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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 12:52:58 PM   
PeonForHer


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Peon, I can understand where you are coming from. Was money and something that obvious involved? Someone lying about how they present themselves is different than someone trying to get into your wallet. That is more clear than anything I can think of at the moment. It isn't you they are interested in, but your wallet. It's kind of hard to get confused when they openly admit, they want the money. I wish all people that lied about themselves were that obvious. One can invest a lot of time to play out a lie... and they don't openly admit what they are doing, such as in this situation.



Lockit, to me, the brightest and coolest people on the planet have some weakness or another. People can be sharp and wise in all ways but just one, and it's that one that the con-artist will go for. Possibly the commonest weaknesses of all, again even amongst the super-sharp, are those that relate to romantic feelings. I myself have been a total berk in that regard many times before, and I'm sure I will again.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 12:54:19 PM   
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Sure, but there are many different ways to phrase "idiot".

You mean as you just did in post #32? 

Plus, you're exactly right.  On any given day, some folks will pat a person on the head, no matter how silly they are being.  Others won't.  Had the poster not been a mature adult, who by all rights has probably been on the internet before, on a site where there's  specific information about such things, I'm willing to bet there would have been much more of the former, rather than the latter.


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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 12:55:51 PM   
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Possibly the commonest weaknesses of all, again even amongst the super-sharp, are those that relate to romantic feelings. I myself have been a total berk in that regard many times before, and I'm sure I will again.


We need to form "Fuckwits When In Love/Cuntstruck Anonymous" :)

I'd sign up, day one.

You can be Grand High Poobah :)


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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:00:06 PM   
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Peon, I can understand where you are coming from. Was money and something that obvious involved? Someone lying about how they present themselves is different than someone trying to get into your wallet. That is more clear than anything I can think of at the moment. It isn't you they are interested in, but your wallet. It's kind of hard to get confused when they openly admit, they want the money. I wish all people that lied about themselves were that obvious. One can invest a lot of time to play out a lie... and they don't openly admit what they are doing, such as in this situation.



Lockit, to me, the brightest and coolest people on the planet have some weakness or another. People can be sharp and wise in all ways but just one, and it's that one that the con-artist will go for. Possibly the commonest weaknesses of all, again even amongst the super-sharp, are those that relate to romantic feelings. I myself have been a total berk in that regard many times before, and I'm sure I will again.


I agree and have been guilty of this in some manner. You are ignorant, low on something, miss something or you lie to yourself in some manner, at some point or you fall into someone with good game. The difference here is that the OP stated what the woman said and did and it was obvious she was interested in one thing. Submissive men with money to hand over to her without anything given on her part unless they did as she said... then I don't know what the deal was because that wasn't information that was given. On the information given, it isn't hard to see what her interests were.


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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:09:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for your reply.  I actually changed the background color to plain white.  Can you read the text now?

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:10:09 PM   
PeonForHer


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All right, Lockit, I'll give you the God's honest:

I could make mistakes like those of the OP one day, only worse. I'll be older, uglier, lonelier, more desperate. At the same time I'll be expected to be more dignified and more together. In fact, forget 'could', I *know* that I will fuck up in this way in the future.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:11:28 PM   
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You can be Grand High Poobah :)



Heh. I already am.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:12:44 PM   
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Thanks for your reply.  I actually changed the background color to plain white.  Can you read the text now?



You should get rid of the MystressWorld plug, IMO.
ETA: They don't have a stellar rep.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:13:19 PM   
RapierFugue


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You can be Grand High Poobah :)



Heh. I already am.

heh.

"The things we do for love ..."

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:16:51 PM   
PeonForHer


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Jersey, please *do not* have anything to do with frigging MystressWorld. They are the worst of the lot. They will flatter your mind till it turns to butter and then relieve you of what pennies are still left in your pocket.

I'm developing a bloody migraine.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:20:11 PM   
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All right, Lockit, I'll give you the God's honest:

I could make mistakes like those of the OP one day, only worse. I'll be older, uglier, lonelier, more desperate. At the same time I'll be expected to be more dignified and more together. In fact, forget 'could', I *know* that I will fuck up in this way in the future.


If you say so... you do know yourself far more than I do, yet... having seen you come here and your first days and how you have evolved since then... and knowing you have a great deal of time before you are any of those things... I give you credit for more growth in the meantime and don't happen to think you will.


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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:24:04 PM   
RapierFugue


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MystressWorld.


Wassat then? Online Pro Domme sort of thing?

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I'm developing a bloody migraine.


Nurse! More booze for this one! Apply grog til he cheers up ;)

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:25:58 PM   
PeonForHer


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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 1:33:32 PM   
PeonForHer


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Wassat then? Online Pro Domme sort of thing?


Yup, but set up as a sort of 'sub-training' outfit. Hell do they make you feel special. That bit more special, that bit more, your head's now at full inflation - and then, pop, it's 'front us the money' time.

In fairness, some don't call them a con outfit but . . . how shall I put it . . . their techniques are precisely those of some of the best con artists I've seen. I have suggested before that they might want to change said techniques lest they, tragically, get mistaken for con artists.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 2:20:11 PM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		Did you ever ask her out for a drink or dinner?  Or did you just ask if she would beat you, than put you away in a corner?   I don't know how you approached her, and how it came to be that she wanted $250 before agreeing to meet you.  
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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 3:44:01 PM   
jerseyboy06


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Status: offline 		I had told her it was quite a bit of money for "consideration" and she said it was not a lot of money for a one-time tribute.  But no, I didn't mention dinner.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 3:45:50 PM   
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Thanks for your reply.  I actually changed the background color to plain white.  Can you read the text now?

It's readable...but from what I've read from Dommes won't be terribly effective. Check out the FAQs and threads in this section and especially posts from LadyPact and LadyNTrainer, who made some particularly good suggestions recently that I can't find.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 3:47:21 PM   
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Yup, but set up as a sort of 'sub-training' outfit. Hell do they make you feel special. That bit more special, that bit more, your head's now at full inflation - and then, pop, it's 'front us the money' time.

In fairness, some don't call them a con outfit but . . . how shall I put it . . . their techniques are precisely those of some of the best con artists I've seen. I have suggested before that they might want to change said techniques lest they, tragically, get mistaken for con artists.


Are they supposed to be a charity then? Or is it labelled as a business?

ETA: That's not a piss-take, BTW - I genuinely don't know how they're "pitching" themselves.

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 3:52:08 PM   
jerseyboy06


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Status: offline 		Wow, had no idea people would start arguing and bickering.  People thanks for your advice.  It's unfortunate some  have to throw in their little insult jabs at me but I am finding it all entertaining.

Is it really this difficult to find a domme to serve?

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RE: Dommes demanding a large tribute from a sub just to... - 2/5/2011 3:55:16 PM   
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Is it really this difficult to find a domme to serve?

On such a reliable, consistent, trustworthy place as the internet? Yes. Yes, it is.

What did you expect?

(ETA: actually, that's a serious question. What is it that people expect from a site like CM and the majority of the demographics it's likely to attract?)

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