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LadyPact -> RE: Real Male Submissives vs "Do Me Submissives" (1/25/2011 8:09:44 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682
Well,lets just face it.There is cleary a discrimination against white male submissives,in particular.In and out of this lifestyle.When I read a Dommes website saying,"Thats it,I'm sick of men,all messages from males will be deleted!You real submissives can thank your male submissive friends for this".I have read more than enough Fem Domme profiles by now to notice this.There is clearly a double standard in this lifestyle when it comes to male submissive.
Yet,anytime a male submissive tries to bring up valid points like this,the "know it all" experts start looking down on this person and it dosent take long before the brown nosers to follow along.I am calling exactly as I see it.
Discrimination? Hardly. In fact, there are a number of Dominant women here who are specifically attracted to the males that you are putting in the category (white male submissives) that you say are the ones being looked down upon. While I'll firmly agree that it is a female's market, that's the nature of online. It's no different than non kink sites. On various threads, some of the articles from OKCupid say the very same thing. There's even a commercial on tv that is an E-Harmony ad that talks about the imbalance between men and women on that site. Add the kink interest on top of that, where there have always been more available males than Dominant females, it's a double whammy.
At the same time, there are absolutely male submissives who do very well here in the eyes of Dominant women. Without embarrassing anyone by using names, there are sub men who multiple Dominant women would pursue if they were local. I can promise you that, if I lived in the same city as a few of them, I'd be throwing My hat in the ring because of the impression that they have made on Me. Even if we weren't suited for a dynamic, I'd sure as heck want them as play partners or friends. (Sorry if I embarrassed anyone there, but I do have very fun thoughts about some of you gentlemen. Some of you gals, too, for that matter.)
You can call it looking down if you want, Charles, but in an online medium, your writing does count and you've had Dominant women tell you this. I honestly believe it is one of the reasons that you have difficulty. I'm not saying it to be mean, but when you repeatedly see women say that your posts are a problem due to spelling, grammar, and spacing, that's going to be an obstacle for you. I think it makes a small pool even smaller because I've read the various threads where women have commented that they do watch for such things in emails and will consider those things in a first impression. If you want to shoot yourself in your own foot on the matter, that's your business. Still, don't try to make it out to be some form of discrimination.
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