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How well would some appreciate it when meeting a guy who means it about something less than appealing or "soft". The "My way or the highway" love would no doubt turn into..This guy is an asshole!Not picking on you Bita..it just made me think...The whole do as I say thing works great most days except when the other person doesn't dig what's being said.

I've only met a few women that "sucked it up" gracefully.

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This makes me sad in the good kind of way FT. I miss my love. He's been in the hospital for a week, *nothing serious* but I can't wait to get him out Sunday and spend the day just doing..because he says so. Thanks for posting this.

melancholy aynne....

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I have pulled several posts from this thread. Please continue and keep the thread on topic.

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Because she said so!

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How well would some appreciate it when meeting a guy who means it about something less than appealing or "soft". The "My way or the highway" love would no doubt turn into..This guy is an asshole!

Not picking on you Bita..it just made me think...The whole do as I say thing works great most days except when the other person doesn't dig what's being said.

I've only met a few women that "sucked it up" gracefully.

and they wonder why all the twue doms are single

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I wanted to say this, so glad that you did. When you have heard my way or the highway from someone who never heard the words compromise, flexibilty, unselfishness, etc. then, yes, it is grounds for saying, Ok, on my way to the highway to find someone who actually cares about what I think enough to engage in a conversation about whatever it is the topic is about.

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Troll, love your second post on this thread. Just had to say it.

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The girl smiled and graciously accepted the gift, because I said so.
The girl cleaned the house spotless because I said so.
The girl washed and waxed the car because I said so.
The girl rested on the couch while I cooked dinner, because I said so.
The girl bathed and shaved me,  because I said so.
The girl curled up in bed and I kissed her most the night... she did this, accepted this and loved this... because I said so.

This makes me sad in the good kind of way FT. I miss my love. He's been in the hospital for a week, *nothing serious* but I can't wait to get him out Sunday and spend the day just doing..because he says so. Thanks for posting this.

melancholy aynne....

Jus because you are so prettiful an missing him so much... go fukin cook dinner girl!

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This makes me sad in the good kind of way FT. I miss my love. He's been in the hospital for a week, *nothing serious* but I can't wait to get him out Sunday and spend the day just doing..because he says so. Thanks for posting this.

melancholy aynne....

Thanks so much Oldhen, that means a lot. He will be fine, appreciate the kind words so much.. I love this thread, it's a wonderful reminder that sometimes it's so easy to let go and just do, not think. That is what finding a good man ( or woman) enables me to do, not overthink everything, and find peace in the release of just doing for someone that you know has your best interests in mind. I am feeling very blessed and appreciative tonight.

So sorry to hear this hon, hugs from an oldhen.

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Thanks so much Oldhen, that means a lot. He will be fine, appreciate the kind words so much.. I love this thread, it's a wonderful reminder that sometimes it's so easy to let go and just do, not think. That is what finding a good man ( or woman) enables me to do, not overthink everything, and find peace in the release of just doing for someone that you know has your best interests in mind. I am feeling very blessed and appreciative tonight.

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Thanks darling FT I got home about an hour ago from visiting, they let me stay late, I brought the nurses donuts . So I made dinner for the bunnies and I had toast, because you said so! *mwah*

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No negotiations?  What kind of Dominant are you?   A fake one I say!  Did she have a safeword, and used it when you began cooking?     M

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The girl rested on the couch while I cooked dinner, because I said so.

The bold took me the longest time and was the hardest part of actually submitting for me to learn. I think it has to do with the whole job security thing. If the Man Unit is going to take on my tasks what's left for me to do? I did get over it eventually when I figured out it really was *his* way or the highway.

The 'my way or the highway' is truly the only sort of M/s dynamic I can comfortably wrap my head around. I just had to get used to being with someone who meant it.

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i have to say, i absolutely loved the original post here! this could absolutely describe my relationship with D...well...except for the waxing the car thing...

but...for every time i've cooked dinner for D, he's cooked dinner for me while i sat and watched. he loves to cook. although i always do the clean up afterwards. but even when i'm washing dishes, sometimes he'll come and dry, just because he wants to. and i love every second of it.

i do a lot of the 'traditional' sub role chores around the house - ie, cleaning. but when we shower together, he washes me, because he loves making me all wet in so many ways...

and not once have i ever thought that he shouldn't be doing any of those things. not because i was thinking 'because he says so'...but because i know what he enjoys, and i love seeing that enjoyment on his face. that smile, that look in his eyes...that is my raison d'etre.

my focus is on him, not on the things i do for him. and anyone who has ever seen me on the floor, giggling my ass off at him, all covered with flour as he bakes...would totally understand that!

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I wanted to say this, so glad that you did. When you have heard my way or the highway from someone who never heard the words compromise, flexibilty, unselfishness, etc. then, yes, it is grounds for saying, Ok, on my way to the highway to find someone who actually cares about what I think enough to engage in a conversation about whatever it is the topic is about.

Welcome back.

In your case I would fit everything you've just said. I would not be flexible or compromise with someone like yourself much less have gotten myself into a situation where I would have to contemplate those things with you. For arguments sake..I would have driven you to the highway in timely fashion.

Just wanted to add this and I'm off to bed for what's to be no doubt yet another good night's rest!..There are a number of females on this forum that I know if I'm eliciting negatives responses from tell me that I am on the right track with my comments..not that I spend my time gauging anything I do against the likes of those to begin with when it comes down to the nitty gritty but it's also not an entirely a bad thing to feel the direction of the wind sometimes. Refreshing!

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I wanted to say this, so glad that you did. When you have heard my way or the highway from someone who never heard the words compromise, flexibilty, unselfishness, etc. then, yes, it is grounds for saying, Ok, on my way to the highway to find someone who actually cares about what I think enough to engage in a conversation about whatever it is the topic is about.

Welcome back.

In your case I would fit everything you've just said. I would not be flexible or compromise with someone like yourself much less have gotten myself into a situation where I would have to contemplate those things with you. For arguments sake..I would have driven you to the highway in timely fashion.

Just wanted to add this and I'm off to bed for what's to be no doubt yet another good night's rest!..There are a number of females on this forum that I know if I'm eliciting negatives responses from tell me that I am on the right track with my comments..not that I spend my time gauging anything I do against the likes of those to begin with when it comes down to the nitty gritty but it's also not an entirely a bad thing to feel the direction of the wind sometimes. Refreshing!

I seriously don't get what you wrote. I was agreeing with you, and you seemed to take that as a negative and then make it personal about what you would do with me. You obviously, did not understand what I said and you chose once again to be a douchebag.

I will refrain from every agreeing with you again, not that it happens more than once in a blue moon.

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The whole do as I say thing works great most days except when the other person doesn't dig what's being said.