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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 2:07:28 AM

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Oh it's not that bad.

Knife play doesn't = slasher flick

It is as stupid as one though.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 2:13:30 AM

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Oh it's not that bad.

Knife play doesn't = slasher flick

It is as stupid as one though.

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Having a preference is fine.. not liking it is also fine, but there is no need to insult the kink that many of us do enjoy. You might want to review the Terms of Service before you post that sorta shit again.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 2:20:04 AM

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Lighten up, Francis.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 2:26:14 AM

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Lighten up, Francis.

Yes, Master.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 6:09:53 AM

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FR-

I have a warning about meeting people on this site:

I met the love of my life and it's changed me ...Forever!

Be careful out there!!!!

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 6:34:10 AM

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:30:06 AM

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I have a warning about meeting people on this site:

I

I personally have met at least a dozen or more folks from this site, know what? Each one of them is now a permanent friend, not to mention my very bestestess female and male friends are from here.

Both of which I love so much they each have keys to my house and permanent invitations to just show up.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:34:32 AM

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I have met a few friends from this site and a few folks that were coming through my area. So I have never had any bad things happen so far but I go by the rules and so do they.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:35:00 AM

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So you want to start a blacklist? Will we put up your name first for going with the "story" of what happened with your friend?

It's against TOS for one, and who's to say you actually met the person? May have been either through cmail, some other form of net contact or even a phone call.

Keep your panties on, or wear some if you're going to meet someone. Trust your own instinct, and act like a grown-up. Now ain't that easy?

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:40:24 AM

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Relax, I posted it here because there is no section for bad experiences ... hence why I was asking the question. And I am not talking about "blacklisting" anyone, I am simply saying that if someone meets someone on this site and is injured or abused in any way, it is only fair to have a forum to post the experience. Otherwise other members may put themselves in danger.

YOU relax!

I would tell you everything that is wrong with your idea.........but I've got a better one.

Here is the first name on my 'list'.

FitToBeTiedinID

She has a very poor attitude. Doesn't think through her ideas before taking action. Does not think through her words before writing/speaking them. Her words tell me that, in her mind, it is all about her and what she wants a service top to do for her. Shows a marked lack of common sense and intelligence. Two qualities that I believe are vital in a submissive/slave.....let alone a BDSM play partner.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:44:50 AM

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*adores LaT*

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:46:21 AM

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I adore you also, my favourite Greedy one.

You are on my OTHER list!

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:48:24 AM

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LaT... loving your new avatar

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 7:50:06 AM

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LaT... loving your new avatar

Thank you ever so much but I must say that ALL the credit goes to the lovely Poise. She generously sent me several pieces of beautiful artwork. The only struggle for me......trying to choose which one to put on here.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 8:08:11 AM

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OTHER list?

*wonders if I should be askeered*

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 9:08:51 AM

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I'm sorry you had a poor experience with someone, but you know, anyone who meets anyone, whether it's via the internet or anywhere else, is taking a risk. This is why it's essential to do whatever it is you can to protect yourself, such as taking the time to get to know someone you're corresponding with,meet in a vanilla setting ( possibly several times) before play, and the most important one- trust your instinct. Someone "wrong" usually feels wrong, somewhere.

Blacklisting isn't the way. I recently encountered a similar situation, and had to come to terms with the fact that people do what they do, and have to find out for themselves about things. If I hadn't been blindsided by the thrill of "the experience" I would have seen for myself what was going on. Eventually I did. People always do. Sadder but wiser now. But I had to see for myself.

Everything's a learning experience. Let someone earn your trust. Don't just give it away to someone who calls them selves a Dominant. Take your time.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 10:28:32 AM

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I'm sure if Michael Myers were real he would of masturbated to that post.

Okay, what the hell does Wayne's World have to do with this?

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:21:50 PM

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I just don't like stupid women, they make us all look bad.

As for the OP: you would have come across a lot less line a whiny vindictive troll if your thread was about "How can a person keep themselves safe when meeting people from CM or other online venues?" or "What are you rules for a first person meeting?" "What red flags should I look for, and how can I protect myself from predators when dating online?"

BTW, a search on any of those basic topics should pull a LOT.

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:40:46 PM

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I'm sure if Michael Myers were real he would of masturbated to that post.

Okay, what the hell does Wayne's World have to do with this?

Change the "heart" in "heartless" to "brain."

Just kidding. 0:)

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RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? - 3/18/2011 12:54:04 PM

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I'm sure if Michael Myers were real he would of masturbated to that post.

Okay, what the hell does Wayne's World have to do with this?

Well donkey, here's tha thang...

Oops, wrong thread.
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