MissEmery
Posts: 13
Joined: 2/5/2011 Status: offline
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Don't pay anyone to be considered. I ask my subs for a small monthly tribute. It's like a small car payment, not a large car payment, and not a house payment. It pays for fetish wear, dungeon gear, travel, their training devices, and harnesses, and etcetera. It also extends my Domination into another area of their life. If they think their cable TV bill is more important than me, then whom do they really wish to serve? That said, I don't ask new subs to send me cash for no reason. I think it is reasonable for you to give your Mistress a monthly gift/tribute, but she isn't your Mistress. She's a stranger asking for a gift card. If you really want to give those away, there are plenty of charities that would benefit from your generosity. I also would be happy to have a sub hand over his finances, but if I accepted that responsibility, I would also seek to manage an investment portfolio for him. Leadership, by definition, is an act of service. I am Dominant, but I am aware that my subs need a Dominant Mistress. The first person one must maintain control over is one's self.
< Message edited by MissEmery -- 2/7/2011 12:20:48 AM >
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