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LadyPact -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 1:26:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: asubsydneymale I have been asked to take part in a play session that will have a period where there will be no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped, I want to and don't want to - what do you think ? I think you had better hope that you don't run into a sadist like Me who could ensure that you would never be so silly as to think you've got all of the bases covered by excluding just a few things. I'd set you up for a mind fuck that would scare you so bad that you'd never contemplate taking such a risk ever again.

MaxsGirl -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 1:54:36 PM)
LP, sometimes you make me wish I had a penis. [sm=crop.gif]

ricken -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 2:00:36 PM)
Yeah when I opened the thread I thought this..... quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] and thought the thread might be entertaining

Prinsexx -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 2:25:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: asubsydneymale quote: I have been asked to take part in a play session that will have a period where there will be no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped, I want to and don't want to - what do you think ? I think that the concept of limit is a function of relationship. By that I mean that in some relationships I have consented to no limits and in some I have negotiated a safe signal. My final word here is that I would not know what I was consenting to no matter how defined the activities if I did not know whom I was playing with. This may also be partially die to the fact that I don't do 'play' activities that are distinct from relationship. The closest I have come to that is when I have been 'loaned' as a submissive but then what I would term 'full rights' to limitations have been put in place. As a woman in the dominant position I am wary at the moment of submissive males who insist on no limits. It is not that I do not trust myself and my abilities to take responsibility but it feels rather odd to me at this time that submission is deemed better or greater because it is of a no limits nature. Is it a public play session? Is it someone you already know? Is it someone who is using this limited period of no limits as a test? If so as a test of whom? You? Or themnselves? Taking away the rights to limits under unknown conditions seems rather foolish, in my opinion and I would need to have those questions above answered before I could advise further or even have empathy with the situation.

LDVixen -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 2:32:12 PM)
LP makes me very glad I DON'T have a penis. Yikes. I would enjoy watching the sessions happen though. CBT torture brings out my inner sadist. Men make the best noises and turn all kinds of very pretty colors when you hurt their delicate bits. It's fun to watch it being done. Much more fun than watching females getting tortured, women in pain bothers me. Men in pain makes me wet. No limits sounds stupid if you don't know and trust the person with your life. Hell, there are people I wouldn't play with if there were lots of limits and a DM standing right there with a stun gun to make sure the rules were enforced.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 2:32:14 PM)
if they're people who basically have the same limits you do, then it's not really "no limits." a lot of "no limits" stuff (from relationships to play) is done with carefully selected people who have the same limits -- there ARE limits, but they're moot because they're shared. aside from those shared-yet-somehow-nonexistent-limits, "anything goes."

Prinsexx -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 3:25:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] A sound bite equivalent to twit my clit (if I remember correctly)

Prinsexx -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 3:31:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep if they're people who basically have the same limits you do, then it's not really "no limits." a lot of "no limits" stuff (from relationships to play) is done with carefully selected people who have the same limits -- there ARE limits, but they're moot because they're shared. aside from those shared-yet-somehow-nonexistent-limits, "anything goes." Very perceptive as no limits is actually an assumption based on what the othee (dominant) person defines as no limits. When you find out they have a hidden vanilla wife, or want to pimp you or have you starve yourself into shape??? Whereas we can all of us define what the boundaries of limits are it is logically impossible to define the boundary of 'no limits'. (Akin to defining infinity). That's why I stick to my principle of no limiys being a function of relationship, meaning knowing the other person.

BeautyDebased -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 7:50:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] lmao

BeautyDebased -> RE: no limits period (1/20/2011 7:54:24 PM)
That's how it is for Master and I, We share the same limits, so for us we say we don't have any, I don't need a safeword because he won't do anything I wouldn't be happy with, we have played this way since I was collared to him with no problems, however....if your playing with people you don't know, I wouldn't do it with no limits, too dangerous. Beauty.

mummyman321 -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 11:57:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I think you had better hope that you don't run into a sadist like Me who could ensure that you would never be so silly as to think you've got all of the bases covered by excluding just a few things. I'd set you up for a mind fuck that would scare you so bad that you'd never contemplate taking such a risk ever again. LadyP, I am not advocating the OP's idea. But that sounds really hot about now! :)

IrishMist -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 12:37:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] snicker quote: I'd set you up for a mind fuck that would scare you so bad that you'd never contemplate taking such a risk ever again. Dayum. That's fucking hot. [8D]

PeonForHer -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 12:46:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] Chortle. I was thinking of a joke on those lines myself. [;)]

LadyPact -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 1:13:07 PM)
Thanks, folks. Anything I can do to help. [sm=preen.gif]

DomImus -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 1:16:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW quote: no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped, These sound like limits to me. No limits to me, means "no exceptions." Limits come from the bottom/submissive. If I decide that none of those things will occur then that's that. I call the shots. If the bottom/submissive insists on these boundaries then they become limits. If a bottom/or submissive wants some activity really badly and I'm not interested then she can go find some service top to meet her needs.

tazzygirl -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 1:24:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] Chortle. I was thinking of a joke on those lines myself. [;)] Wouldnt a tampon be a limit? ~like others werent thinking the same thing

slavefinder30 -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 5:14:05 PM)
Can I point out, that the orginal post does in fact mention specific limits?

0ldhen -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 5:59:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....[8\|] lmao.....I had one of those until my wonderful GYN doc permantly burned the uterine wall. Now I have none. Thank you Thank you doc.

Sanguinarian -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 6:02:00 PM)
I jusr adore it when people tell me they have no limits. Gives me a chance to get out the chain saw, aim at a random limb and ask one more time: " You sure you got no limits now?" : snerks:

sinandhoney -> RE: no limits period (1/22/2011 6:15:59 PM)
Sounds a bit more like play with time of no safeword rather than no limits.

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