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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 5:04:03 PM

DarkSteven

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Here's a link that might be of some assistance.

Why we don't allow blacklists

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1163969/tm.htm

sarah, I was just about to mention the rationale, but Theta beat me to it.

That said, welcome to collarme!

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 6:46:07 PM

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STD'S????? There is a neat little thing out there to prevent those nasty buggers.....they are called condoms......Look like balloons, even come in colors. And flavors......you can find them in just about any store or restroom in the country.

And of course, you can apply common sense at any time without taking your pants off!

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 6:49:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: FitToBeTiedinID

lol, really :)

I never lie.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 6:55:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

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ORIGINAL: FitToBeTiedinID

lol, really :)

I never lie.

It's true. With NS it is more a constant thang.

Jus say'n

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 6:56:36 PM

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THIS ONE'S MINE, BACK OFF.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 7:07:21 PM

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Helps NS by waving my libary card at the Troll......c'mere big boy....I'll let you handle my books!

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 7:11:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: soul2share

Helps NS by waving my libary card at the Troll......c'mere big boy....I'll let you handle my boobs!

I fixed your typo... an you say you're some kinda edumakated.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 7:20:58 PM

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FitToBeTiedinID

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ORIGINAL: FitToBeTiedinID

One can be abused without it being illegal. I almost met a guy on here from Boise, but found out from other women who have met him that he used one of them- taping her with consent, but then never contacting her again or telling her what he did with the tape. Another woman on here said he had herpes. Not illegal activities, but some bad news.

And you confirmed the credibility of these people... how?

I suppose you also believe what some people are saying in the political groups about Obama?

There is an old journalistic mantra: "If your mother tells you she loves you, confirm it with an independent source."

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 7:31:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: FitToBeTiedinID

One can be abused without it being illegal. I almost met a guy on here from Boise, but found out from other women who have met him that he used one of them- taping her with consent, but then never contacting her again or telling her what he did with the tape. Another woman on here said he had herpes. Not illegal activities, but some bad news.

You want to start a Warning thread, but personally i think this fits under the Darwin Awards.

Here is what i'm reading...some dumbass agrees to have Romeo film her ass while she is getting the snot banged out of her. She leaves. Romeo decides she sucks in the sack and doesn't bother to call her again.

Then....bet this is the same twat...she has unprotected sex with someone she barely knows and gets a STD.

And you want to start a thread blacklisting HIM??? Hell, SHE is the one thats dumber than bait.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 8:46:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

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ORIGINAL: soul2share
Helps NS by waving my libary card at the Troll......c'mere big boy....I'll let you handle my boobs!

I fixed your typo... an you say you're some kinda edumakated.
SLURP~

I am edumacated......I even spelled it right!

And I don't know about you, but usually when I read my books, I'm laid back with them resting on my boobs...therefore, you can handle BOTH! There is a method to my madness! (And I'm also nekkid!)

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 8:55:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: soul2share

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

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ORIGINAL: soul2share
Helps NS by waving my libary card at the Troll......c'mere big boy....I'll let you handle my boobs!

I fixed your typo... an you say you're some kinda edumakated.
SLURP~

I am edumacated......I even spelled it right!

And I don't know about you, but usually when I read my books, I'm laid back with them resting on my boobs...therefore, you can handle BOTH! There is a method to my madness! (And I'm also nekkid!)

Um... just for my own edification, and because mapquest is insisting, "somewhere out there" has the zipcode 9872314, right?

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 9:32:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren
And you confirmed the credibility of these people... how?

I suppose you also believe what some people are saying in the political groups about Obama?

There is an old journalistic mantra: "If your mother tells you she loves you, confirm it with an independent source."

LOL
Loved this reply. It reminded me of some BB King song, paraphrasing, "Nobody loves me but my mother, and I'm starting to have my doubts."

Sarah, there is no absolute safety, but there is relative safety, if you use common sense, and don't go private, before you trust he/she is reasonable sane. M

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 10:40:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll
Um... just for my own edification, and because mapquest is insisting, "somewhere out there" has the zipcode 9872314, right?
SLURP~

Yes, the easy way to find it is to take the first left past the second star on the right.......follow the yellow brick road past the hundred acre wood, look for the big pink castle just past the drawbridge.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 10:48:36 PM

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Of course this place should come with a warning label...a great big fucking one too, maybe in crimson or neon and surrounded by giant arrows pointing at it and skywriters above.
I can even tell ya what the label should say:

Warning
Entry might lead to the best God damn orgasm of your life.
Proceed with caution.

< Message edited by Kana -- 3/17/2011 11:06:46 PM >

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/17/2011 11:33:16 PM

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"New post here."

Obviously. Actually this has been rehashed time and time again. The conclusion does really boil down to the fact that CM is providing a public environment and really, if any responsibility to inform lands anywhere, it would be on them. That wouldn't be right. It would be like assuming responsibility for a fight at a party in my backyard. It can't work that way. For example you put your hands on that dude's olady and he hits you, don't go trying to get into that million dollar liability of mine, because then you make an emeny out of me.

Even in a commercial establishment, say I own a bar, some guy hits you. Well, I will bar him of course, but I am liable for any damages ? No. Sue him. Think of a bank. If an innocent bystander gets killed during a bank robbery, can you sue the bank ? They had nothing to do with it.

You want protection, carry your mace, your gun or your k_______knocker* and know how to use it. That applies anywhere.

Now like in a bar, barring people, well that could be done and might be. I believe it would be within TOS if you were actually assaulted or whatever (and have criminal charges going), were to say something. But no way in hell could you give much detail, much less their username. It would have to be limited so badly that it would be useless.

You could mail the mods and put them on alert, but really who has time ? The fact is if I were them I wouldn't do a thing without solid evidence, and if you got that, you don't need them.

I gave this some thought. I don't see any way to implement anything effective without screwing the place up. Really, if you fly 11 states away to hook up, and you find he keeps you in a refrigerator and feeds you nothing but burritos, there's not much we can do about it.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:04:28 AM

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grow some balls and get (reclaim?) some sense of self reliance/accountability. Tell your 'friends' to, also.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:13:09 AM

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I got out of bed this morning, sure that when I signed on to the message boards all the stoopid threads would be done.

How relieved I was to find a new one!

All is well in my world

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:17:04 AM

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"Entry might lead to the best God damn orgasm of your life.
Proceed with caution. "

Hey Slurpomatic, ever think of the word orgasm ? In a way it means "little death". Are we looking for a bigger death ?

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:37:39 AM

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Hi, New post here. I am wondering if we could set up a forum in case someone has a bad experience meeting someone on here. I don't mean that we should criticize anyone, but just to be on the lookout for some people for safety reasons. Any thoughts?
-Sarah

No, we can’t set up a forum. And yes, it is criticizing someone. How is it not?
“I want to set up a forum in case someone has a bad experience meeting someone here.”
I interpret that to mean: “I want to bitch about all the Doms that don’t work out because they weren’t my dream come true Dom from the porno flicks and dirty stories I masturbate to.” And it says you joined on March 9th which means you’ve been here all of a week, so unless you’re starting a new profile you haven’t been here that long to have that many bad experiences…

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Relax, I posted it here because there is no section for bad experiences ... hence why I was asking the question. And I am not talking about "blacklisting" anyone, I am simply saying that if someone meets someone on this site and is injured or abused in any way, it is only fair to have a forum to post the experience. Otherwise other members may put themselves in danger.

Of course there’s not a section for bad experiences, everyone would be put on blast left and right. It would leave people with preconceived notions about each other without taking the time to get to know someone. If someone isn’t worth meeting, they generally make it very apparent before too long. We wouldn’t take time to get to know each other, we’d instead read that and think that so-and-so was a royal prick (or bitch) because of whatever was posted and (shocker) people lie. Which then opens up a big can of legal worms in regards to slander, libel and all those things which I believe CM just doesn’t want to deal with. Nor do they have the time.

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One can be abused without it being illegal. I almost met a guy on here from Boise, but found out from other women who have met him that he used one of them- taping her with consent, but then never contacting her again or telling her what he did with the tape. Another woman on here said he had herpes. Not illegal activities, but some bad news.

Umm, not to my knowledge. Child abuse, Elder abuse, Spousal abuse…all illegal. What you’re describing is an asshole. Illegal? No. Frowned upon? Yes.

You say you "almost met a guy" which means you didn’t. Which means you really shouldn’t be complaining. I mean, you aren’t the one with the skin flick floating around somewhere, and you aren’t the one with herpes (though he can probably just as easily claim that he got it from the girl if he does in fact have it). It's the starlet's responsibility for giving him consent to tape her and not keeping track of it. She should have held onto it if she was so worried. Herpes girl? Well, as someone else said: Condoms. Problem solved. Or abstinence, but that's no fun. In any event it's her own damn fault for not being responsible for her own sexual health.

Sooooooooo, act like a big girl. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and move on. Everyone here has had a bad experience, we’ve dealt with it, cleaned up our messes, learned our lessons and moved on. You should do the same whenever you do in fact have a bad experience as opposed to an “almost” experience.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:46:22 AM

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I get this impression that all females hate other females.

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