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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/5/2011 7:47:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have been military for over 20 years now so moving is normal for me. when i was looking i was only going to be local for about a year so i was not looking for a long relationship. but it turned out that it was what i found and now have been collared for 3 years now. i am looking to be stationed with near my Mistress. so i am willing to relocate to please my Mistress

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/6/2011 3:05:47 PM   
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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 2:48:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		A little off topic but hope not very much.

Some people seem to read into it. I don't have "Willing to relocate" on my profile, but because I'm in Colombia, some of the poeple I met on another countries thing that I'm crazy to relocate and that I'm here searching for a marriage to escape my country or something like that.


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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 8:41:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		And I'm "willing to relocate" because the type of work I do can be done while based about anywhere.
It would probably take between 1 and 2 years to sell the house and move all my traps, treasures, and infernal devices but I'd be willing to for the right situation. to me the right situation would be a compatible submissive that had family ties that precluded relocation or one who owned a property that would be more conducive to our lifestyle than the one I own.

I'm not tied to any particular region and only landed back in Mississippi when I came back to help with my mother once she became unable to care for herself. Gad, I thought I'd spend a year or so getting the house I inherited up to code and sell.. then the market tanked.

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:04:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		tazzygirl,

I kind of see where you are coming from. However, it can be a bit of a misconception. Just because somebody is willing to relocate does not mean it's to anywhere. There are factors such as career and the job market is in a given area. Geographical preferences along with Social-Economic factors all play a role.



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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:27:31 PM   
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LOL.. thanks for putting it into a quiet, succinct perspective for me, pyro! And i mean that honestly.

I was looking at it from the bottom side of the coin you offered. I didnt think about the top part ~ not to be confused with Top or bottom~.
It is entirely possible, for some of the basement dwellers to be decent people who lost their jobs as a result of this unfortunate economy.

I don't hold what has happened currently to the economy on the unfortunate people who represent the statistics.   I don't think one becomes less respectable, or less himself (Dom/sub) simply because of the unfortunate signs of the times.

My point, I guess is, does a dominant man (or woman), cease being dominant, when he looses his job?   If there is a connection, and relationship in progress, what would be so bad about him moving to where the submissive is, and seek employment there?  M


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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:30:54 PM   
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It is entirely possible, for some of the basement dwellers to be decent people who lost their jobs as a result of this unfortunate economy.

She has a touch of that myopic view I've referred to on another thread.


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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:37:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys
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It is entirely possible, for some of the basement dwellers to be decent people who lost their jobs as a result of this unfortunate economy.

She has a touch of that myopic view I've referred to on another thread.
Maybe... 
Everyone wants someone he/she can count on, maybe even depend on.   But if all things are equal, and one is simply unfortunate at the moment, that is hardly a reason to dismiss, an otherwise perfectly successful, benevolent, potential, because he may be currently  an unemployed human being IMO.    M

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:48:54 PM   
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Maybe... 
Everyone wants someone he/she can count on, maybe even depend on.   But if all things are equal, and one is simply unfortunate at the moment, that is hardly a reason to dismiss, an otherwise perfectly successful, benevolent, potential, because he may be currently  an unemployed human being IMO.    M



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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:49:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

It is entirely possible, for some of the basement dwellers to be decent people who lost their jobs as a result of this unfortunate economy.

She has a touch of that myopic view I've referred to on another thread.



You are not all that good at bullying. What you are also displaying is the lack of dominance you claim to possess.

Personally, I expect better of men who claim to be in control of themselves.

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 9:54:35 PM   
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Maybe...
Everyone wants someone he/she can count on, maybe even depend on. But if all things are equal, and one is simply unfortunate at the moment, that is hardly a reason to dismiss, an otherwise perfectly successful, benevolent, potential, because he may be currently an unemployed human being IMO. M


Who said anything about dismissing? I certainly did not. I said the words made me pause. I am entitled to such feelings and decided to discover how others felt, without making a judgement call.

Everyone in this lifestyle views situations from different perspectives. Few know mine, as I do not know yours.

You may imply what you wish, but a few questions, such as the questions I asked in the OP, may bring about a time of enlightenment... IMHO.

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/8/2011 10:14:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
I said the words made me pause. I am entitled to such feelings and decided to discover how others felt, without making a judgement call.
Of course you are entitled to your feelings.   Regarding the judgentent, it was the pause that made me wonder.

quote:

Everyone in this lifestyle views situations from different perspectives. Few know mine, as I do not know yours.   You may imply what you wish, but a few questions, such as the questions I asked in the OP, may bring about a time of enlightenment... IMHO.
Agreed, that I need to know what situation a boy is in, and how he got there before considering him.   So yes, your questions bring about information.   I just don't want a man to feel like he needs to be able to carry me financially, in order to approach me.   Just as I don't want a man to fail to approach me, if he has all the qualities, and is hard working, but is currently jobless.   Not inviting the jobless, as much as saying, if he knows he is hardworking, kind, sensible, and a smart human being, I can wait for him to get a job.     M

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/9/2011 7:29:30 AM   
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You are not all that good at bullying.

That's because I don't engage in that like you do. As for the rest of what you've said..It isn't worth a single worry over.


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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/9/2011 7:40:08 PM   
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I'm listed as willing to relocate because I don't really like to stay in one place more than 6 months to a year no matter what, and I don't make the kind of employment commitments that keep me tied down for just that reason. It isn't a power trip for me to make someone move across the country to serve me because I'd take more pleasure in seeing a new place than staying where I am anyway.

That said, I can see where people might be coming from with the idea that a dom willing to move far away from their life to acquiesce to a sub they don't have any connection to might be somewhat less than overpoweringly dominant. I guess people can draw whatever conclusions they like from my profile lol.
I was going to say, some people just like to move around, and there ya are.

More common among younger people of course, but I know a lot of people who travel and stay with people they met on the internet, even from different countries, I don't know why d/s should be any different.

Maybe 'cause we're PERVS!

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/9/2011 9:28:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the OP, I'm a domme who put willing to relocate on my profile because 1) I hate where I live. Been living here all my life and wanted to get the hell out of dodge. 2) not many friends to keep me tied here, although my family doesn't want me to leave (sucks for them). 3) I can transfer my job pretty much anywhere as it's not a career and I love adventure, so moving somewhere new would feel great for me. I happened to find with my "willing to relocate" profile a sub in Canada and will be moving north of  the border soon. I'm not a freeloader, just a free spirit who wanted out of the ho hum city I grew up in.

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/9/2011 9:34:08 PM   
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<----- Has relocated till mid March.

Funny, the girl does have a basement in her house... I have yet to see it but I do hear the echo through the floor.


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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/9/2011 9:36:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		The talk of a "creep meter" has given me a minor epiphany... I could really peg some "creep meters"...

"Have toy hauler RV with back section outfitted for use as a dungeon when the motorcycle is not there. I can park in your driveway."

Does that peg the "creep meter".... <trying for evil grin but end up giggling>

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RE: "Willing to relocate" - 2/10/2011 6:06:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MercTech

The talk of a "creep meter" has given me a minor epiphany... I could really peg some "creep meters"...

"Have toy hauler RV with back section outfitted for use as a dungeon when the motorcycle is not there. I can park in your driveway."

Does that peg the "creep meter".... <trying for evil grin but end up giggling>

Stefan


Actually sounds like fun... Even more fun if you bring the motorcycle!

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