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RE: Yes, Yes, I know another Punishment Question - 3/1/2011 7:08:14 PM

LPslittleclip

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for me i do not wish to misbehave but i do get overexcited at times and may need to be reminded. i will avoid being punished as it is unpleasant to me and limits the time spent with my Mistress i am a masso slave but there is no association with punishment and play.

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RE: Yes, Yes, I know another Punishment Question - 3/2/2011 4:07:17 PM

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I am fairly new to being a Master, but our punishment dynamic was set up in part because my slave craved it. I am somewhat of a softie, though in general sexual ways I enjoy inflicting pleasure/pain. So the idea of punishment for the sake of her refusing or confusing an order didn't really appeal to me. But since she desires the structure, I have found ways to use the punishments to get things that I enjoy or that secretly, she does too. In a lot of ways, I have noticed that the rules and punishments that I have set up, even though there are very few, have brought us closer and taught us more about each other. I think it depends on how people want to establish their relationships and the level of dominance. Sometimes, I get that she wants to be punished for some reason or another, so on those instances, the punishment is usually softer than accidental disobedience. It tells her that I see through her ploys for the attention that she craves. But since I started regular canings alternated with ignoring her, she rarely disobeys anymore because she isn't sure which she will receive. But if she truly makes me angry, I just walk away and cool down. I don't give her a chance to provoke a violent response in me where I am not in control anymore.

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