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RE: Online Play? - 1/30/2011 3:34:38 AM

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Online Play.. is it worth it? From my experience online play can be a great way to expend some kinky energy

I guess , yes....
But not with strangers. But I don't mind when I am away for work..to flirt some with my slave.

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RE: Online Play? - 1/30/2011 3:40:03 AM

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For me it would never work either with a stranger or someone I know.

If it is someone I have not met, I would not be into them enough to play online.

If I already know them, I can wait till I see them again.

Now flirting, etc. that is all good online, but not play in the way I understand play.

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RE: Online Play? - 1/30/2011 6:01:35 PM

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I guess some people enjoy it.

I'm not even interested in trying. It holds no interest for me. Of interest, in that, I have none. Phone sex can be fun with someone when you are on a business trip or something. A little flirting online is okay.

However I don't feel I've like I've had a good meal by reading a menu.

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RE: Online Play? - 1/31/2011 12:04:21 AM

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Never tried it, but it does not sound appealing to me.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/1/2011 3:27:47 PM

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i don't have much experience with online play but the little i have has been fun and rewarding. Would definitely be up for a new experience online...could prove to be interesting and exciting. Sounds like for people as busy as many of us are it could fulfill at least some of Our fantasies, fetishes and be FUN.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/1/2011 3:33:09 PM

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If I honestly wasn't ready to get innocent vegetables and put them to nefarious purposes, it wouldn't serve any purpose except a destructive one to say I was doing it while I was actually filing my nails.

Where's Sunny? I nominate this for her quote of the day!

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RE: Online Play? - 2/1/2011 3:50:36 PM

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Yes on-line is worth it. Yes RLife is worth it.
They are not mutually exclusive. If you meet on-line and it is a LDR
then on-line it needs be at the outset.
A relationship can be 24/7 and adn online RTime mix.
Even if I were married into a 24/7 D/s relationship I would insist
on long periods spent apart: for creative reasons.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/1/2011 3:52:49 PM

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If I honestly wasn't ready to get innocent vegetables and put them to nefarious purposes, it wouldn't serve any purpose except a destructive one to say I was doing it while I was actually filing my nails.

Where's Sunny? I nominate this for her quote of the day!

Minnestroni soup?

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RE: Online Play? - 2/1/2011 4:18:01 PM

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I kind of want to start online as a way to as some people put it, ease into the lifestyle. I find that being online is a way to kind of meet lots of people and take things slow and learn about it all before one takes it to real life. that way when one starts a real life experience, they have some online experience and can apply some of that to the real thing. I think it just makes things easier this way. But that is my opinion and kind of how I plan on doing things. Hopefully find a sub who is new and or experienced and wants to do an online relationship.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/2/2011 4:39:46 PM

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Personally I wouldn't be interested in a relationship which was based online.

I can understand if two people are apart for any reason it may be the best way to communicate, but (again I stress for me) I don't feel that should be long term, and most certainly not the main part of the relationship. I'm far too tactile for that!

Neither of us have any interest in 'playing' online, but we are happy to chat with new subs until they feel comfortable enough to meet. In fact it can be quite useful to chat a while as we can then find out if they'll be compatible with us, and vice versa.

So... for us online has its uses, but not in a sexual or play context.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/5/2011 4:22:52 PM

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Nothin beats RL, but when it isn't near, the Online works pretty good too. I feel if I had an Online Mistress, I would do what I was told. Why bother if you not going to co-operate 100 percent? The is no FUN in it, and I always feel as the Mistress should have as much FUN, as me, or it wouldn't be worth it.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/5/2011 6:32:18 PM

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Heck no! Why would anyone waste time doing a "virtual" version of experiences they can embark on in real life?

I think the Internet and computers are a great way to meet people, but a poor substitute for live human contact and interaction. I understand the situation when you find someone hot in Croatia and you're in Cleveland, but... would you want to eat a virtual filet mignon?

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RE: Online Play? - 2/5/2011 7:17:01 PM

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Better than playing sexually on line (too much energy expended typing or cleaning up the KB after), have a suitable nakid woman kneeling at you feet whilst you lay back in the lounge chair and after stroking your cock and balls as you submerge yourself in your fantasy before she pounces and locks her jaws on your tally-wacker and taking a deep breath, starts to suck your Sav. off until your head caves in.... That way it's a win/win situation and you have had the best orgasm you'll ever have, (Unless you are a sick fucker and get a blow job using a milking machine).....(There was something I read about pasturised(sp) milk.)

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RE: Online Play? - 2/20/2011 11:06:19 AM

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I love RP online. Its fun and hassle free. It gets the imagination flowing and let me explore new things that I may want to try in real life.

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RE: Online Play? - 2/20/2011 6:25:59 PM

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Online Play.. is it worth it?

Greetings,

No, it isn't my forte but I'm certain there are quite a few that enjoy it. As for the fantasy, that is something I'm perfectly capable of replicating on my own. I don't consider travel a hassle especially if the other party is local.

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Everything you have a submissive do , he is doing to himself. The only pressure he is under is that of a web cam person and the clock on the wall.

I'm not keen on self administered pain. It does little for me. As for the web cam, I generally keep that to myself. For obvious reasons.

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Its missing that in person interaction which is the best. Also can you really trust what the other says and does. As soon as soon signs off they could go and do whatever they want..

Trust is a little iffy considering the fact that the stream can be recorded without the other party's knowledge.

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Is online play really worth the energy?

I see little possibility in it for myself. However, if my partner told me to switch on my cam it's a go. I'm an obedient girl.

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RE: Online Play? - 4/1/2011 1:49:23 AM

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i really like online play. i have not even had full intercourse real life (im 19) and online stuff is a way 4 me to realsise what i like. i dont like the contempt that a lot of people seem to have. we all have to experiment and learn ! dont diss me just coz im young and not experienced.

i think its wrong though to say that things cant be enforced. the other person can always end it and thats pretty powerful. the sub can take photos of whats done, and write every day: 500 words, 1000 words, 2000 words. it soon adds up to being like a real llife submission (although i have not done with a person yet).

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RE: Online Play? - 4/1/2011 4:44:19 AM

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Not my kink. Not entirely closed to it, but there's a visceral component to a knife cutting through flesh or my teeth at someone's throat that's irreplaceable.

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RE: Online Play? - 4/1/2011 5:02:47 AM

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You asked "Is it worth it?" Well, that's a question that only you can answer. Everyone is different. You've probably noticed that from the replies that you've already received.

You really have to look deep inside YOURSELF to see what it is that you're looking for. This is a topic that has come up many times in the past. So if you do a search, you can find many more comments/opinions on the issue. However, ultimately only your own opinion is going to be relevant.

Personally, I think that on-line is a good way to meet someone, but I prefer to move to real-life as quickly as possible. A D/s relationship that is strictly on-line seems too much like masturbation to me.

I have a friend who has been in a D/s relationship for almost 5 years. She lives in Ohio, and her Dom lives in Germany. They both seem to be happy with the arrangement. But frankly, I have problems with it. The issue that I have is that they have never met face-to-face during the entire 5 years, nor has he given her any indication that he plans to come see her in the foreseeable future. Yet, he forbids her from seeing anyone else. She is in her early 40's now. She was 36 when they got together. IMO, she is wasting valuable years that she could have spent with someone who could actually touch her and spend time with her. But she hasn't complained, so I stay out of it.

So as I said earlier, you have to look within YOURSELF and ask what are you looking for. If on-line can provide that, then you have your answer. If it can't provide that, then you also have your answer.

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RE: Online Play? - 4/1/2011 5:39:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: Darktra151
Online Play.. is it worth it?

Nope. Every time I try to fuck my computer, I keep slamming my cock through the monitor. This is a problem because:
1-Monitors are expensive and I have a high sex drive.
2-The ask weird questions in the ER when you arrive with a glass lacerated willy

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RE: Online Play? - 4/1/2011 5:55:30 AM

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re reading all the posts i think for me it worked as i used secondlife. i dont think i would ahve got to grips with online if it was the chatrooms etc. sl gives you a visual.

but the main thing is trust and you need to be able to trust each other. when online i wouldnt have dreamed of disobaying asit would not be a relationship if i had done.

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