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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/3/2011 5:57:16 PM

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You had me at "Hello, cumslut."

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/3/2011 6:13:09 PM

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Cumslut is a petname I would reserve for someone who has been on their knees begging for my cum. to presume you are a cumslut would be premature as having never met.
is cumslut one word or two? cum slut? Is a cumslut someone who will do anything to get cum or to be made to cum? would it work as a sir name accompanying someones name "cumslut Jane" cumslut Kaliko" or a proper name like Miss Cumslut or Stacey Cumslut.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 7:02:02 AM

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To many subs calling someone Master online/phone is no different then calling a business and having the person on the other end calling you Sir or Mister, a sign of respect.
If you wish to be called something else, let them know and they will most likly be willing to.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 8:16:00 AM

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To many subs calling someone Master online/phone is no different then calling a business and having the person on the other end calling you Sir or Mister, a sign of respect.
If you wish to be called something else, let them know and they will most likly be willing to.

If making ones preferences known was a simple remedy we wouldn't have umpteen threads lamenting that he/she did this, that, or the other. Didn't they read my profile?

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 8:28:12 AM

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Seems to me they didnt make their preferences known to begin with. Never have I seen a "complaint" about this topic indicating the sub/slave continued the "offending" behavior after the preference was made known.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 11:14:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: salemartist

It seems like a pet peave to me but maybe its not...
All too often when speaking to a submissive woman via text, email, phone or even CM messages, she will respond to a message saying "yes Master" to me this is a bit presumtious having not even met me face to face. I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect, but if I have never looked down at you with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master!
is it just me?

No. Too formal for me. I like to hear my name as opposed to some title.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 11:22:48 AM

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nm i was being nasty

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 1:39:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: salemartist

Cumslut is a petname I would reserve for someone who has been on their knees begging for my cum. to presume you are a cumslut would be premature as having never met.
is cumslut one word or two? cum slut? Is a cumslut someone who will do anything to get cum or to be made to cum? would it work as a sir name accompanying someones name "cumslut Jane" cumslut Kaliko" or a proper name like Miss Cumslut or Stacey Cumslut.

Of course it would be amusing to see a Dominant with the name Sir/Master Cum-slut's cum trainer, or even Mighty Lord of the Ever Squirting Cum Slut The Magnificient. No douby the two would find a home in such places as the original Barnum & Baily's circus

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

No. Too formal for me. I like to hear my name as opposed to some title.

I agree. many people of my ken who by law and tradition/.protocol are addressed or can be addressed with a single or multiple honorifics and are happy when they are with those who can address them in a more relaxed manner. Such things to them as Sir or Maam are a sweet breath of relief in some circumstances. Such is life that it can be source of amusement here in the ex-colonies when the person they know as "Silly Old Fred" is formally addressed by officialdom worth a mouthful of titles etc.

But on a more practical note, I would find it not fitting were a slave in public come to me, drop to her knees before the folks I am talking to and address me as Master. It could reasonably draw unwanted attention to myself.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 2:19:04 PM

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It seems like a pet peave to me but maybe its not...
All too often when speaking to a submissive woman via text, email, phone or even CM messages, she will respond to a message saying "yes Master" to me this is a bit presumtious having not even met me face to face. I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect, but if I have never looked down at you with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master!
is it just me?

salemartist,

well said, however even with that example only Sir would qualify........in my opinion!

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 2:23:16 PM

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~fast reply~

Gosh, I'm somehow getting from this thread that there are huge throngs of submissive out there that are just dying to call someone... anyone "master"

So as a community service through the rest of the weekend anyone who wants to can feel free to call me "master"... or even "Master" if you just can't type it with a lower case.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 2:32:11 PM

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i get rather tired of having to explain to people that i have a name, and i'd prefer if they used it. the only one who calls me by various labels without me batting an eyelash, is the one who's collar i wear. i find it amusing to see how many "Doms" get their knickers in a knot over the fact that i don't answer to 'slave', 'slut', 'girl', 'little one' or any other label they care to use...just because they're dominant and i'm submissive.

i've even been told i'm a bad sub because of it!

What she said

Guys who demand such addressing to me are usually shown the exit door as I have no time left for HNG's who believe they can demand that before even meeting in person

Reminds me on some funny attempts from some guys who tried to convince me that this would mean that I can't be a weal and twue sub

Gosh, you have got to love the internet

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/4/2011 2:39:32 PM

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You can call me Master, you can call me Sir, but don’t call me snookims, no matter what NihilusZero tells you.

my oh my...so much to learn here

so no snookims for Mr. RS...though I have to say that would rather be cute...sort of...would love to hear everhope adressing Mr. RS as snookims *daydreaming*

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/5/2011 5:36:45 AM

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quote:

fast reply~

Gosh, I'm somehow getting from this thread that there are huge throngs of submissive out there that are just dying to call someone... anyone "master"

So as a community service through the rest of the weekend anyone who wants to can feel free to call me "master"... or even "Master" if you just can't type it with a lower case.

*slips a capital W into "well" happy now?

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/5/2011 7:27:47 AM

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If it was good enough for the Romans to have leading society ladies take their place once a year as Temple Whores and fuck all comers no matter how low the fee was, then surely we could come whores and allow Dominants to have the sundry sub/slaves call them "MASTER" for one day in the year. may even boost flagging egos (not that Doms have egos)....

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/5/2011 10:44:17 AM

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with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master!
is it just me?

I prefer Master over beeing called asshole...at least it is respectfull.
Then I explain them..I am not their MAster. Mostly they tell me..they do it out of respect. So I allow them to continue aslong as they don't expect more.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/5/2011 10:57:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: salemartist

It seems like a pet peave to me but maybe its not...
All too often when speaking to a submissive woman via text, email, phone or even CM messages, she will respond to a message saying "yes Master" to me this is a bit presumtious having not even met me face to face. I understand its a submissive jesture and a wish to show respect, but if I have never looked down at you with a fist full of your hair I am NOT your master!
is it just me?

Hell...I've been with him for over three years now and I don't think I've called him master once. Maybe once as a joke, but I laughed my ass off and so did he.
We both find calling someone by a title to be ridiculous. I call him by his first name. That being said, I have called older gentlemen sir when they've done something mannerly towards me. I was taught that respect by my parents. Other than that, I've found it quite easy to be respectful to anyone in an email without having to use specific titles.

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RE: Don't call me "Master" - 3/5/2011 11:00:37 AM

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agree..Sir is way better.
Feels more natural beeing called that.

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/7/2011 11:56:49 AM

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I feel the same way. I find that usually if you tell them to use "sir" instead they usually accept that. It's still submissive but it doesn't imply a relationship which doesn't (yet) exist. Keeps things from being weird but lets them express what they're trying to.

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/7/2011 4:23:15 PM

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I may be an insolent little shit, but until someone gives me a reason to call him or her anything else, he or she is referred to "username" or "name," depending on how he or she is introduced. I may be wrong to put us on an equal level, but hey. Submission doesn't come all willy nilly.

Is that disrespectful though?

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RE: Don;t call me "Master" - 3/7/2011 6:10:04 PM

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Nope, it's not. No honorific is due until you're owned and even then not every Dominant expects to be called by other than their first name. Depends on the Dominant. That's my take on it.

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