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agirl -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/12/2011 6:02:22 AM)
A few ideas......... With card and crayons, ask her to design personal birthday cards for your friends and family, including a personal message inside. Watch cookery programmes with a view to trying out some lovely new recipes when she's well.(ditto using recipe books or laptop) Have her cut, shape and buff your nails. Have her keep a daily diary of how it feels to be confined to bed, all the frustrations and to include at least one positive aspect for each day. Have her make a list of food, that you can buy and prepare, for a lazy tea-party in bed with you. If you have a garden, terrace, porch or patio, with the use of a laptop or books, ask her to plan a flower-bed, or container to execute once she's well. If there's any area of the home that needs a face-lift, ask her to make a plan of what would suit you both best. Provide her with the materials to make a rag-rug to compliment a room in the house. Provide her with the materials to make a cross-stitch design to frame that is personal to you both. Have her lay quietly while you tend to her personal hair removal. Have her masturbate while you lay beside her watching her every expression and move. Some of these ideas are aimed toward expressing the frustration of being confined to bed, with one eye on finding something positive, others are aimed at looking toward the time when she will be up and about again and have something positive to take from her current restrictions, a few are small tasks she can do FOR you and lastly some to be endured, perhaps. Good luck. agirl

favesclava -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/12/2011 6:59:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml Hello there, and welcome to the forums. You know... and this may sound a little "out there" or even a bit snarky (but not intenitonally so)... my immediate reaction to your question was this... If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to - 1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her 2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her 3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want 4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up 5) Entertain her 6) Fetch books and magazines 7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him..... then take your hat of to Master Fredpbear. that's exactly what He did when i was sick with thyroid infection. even little gifts to make His slave smile. holding me gently while i rested. meals served in bed. making sure i took medication and fluids as orderered. no sex , no play. i didnt forget for one second i was His slave, His property. if anything i felt it even more strongly.

lizi -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/12/2011 8:33:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: favesclava then take your hat of to Master Fredpbear. that's exactly what He did when i was sick with thyroid infection. even little gifts to make His slave smile. holding me gently while i rested. meals served in bed. making sure i took medication and fluids as orderered. no sex , no play. i didnt forget for one second i was His slave, His property. if anything i felt it even more strongly. I know this thread is about done but I had to chime in here with a similar experience. When I broke both of my arms over this last summer my Dom had to take care of my needs in unprecedented ways. I had to have everything done for me and I never felt so owned in my life. He took care of what was his extremely well and in doing that impressed it upon my brain that I belonged to him. I don't think I will ever question that again- not that I was, but it's just lodged in there permanently now. I could only do exactly what he wanted when he wanted it because I had to have his help to do it- I literally couldn't get a drink, eat, go to the bathroom, brush my teeth or hair, get dressed, wash, scratch an itch, go through a closed door, drive, clean, take my meds, or even get up out of bed if I was fully reclined without help. It was a very bonding and unusual experience. I will also say that I've have given anything during that time for a sense of normalcy, I think the OP of this thread is on the right track in trying to find some things he can ask of his partner. Even though I was in severe pain and highly medicated at times, I still wanted to just have my 'old' life back if only for a few seconds by replying "Yes sir" when he told me to be still while he brushed my hair out and braided it for me, and when he'd ask me to promise not to forget to take my next medication at the proper time when he was gone- he'd set it out on the desk where I could get it with my mouth and I could get a drink from the water he'd leave with a straw in it. He was stern but loving, it helped keep the balance of things in place for us until I got better. In no way was his being stern ever a hindrance, at that time it was an expression of how much he cared. I still felt free to literally cry on his shoulder when I needed to for whatever reason, pain, frustration, etc. He wasn't thrilled about that since he had to be the one to wipe my eyes, get a tissue, and hold it at my nose for me to blow it when it happened, but he never complained, just let me do it if that's what was needed.

crazyml -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/12/2011 9:57:53 AM)
Hello favesclava! I'd be absolutely delighted to tip my hat to Master Fredpbear! <tips hat> G. [Ed for missing "m"]

CherryNeko -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/12/2011 11:08:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi quote: ORIGINAL: favesclava then take your hat of to Master Fredpbear. that's exactly what He did when i was sick with thyroid infection. even little gifts to make His slave smile. holding me gently while i rested. meals served in bed. making sure i took medication and fluids as orderered. no sex , no play. i didnt forget for one second i was His slave, His property. if anything i felt it even more strongly. I know this thread is about done but I had to chime in here with a similar experience. When I broke both of my arms over this last summer my Dom had to take care of my needs in unprecedented ways. I had to have everything done for me and I never felt so owned in my life. He took care of what was his extremely well and in doing that impressed it upon my brain that I belonged to him. I don't think I will ever question that again- not that I was, but it's just lodged in there permanently now. I could only do exactly what he wanted when he wanted it because I had to have his help to do it- I literally couldn't get a drink, eat, go to the bathroom, brush my teeth or hair, get dressed, wash, scratch an itch, go through a closed door, drive, clean, take my meds, or even get up out of bed if I was fully reclined without help. It was a very bonding and unusual experience. I will also say that I've have given anything during that time for a sense of normalcy, I think the OP of this thread is on the right track in trying to find some things he can ask of his partner. Even though I was in severe pain and highly medicated at times, I still wanted to just have my 'old' life back if only for a few seconds by replying "Yes sir" when he told me to be still while he brushed my hair out and braided it for me, and when he'd ask me to promise not to forget to take my next medication at the proper time when he was gone- he'd set it out on the desk where I could get it with my mouth and I could get a drink from the water he'd leave with a straw in it. He was stern but loving, it helped keep the balance of things in place for us until I got better. In no way was his being stern ever a hindrance, at that time it was an expression of how much he cared. I still felt free to literally cry on his shoulder when I needed to for whatever reason, pain, frustration, etc. He wasn't thrilled about that since he had to be the one to wipe my eyes, get a tissue, and hold it at my nose for me to blow it when it happened, but he never complained, just let me do it if that's what was needed. That is so sweet!!!!! Both! so sweet!

sirsholly -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/18/2011 7:12:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy My slave is currently under doctor's orders to rest and stay in bed as much as possible for the next few weeks. She can't perform many (if any) of her normal duties - housework etc. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for training and tasks I can do with her over the next few weeks which will keep her mind appropriately focussed and also alleviate the inevitable boredom and frustration of being unable to perform her normal tasks and duties? When i was pregnant i was on bedrest for a few looooooong weeks. It was maddening. My body needed to rest, but my mind was as alert as it ever was, and that was dangerous. Boredom can easily lead to depression. There was no real distraction to take my mind off of the health fears or the guilt. I saw my husband put in a full shift, then come home and have to do the cooking, cleaning, etc. Whereas HE didn't mind, i felt terrible about it. I think it is great insight that you are aware of the dangers to her emotional health as well as her physical health, because the two are very closely related. Spend as much time with her as you can, and let her see that you are relaxed. Talking to her while you are putting away the laundry, or running from room to room with the Dustbuster and a can of furniture polish will only make it worse. Lay on the bed and let her see that you are not stressed from the additional responsibilities you now have. I would suggest she indulge her creative side at this time. Bring up a website for a craft store and tell her to choose a few small things that she can work on while on bed rest. A small needle working kit, a few balls of yarn and knitting needles/crochet hooks, "How-To" books for something that has always interested her...etc. Pick up the items at the next opportunity so she can make them as a gift to you. Best wishes to you both.

FukinTroll -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/18/2011 8:13:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaitreDeRoissy Hi there. My slave is currently under doctor's orders to rest and stay in bed as much as possible for the next few weeks. She can't perform many (if any) of her normal duties - housework etc. She is also not allowed any vaginal penetration and only gentle anal penetration. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for training and tasks I can do with her over the next few weeks which will keep her mind appropriately focussed and also alleviate the inevitable boredom and frustration of being unable to perform her normal tasks and duties? Many thanks. Sounds like the perfect time for obedience training. Order her to stay in bed.

DaddynPet -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/25/2011 7:45:04 PM)
I have been ill several times over the course of my marriage to daddy and on bedrest several times. This does not mean that I could not or even did not want to participate in our routine DS situations. In fact by withholding for fear of hurting me or going too far for my own good, I actually felt more disconnected, hurt, and sickly. By actively participating and being treated as my normal self with a need for a few modifications I felt closer to my daddy, happier, and tended to heal fasterick or put on bed rest is so debilitated that all we want to do is sleep and. Do not assume every one of us who is lay about and not be bothered or catered to all day. It can also be quite offensive to a strong individual to get all this "pampering" thrust upon us when we are not used to it.

littlekitten1 -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/27/2011 5:35:59 PM)
You could have her take up knitting :D And then she can knit you warm, fuzzy socks, scarves and wool-cuffs!! [:D]

lovingdomwanted -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (1/29/2011 2:55:39 PM)
Hi....Ive got Flu.....Love you recipe to getting better....Fancy nursing me...lol xxxx quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml Hello there, and welcome to the forums. You know... and this may sound a little "out there" or even a bit snarky (but not intenitonally so)... my immediate reaction to your question was this... If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to - 1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her 2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her 3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want 4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up 5) Entertain her 6) Fetch books and magazines 7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him.....

SouthernSpankin -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (2/6/2011 11:23:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml Hello there, and welcome to the forums. You know... and this may sound a little "out there" or even a bit snarky (but not intenitonally so)... my immediate reaction to your question was this... If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to - 1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her 2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her 3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want 4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up 5) Entertain her 6) Fetch books and magazines 7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible Now... if I heard that a Dom had done that for his bedridden sub, I'd totally take my fucking hat off to him..... This. And I believe 99.9% of the other Doms would do the same thing, so no reason to "totally take my fucking hat off to them" for it.

AzLavan -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (2/15/2011 10:50:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml If your slave is bedridden for a few weeks, my suggestion would be to - 1) Do all the housework, dilligently and to the standard you require of her 2) Bring her meals, prepared to the standard you require of her 3) Provide her with the level of kink she wants, not the level of kink you want 4) Give her treats to help keep her spirits up 5) Entertain her 6) Fetch books and magazines 7) Focus on doing the things that will get her well again as quickly as possible i completely agree! My pet has just recently gotten over a pulled muscle/nasty sinus infection. Therefore no housework and no sex. He could barely move or breathe, so hey. What did I do? I made him soup, cleaned our living space, made him medicine, talked to him to keep him interested in the world lol, let him relax by reading/playing games. Why? because I love him and I'm showing him the same respect I would expect were the roles reversed.

AzLavan -> RE: Ideas for bedridden slave (2/15/2011 10:52:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance You could respect the fact that shes on doctor ordered bedrest, put the Ds asside for that time and care for her as if shes a human being not just a serving tool.... Ya know like people try to do...when people they love and care for are sick.... You could get her books, and or read to her make her soup... ya know be in control of the situation by not causing her harm. this is my point

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