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Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 2:33:33 PM   
salemartist


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Status: offline 		It seems like a pet peave to me but maybe its not...
All too often when speaking to a submissive woman via text, email, phone or even CM messages, she will respond to a message saying "yes Master" to me this is a bit presumtious having not even met me face to face. I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect, but if I have never looked down at you with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master!
is it just me?

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 2:36:00 PM   
62704


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Status: offline 		Nope, not just you. And if you slap them around to get them to stop, they just keep at it.

I'm kidding. Mostly.

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 2:43:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nope, not you. I imagine it's the same feeling we s-types feel when someone's calling us "slut" or "slave" for no reason. =p Presumption is the name of the game.



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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 2:45:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I accept it from Goreans, for whom that's the standard address for male Doms. But I haven't heard it from others.

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 2:46:45 PM   
FukinTroll


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Status: offline 		Well... here we go... hold on to your seats, put your seat back and tray tables in the locked and upright position...

No matter what boy/girl X identifies as, there is still a degree of submission that is like a planned family vacation with pit stops painted on with colored markers. What you have experienced is called the seduction station; this is the part where he/she is grooming your ego to figure out if you are what he/she really wants. So lemme give you the break down:

Identify as X:
Seductive labeling: As described above.
Tentative Bottom: You are still doing the dance here to figure shit out.
Bottom: Willing to do some kinky shit/explore the dynamic.
Tentative submissive: Yep, got nuff trust to start gettin serious here.
Submissive: Things are clicking but he/she is still on their own agenda.
Tentative slave: You're agenda is looking pretty good but he/she is still gauging how much you appreciate and respect them as a person/dynamic partner.
Slave: You have taken out all your freaks and monsters and they all like fukin his/her freaks and monsters, you are clicking and meshing on every level, he/she trusts you implicitly and he/she surrenders completely to you, trusting that you will provide and meet all his/her needs, maybe not all the wants, but the needs are assured.

YMMV
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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 2:54:27 PM   
kalikshama


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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:02:40 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect


Well HUH. (translation: Isn't that interesting?)

And here I thought it was only people of the scamming ilk that did that. Do they call themselves "it" as well?


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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:06:22 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Ain't nothing submissive about somebody saying to you the very thing you don't want them to say. Come on, now.

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:14:15 PM   
sirssubk2008


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

Nope, not you. I imagine it's the same feeling we s-types feel when someone's calling us "slut" or "slave" for no reason. =p Presumption is the name of the game.



^^^ definitely agree.
It could be that some s-types have become so conditioned that it is an automatic response.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:14:36 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: salemartist

I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect, but if I have never looked down at you with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master! is it just me?


Greetings,

I have always found it odd when a gentleman addresses me as girl, slave, or little one. Particularly when we have no connection and have never conversed in the past. Although I don't care for it, I maintain my composure and usually indicate in a polite manner that porcelaine is fine. It isn't something I'm willing to debate or get worked up about. On the flip side, I do not utilize honorifics when I'm speaking to them unless he's involved with someone I'm acquainted with or we have established a rapport that dictates that form of address.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:16:20 PM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: salemartist

It seems like a pet peave to me


My pet peeve is people who can't spell "peeve".

Ironic or fucking what?

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:17:36 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I have said this before and I'll say it again:

I dont care what you call me slave, hell, you can call me cocksucker if warranted.

As in "Hey, cocksucker, I told you three days ago to take that garbage out cuz how am I gonna do it naked collared and chained in 40 below zero weather fuckin snowbank up to my tits, fuckface?"

It must be firmly kept in your mind however; that I demand you do it with awe and respect, for I am your Master.

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:23:34 PM   
porcelaine


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

As in "Hey, cocksucker, I told you three days ago to take that garbage out cuz how am I gonna do it naked collared and chained in 40 below zero weather fuckin snowbank up to my tits, fuckface?"


~lol~

That's one of those instances when you think it but keep your mouth shut.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:25:41 PM   
FukinTroll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

As in "Hey, cocksucker, I told you three days ago to take that garbage out cuz how am I gonna do it naked collared and chained in 40 below zero weather fuckin snowbank up to my tits, fuckface?"


~lol~

That's one of those instances when you think it but keep your mouth shut.

Namaste,

~porcelaine



The /s keeping their mouths shut around Ron is a hard limit for him.

SLURP~


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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 3:41:31 PM   
NihilusZero


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

Identify as X:
Seductive labeling: As described above.
Tentative Bottom: You are still doing the dance here to figure shit out.
Bottom: Willing to do some kinky shit/explore the dynamic.
Tentative submissive: Yep, got nuff trust to start gettin serious here.
Submissive: Things are clicking but he/she is still on their own agenda.
Tentative slave: You're agenda is looking pretty good but he/she is still gauging how much you appreciate and respect them as a person/dynamic partner.
Slave: You have taken out all your freaks and monsters and they all like fukin his/her freaks and monsters, you are clicking and meshing on every level, he/she trusts you implicitly and he/she surrenders completely to you, trusting that you will provide and meet all his/her needs, maybe not all the wants, but the needs are assured.

YMMV
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That's pretty damn good.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 4:38:37 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect, but if I have never looked down at you with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master!
is it just me?
It has already been said in this thread, but this happens to submissives as well...addressed by a dominant as Sub, Slut,
Girl, etc. Speaking only for myself...those terms float like a box of rocks.

Since many "Dominants" insist on being addressed as Sir or Master immediately, perhaps the submissive simply does not know how to address you?


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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 5:02:18 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll


Submissive: Things are clicking but he/she is still on their own agenda.




Can I hope this is a joke? Please dear God?
Oh yeah, I've been with him for over eight years and it's still all about my agenda and to hell with him. Because I'm only a self centered sub and incapable of committing and giving over power to a dom.


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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 5:17:27 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

The /s keeping their mouths shut around Ron is a hard limit for him.


True. He is the gobble gobble guru.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 5:55:17 PM   
FukinTroll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll


Submissive: Things are clicking but he/she is still on their own agenda.




Can I hope this is a joke? Please dear God?
Oh yeah, I've been with him for over eight years and it's still all about my agenda and to hell with him. Because I'm only a self centered sub and incapable of committing and giving over power to a dom.



I am so sorry you missed the YMMV part.

Here, have a Valium.


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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/1/2011 6:12:29 PM   
sweetsub1957


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Status: offline 		Oh my. So is comparing this.......
quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll
Submissive: Things are clicking but he/she is still on their own agenda.

To this.......
quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll
Tentative slave: You're agenda is looking pretty good but he/she is still gauging how much you appreciate and respect them as a person/dynamic partner.
Slave: You have taken out all your freaks and monsters and they all like fukin his/her freaks and monsters, you are clicking and meshing on every level, he/she trusts you implicitly and he/she surrenders completely to you, trusting that you will provide and meet all his/her needs, maybe not all the wants, but the needs are assured.

.....saying that submissives are self-centered and all about themselves and somehow slaves, even tentative slaves, are inherently selfless, better commodities and more committed than submissives? Gee, I hope not. That would be like saying that somehow "Masters" are inherently more Dominant and capable of leadership than "Doms" and Doms are yet another step above "Tops." Whatever.

~sweetsub~

P.S. Did someone say valium? haha Just kidding.

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