress in some new outfit, etc. I'm assuming she can still kiss your feet? Also collars, wrap her in leather... or in plastic... Given that the OP did not say WHY she is on bedrest, arent you making a bunch of assumptions? Hi! Sorry sorry sorry for the late reply. Well... I was indeed assuming because he didn't say why. It confused me, so I just... brainstormed! ^^

CherryNeko -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/9/2011 3:21:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep it's not totally fair to pounce on him for this question -- CherryNeko is right; people who are bedridden sometimes crave things that make them feel normal. Being sick when you're a service-oriented person is a nightmare. hahaha my late M took care of me after a car accident and a really horrible illness, and i felt bad that i couldn't do anything for him -- even though he never pressured me about anything, the negative feelings came from me. he might be asking on her behalf because she WANTS to find a way to express her feelings for him, while still adhering to doctor's rules. maybe she's stuck in bed and can't reach the computer herself. =p not everyone has a laptop you know. Oh, god, I can totally relate... because it feels so weird and selfish, that you are having Him do the work, while still doing his part! and you are doing nothing, and there's no way you can fix it, and no, a medical reason is not enough for feelings. Especially gratitude, so much gratitude, and you worry to no avail, cause there's just absolutely nothing you can do... I know. I do.

ChicagoKink -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/11/2011 7:02:02 PM)
Skip the sex. Let her rest and stew in her own juices and desires for a while. You take care of the house and of her needs until she is better. But for crying out loud don't wear a maids outfit and don't let her see you sweat it. Her new duties include writing 4 erotic stories at least one page long the are about a slave but instruct her that this slave is not her and that her doms are not you. This is a great way to get a slave to disclose their fantasies and fears without them realizing it. Bring her a tape recorder and have her record them as a gift to you using her sexiest voice. If you have a laptop you can do it there use the microphone and just burn it to a cd afterwards. Buy some leather scraps, some wooden dowels of different sizes, some nice rope, some fake fur, glue nice tacks needle thread at a crafts store "michaels or joan here". Instruct her to make 4 toys of her own design to use when she is better. Tell her she gets a special treat if she includes the toys in her stories. After every story is done and read to you by her and after every toy is handed to you reward her. Maybe use a massager (not a vibrator) to bring her off while her hands are tied to the corners of the bed and you kiss her. I think this whole combination will give her both something to do and something to look forward to while allowing you to learn more about her.

MasterShake -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/11/2011 9:35:14 PM)
I have to jump in and give props to the OP. From what I have read, he seems to be a sensible, sensitive, and responsible person. He and his counterpart seem to have a great open line of communication and they both seem to be on top of getting her back up to speed and healthy. He really and truly respects and honors the limitations and limits imposed on and by his partner in her slave role. I am going out on a limb here, but I am assuming all of this is inline with HER expectations of her role and within HER new, albeit temporary limits. I don't know your particular dynamic and tastes, so specific activities and the like I cannot suggest. But, the only truly important sex organ lies between the ears, not the thighs. It can be stimulated and rewarded and return the favor in so many ways: sensation play, sensory deprivation, guided imagery, reading to one another, writing assignments, etc. I was actually thinking a term paper on all the things she is going to do for you and how she will serve you when her convalescence is complete. Here, also is a novel suggestion; ask her if you have not already. Denial is one of the strongest weapons in a dominant's arsenal. I have images of allowing her to devise something she wants to do, building her anticipation of following her suggestion, and then assigning her some non-erotic task, such as writing lines or translating some poem into a language she doesn't speak. The possibilities for low-impact vagina-free cruelty are limitless! The biggest thing is to have fun and don't pay any much heed to the noise here, even MY two cents worth. I think she is very luck to as responsible and thoughtful a partner as you. Wishing you peace, love, and Anal Eaze.

Rule -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/11/2011 10:15:20 PM)
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