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What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 9:47:31 AM

IsaNova

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So in my quick perusal of this forum, I see a lot of "I want this" type of posts. Leaves me thinking, what do You guys want? What would please you, bring a warm smile to your face?

I know of course that everyone is different, and I am not seeking to please any Master in particular... but I would much appreciate some insight into how to be pleasing and surprising unto others. There is nothing quite so nice as bringing an unexpected joy to one's owner's face~

Respectfully submitted,
cheryl~

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 10:07:15 AM

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i want a woman that can do as she's told, i'm not shy about telling her what i want

i want a woman that sees anything i want as an obligatory service, nothing is more important than anything else from folding socks to fulfilling my most deviant desire, it's all just service

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 10:12:13 AM

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Pretty much what osf said.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 12:11:38 PM

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Well...I have to agree with DarkSteven in agreeing with osf.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 12:20:02 PM

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Long term...a lady VERY much compatable...the rest falls into place...

Short term plaY?....ohhhhhh just endure baby -L-

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 2:09:05 PM

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We want slaves who are focused on obedience rather than sex or fetish, though those can be fun. We want slaves who simply become who they are, at the core, naturally be being obedient.

Oh, and for people to get that "Master" is gender neutral, but one thing at a time. :-)

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 2:10:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
i'm not shy about telling her what i want

what a surprise

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/9/2011 9:00:59 PM

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For you to want what we want.

We want you to want to obey the commands we want to give. We want you to want to do for yourself what we don't want to do with you. Most of all, we want you to want us.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 12:56:39 AM

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Mine likes to be surprised with gummy bears. It's my tribute to him. Which reminds me... I haven't paid tribute in awhile. *make mental note*

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 4:52:34 AM

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quote:

Mine likes to be surprised with gummy bears. It's my tribute to him. Which reminds me... I haven't paid tribute in awhile. *make mental note*

hehe, love that.

It comes easy to want someone, or to want to play x,y,z fetish, or to want to be sexual. Obedience comes harder in my experience. I know in myself it has only been easy and natural when I felt my needs met, but then I struggle in wanting to focus on their needs rather than the (annoyingly) natural habit of focusing on getting my own (emotional, cuddling, whatever) needs met first. Still I choose to obey, I choose to seek to please and pleasure others, and to (at least attempt to) put Their needs, wants and desires above my own.

Obedience is pleasure, and pleasure is obedience or so someone once taught me. I just wish it came easier sometimes!

Master Fire, I readily agree with you, have met no less than two female Masters... though to be honest I sometimes wonder what it is specific to the title that the prefer it over others. a topic for another conversation perhaps~

Thank you all for your words, they are most appreciated

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 12:51:19 PM

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World peace...and a girl that wants to serve...with out punishing her or forcing her. ( a natural servant you could say)

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 12:58:21 PM

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I want someone who'll argue with me over a point of philosophy, ethics or politics. Someone I could trust to turn the boat around if I fell out of it (this is not a metaphor - I really do mean tack and gybe), someone I can spar with intellectually, someone I'd be happy to spend an afternoon curled up with.

And yes, someone who has chemistry that matches mine, so that a single look can create the desired effect.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 1:58:18 PM

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FR

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The prime directive for an s-type is "Look out for my best interest at all times"

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 2:13:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

I want someone who'll argue with me over a point of philosophy, ethics or politics. Someone I could trust to turn the boat around if I fell out of it (this is not a metaphor - I really do mean tack and gybe), someone I can spar with intellectually, someone I'd be happy to spend an afternoon curled up with.

And yes, someone who has chemistry that matches mine, so that a single look can create the desired effect.

Bring it on!!

Errr...I mean, that's a really nice list of wants you have there.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 3:00:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: weaselwelder

For you to want what we want.

We want you to want to obey the commands we want to give. We want you to want to do for yourself what we don't want to do with you. Most of all, we want you to want us.

Simple and concise; I like that.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/10/2011 11:03:02 PM

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Obedience.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/11/2011 4:54:13 AM

salemartist

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cookies, I demand cookies woman! bake me cookies this instant!!!!

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/11/2011 5:25:15 AM

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I only bake in a 9x13 pan - will you accept brownies and/or blondies?

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/11/2011 6:36:40 AM

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He's always up for an apple pie. Or crisp. Or anything apple, really.

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RE: What does a Master want? - 1/11/2011 11:34:01 AM

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brownies are acceptable for now, but you must learn to make cookies!

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