hausboy -> RE: Domestically inclined? (2/3/2011 3:53:51 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep . how about disorganization, everyone? How do you deal with clutter around the house, on your desk, in your car, etc etc? I have been on a spiritual path of minimalizatiion for over a year now. When I started, I was a hardcore packrat, clutterbug, save everything kind of guy. In one year, I reduced my clutter/belongings by 50% but it took a conscious, focused effort. I cleared out the front room of my basement enough so that I had 4 usable, marked corners. One marked: KEEP, one marked DONATE/FREECYLE/SELL, one marked TRASH/DUMP and one marked DECIDE I tackle one room at time, one spot at a time. If the object/item has not been worn/used/read/played with/etc. in the past 2 years, it automatically goes into the Donate corner. If it's clearly broken and unfit for freecycle/donation, then it goes to the Dump/trash. The "keep" corner must ALWAYS be the smallest corner of all 4. DECIDE corner must be "ruled" upon in 30 days. For objects--I look/hold the object. How does it make me feel? why do I have it? Why am I keeping it? I tend to associate feelings/memories with objects, so I had to really examine each item and determine if it was adding to my life by keeping it, or could it go live in someone else's life now, having fulfilled its purpose in mine. Objects that brought up sad, angry, hurt and any other negative emotions went in either the donate pile, or I have a small "too-hot-to-handle" box that I'll deal with when I'm ready. I'm eliminating "duplicate" items....and trying to stick to functional, purposeful things. It's been difficult, but I know it will be worth it. I decluttered my living room, dining room and kitchen. My bedroom is almost done, and I've just got the office, guest room and the remaining basement items to go. About another year should do it!
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