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renzhengshu -> will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 10:18:25 AM)

curious to know how sub/slave girl think of Asian master/dom




OttersSwim -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 10:21:52 AM)

curious to know how Asian master/dom does at being a human being worth knowing and a master/dom worth following




leadership527 -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 11:22:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
curious to know how Asian master/dom does at being a human being worth knowing and a master/dom worth following

LOL - I love you Otter.




GreedyTop -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 11:33:54 AM)

*adds myself to the "loves Otters" list*




peppermint -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 1:04:55 PM)

So often otter cuts right to the real point.

As many subs/slaves will accept an Asian Master as ladies/women will date Asian men.  You wow them with your personality, not your skin color. 




Focus50 -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 1:52:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: renzhengshu

curious to know how sub/slave girl think of Asian master/dom


Cross-race intimacy/dating is either a personal issue for an individual or it's not. Adding bdsm to the equation doesn't change that.

I have my own preferences and prejudices regarding race so I don't entirely agree with peppermint (quote: "You wow them with your personality, not your skin color."). That said, my prejudices don't include Asians as I think they (the oriental variety, for lack of a better description) can be every bit as sexy and desirable as my own race.

Thing is, if you subconsciously believe a non-Asian sub won't accept your advances as a dom based on race, you're sabotaging your own attempts before you even try. You'll exude a visible lack of confidence in yourself and that's what an otherwise non-racist sub will pick up on more than anything.

Welcome to the Forums. :)

Focus.




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 3:29:41 PM)

She will if he appeals to her.  Now wasn't that easy?




DarkSteven -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 4:44:27 PM)

In your case, your profile is empty.  Fill it out and you will offer a sub more than just you being Asian.




MaxsBoy -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/15/2011 5:41:38 PM)

No, I only go for Basque Doms.  All others are inferior.




Kana -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 7:08:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

No, I only go for Basque Doms.  All others are inferior.


That's only cuz you wanna (I'm sorry, I can't resist) basque in their glory.


I know, I know. I should be shot.




littleone35 -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 7:54:23 AM)

IF i was not very happily owned i would not count out a potional Dom if they were asian. I look for the traits i must have, in a Dom if they hve them then i would be interested no matter what their race. Their race is not important, the person they are is.

Matt's littleone




sunshinemiss -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 7:58:21 AM)

.... Looks at my map.... looks at Dublin... seems far....




Aynne88 -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 10:39:21 AM)

My ex-husband of over 20 years is Korean. One of the hottest sexiest men I have ever known. Drop dead gorgeous. However.....he had some traits that I can't deal with, one of them being what find with a lot of Asian men,  he is extremely type A and very chauvinistic. We are still very close, but he won't change anytime soon I am afraid, which is too bad, because he is down right gorgeous, *did I say that? ;-)

He was also though very acclimated into "American society" and what I have noticed is that a lot of Asians that were not born here (he wasn't either) tend to stick with Asian cultures and don't make friends or mingle with the locals. That would be a deal breaker for me, I have dated Asian men in the past like that and they spoke Korean or Chinese in front of me non stop, things like that, drove me nuts.

My last "Master" was Chinese and suffered all the classic signs of little man complex. He was insecure, demanding, and just too emotional for me.

I suggest that you look for a girl that doesn't find it a plus or a negative, and just views you as a person, not a race. I know lots of women that find Asian men very attractive. *right sunshinemiss?

Right now I am feeling the Italian thing, I think it's a keeper. [;)]. C'est la vie! 




DarkSteven -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 4:44:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

.... Looks at my map.... looks at Dublin... seems far....


Ironically, she says the Asian man is too far for her, while sunny is surrounded by Asian men...




HannahLynHeather -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 6:44:35 PM)

I don't care what race a woman is, so I suppose I wouldn't care what race a man was if I were into men.

Heather





sunshinemiss -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 6:50:18 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aynne88

My ex-husband of over 20 years is Korean. One of the hottest sexiest men I have ever known. Drop dead gorgeous.


True that.


However.....he had some traits that I can't deal with, one of them being what find with a lot of Asian men,  he is extremely type A and very chauvinistic. We are still very close, but he won't change anytime soon I am afraid, which is too bad, because he is down right gorgeous, *did I say that? ;-)


You may have mentioned it. I didn't notice. [:)]


He was also though very acclimated into "American society" and what I have noticed is that a lot of Asians that were not born here (he wasn't either) tend to stick with Asian cultures and don't make friends or mingle with the locals. That would be a deal breaker for me, I have dated Asian men in the past like that and they spoke Korean or Chinese in front of me non stop, things like that, drove me nuts.

My last "Master" was Chinese and suffered all the classic signs of little man complex. He was insecure, demanding, and just too emotional for me.

I suggest that you look for a girl that doesn't find it a plus or a negative, and just views you as a person, not a race. I know lots of women that find Asian men very attractive. *right sunshinemiss?


*bat bat bats eyelashes* What?


Right now I am feeling the Italian thing, I think it's a keeper. [;)]. C'est la vie! 



Impressive - Chinese, Korean, Italian, and French all in one post. You deserve the world!

best,
sunshine
U. N. Ambassador of Love





ResidentSadist -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 7:07:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy
No, I only go for Basque Doms.  All others are inferior.

With a population of 3 million, 10% being into BDSM and a fraction of them being bisexual or gay Doms.  And of those Doms, only some of them being macho enough to handle your wild mischievous ass, I take it Max is one of the 3 or 4 Basque Doms in the world that could handle you?  




MaxsBoy -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 8:33:18 PM)

Ha, sadly no. [:D] He does have a Mexican ass crack though, so I'll pretend that's his Basque side.




Arpig -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/20/2011 10:43:44 PM)

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He does have a Mexican ass crack
What the heck is...no, on second thought, never mind, I don't think I want to know.




nephandi -> RE: will a sub/slave girl choose Asian master/dom? (4/21/2011 1:59:06 PM)

Greetings

If I where looking for a Master it would not matter to me which nation he or she came from or which race he or she was of, what would matter would be his mind, if we had similar interests both in the vanilla and in the kink department and if he or she made the little sparks fly for me and I could look at him or her and think I want to serve that person, I want to submit to that person, that is what matters, not race.

I wish you well.




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