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sub being needy - 5/25/2011 3:19:15 AM   
highhopes4us


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Status: offline 		hello to all....I have a Master whom i adore....Master has taught me ALOT.....I am collared and enjoy serving my Master...my question is ,i find myself wanting to service master all the time....i guess its neediness....is there any other subs that feel like that?
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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 3:20:47 AM   
sunshinemiss


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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 3:51:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: highhopes4us

hello to all....I have a Master whom i adore....Master has taught me ALOT.....I am collared and enjoy serving my Master...my question is ,i find myself wanting to service master all the time....i guess its neediness....is there any other subs that feel like that?



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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 3:54:34 AM   
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Yes. There is always somebody. I'm sure there's even a t-shirt.



Yep! Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt.

Then I grew up, got some self-esteem, and got a life.

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 3:55:57 AM   
sunshinemiss


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we're poking fun a bit, but the reality is you're in something called "sub frenzy" if I'm understanding your post(s). Do a wee search (button is in the upper right hand corner) for it, and see if it sounds familiar.

good luck,
sunshine

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 3:58:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		It comes from the relationship being so new. You're hooked on all his attention. Sub frenzy.

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 4:09:08 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		She says they've been together for a year and a half, Celeste. You'd think it would have died down by them... Although, as the Troll says... maybe it's "extraordinary"... (I miss that dude)

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 4:30:21 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		A year and a half? I missed that. Because it doesn't have the hallmarks of being together that long. I'm wondering how much was online vs when they really started seeing each other a lot.

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 4:57:51 AM   
highhopes4us


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Status: offline 		i really thought that i would find some replies here from subs that are well like minded.......i feel that ur replies were rude and non called for in that reguard....what ever....maybe next time you answer a post,you would think abt ur words first......

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:00:33 AM   
highhopes4us


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Status: offline 		sorry i posted the wrong reply........sorry members my bad.....thanks for the reply abt sub frenzy..i shall look it up...AGAIN SORRY...

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:01:15 AM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: highhopes4us

i really thought that i would find some replies here from subs that are well like minded.......i feel that ur replies were rude and non called for in that reguard....what ever....maybe next time you answer a post,you would think abt ur words first......


quote:

sorry i posted the wrong reply

Makes me wonder where you MEANT to post this...

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 5/25/2011 5:03:46 AM >

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:05:07 AM   
highhopes4us


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Status: offline 		i meant to post this to another forum...oops..it was my fault.....

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:08:12 AM   
highhopes4us


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Status: offline 		i meant to post this to another forum...oops..it was my fault.....there was a reply from la tigeress that was mean..at least its how i took it......

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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:23:59 AM   
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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:35:16 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		If LaT took the time to write me, I'd read it ... consider it... and think about it. She is an amazing woman who does not suffer fools. If she gives me advice, I listen. I don't always agree, but I know that she's a darned wise woman.

of course you don't need to pay any attention to me. You don't know me from a can of paint. You will make your own determination.

A word of caution though -
What seems like it is "mean" is often instead CLEAR, no nonsense, and honest. I hope you won't miss the message because the format (the internet) is a difficult one to navigate from an emotional point of view.


best,
sunshine


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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:38:22 AM   
PetiteOralSub


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Status: offline 		First I discover sub drop,
now, wise posters, you indicate
I get to look forward to something called sub frenzy?
fresh hell!



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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:38:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: highhopes4us

i meant to post this to another forum...oops..it was my fault.....there was a reply from la tigeress that was mean..at least its how i took it......


Nope :)

It wasn't mean at all; it was a bit of an in-joke relating to another poster.

How does your master feel about your devotion?
The need to serve is (in my opinion) kind of common.

It would only be a problem if it is causing serious interference in his life or yours.




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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:39:17 AM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: highhopes4us

hello to all....I have a Master whom i adore....Master has taught me ALOT.....I am collared and enjoy serving my Master...my question is ,i find myself wanting to service master all the time....i guess its neediness....is there any other subs that feel like that?

Kinda curious what you mean by serve but it's not super important.

I say good for you..Is this an issue or are you looking for friends? Not getting where this is a problem. You're taking care of him and doing what you like to do I suppose and I'm sure he appreciates all the effort you're putting in, at least I hope he does.


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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 5:51:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with the Sunny one, I would think sub frenzy would have died down after a year and a half. The OP has posted on two forums so far this am, I suspect *something* is going wrong with their dynamic.

OP: Can you clarify the issue for us? You've given very little detail.




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RE: sub being needy - 5/25/2011 6:17:36 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I don't always feel like I need to be in service to him...hell, that's a reality lol...but I sometimes feel like I don't do enough for him especially right now when I have my own problems in life that I have to deal with. Thankfully he is understanding of this and isn't too concerned with it.


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