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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 12:30:56 AM   
wimpcuck


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Status: offline 		i would only fancy a white woman if she craved Black and i would love to serve a Black Master who has a white woman slave and i would love her to own my worm white ass if he allowed it to

i love to tell you all that and i am happy to be called a white boi hater even when i am white and from the uk

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 1:08:35 AM   
keme


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sab

Capitalising the B & D in Black Dom and using a lower case in white dom, tells me far more of your mindset than the actual words you write.

Having the appropriate respect goes a long, long way.

And if that makes me anal retentive - bite me!


*ponders* I think white dom would look silly Bwhite Ddom...*giggles runs and hides*

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 1:11:26 AM   
keme


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sab

Capitalising the B & D in Black Dom and using a lower case in white dom, tells me far more of your mindset than the actual words you write.



Ahhhh....  The old "typing Freudian slip" argument - you type it wrong, it shows what you really meant.  I don't agree, at all!

I speak, understand, and write German almost as well as English.  In German, capitalization rules are very different: all nouns are capitalized, and adjectives are sometimes capitalized, I is not, you is, etc...  I usually have to proofread to avoid entirely random caps.  Try to judge me by my caps, I dare you!

Also, a lot of people are "hunt & peck" typers.  They search for each letter before they type it.  Therefore, any mistake they make, be it in wording or caps, is a real error, and not subconscious.  Especially with there being lifestyle speak - Black Dom - and normal speak - white dom, both sides being regularily bashed.  I slip in and out of it too, at times.

If someone types as quickly as they speak, and doesn't proofread, you could make that argument, but I don't know if that's the case with darq.

So yes, you are anal retentive, but no, I will not bite you.  I'm far too submissive.

Yours,


benji

*pats benji on the head* well said boy

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 1:21:55 AM   
keme


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxGoddess

yes indeed level.  you may be right there.  But the whole KKK and race card just roasted my turkey.


ohh *looks in the oven for the turkey* forgive me Ma`am we seemed to need a bit of humor...lol

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 3:15:37 AM   
fldrkhorse


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		I am a Dominant Black Man with a preference for white subs. There tends to be many reasons for this. The most common is physical preference. Underlying, there are strong cultural and psychological contrasts and intrugue. White subs have told me they find black men more "manly." (the black pimp white hooker syndrome) Black men have the cultural image of "cool." If one has yearned to be with that crowd, that would be a draw. Black men certainly have the image and reputation of being aggressive.

It appears some white subs associate the physical prowess, body sculture, and social image of black men as dominant and find that sexually and psychologically exciting. The act of submission is psychologically stronger to one you percieve as greater than you.

There's no doubt there are dominant white men in this world but other than the Hells Angels, they do not have the cultural and social image we've been conditioned to see in black men.

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 5:08:50 AM   
OnyxGoddess


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quote:

ORIGINAL: keme


quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxGoddess

yes indeed level.  you may be right there.  But the whole KKK and race card just roasted my turkey.


ohh *looks in the oven for the turkey* forgive me Ma`am we seemed to need a bit of humor...lol

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 6:04:00 AM   
fldrkhorse


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Status: offline 		Interesting that you find the fact that her blog was "hijacked" due to her racist as well as ignorant statement disrespectful and uncalled for but have not said one word about how disrespectful of white, dominant men the words of this submissive were.

WOW, you guys just don't get it. 

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 6:51:02 AM   
jezzabelle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Blkmastersgirl

Mix I don't think you will find that many submissive Black men (g).



Have you actually done a poll to see if this is true or not, or is it just assumption?  I just did a quick search and found 69 african american submissive men on this site alone and 321 that label themselves as a switch.  Now, I found 298 african american dominant males on here compared to thousands of caucasian male dominants (I gave up searching when I got to 3162 matches because I didn't want to be here all day).  To state that there are less african american males that are submissive than caucasian because african americans are superior seems inaccurate based on those numbers.  It's just that there are more caucasians in the lifestyle in general which of course means more white subs than black.  I'm sure the ratio of male dominants to male submissives in each race is equal.

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 6:54:21 AM   
jezzabelle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistawiggles

I think that trying to put the color of the skin into is over analyzing. Could it be that you just found someone that you truly like and he knows how and what buttons to push with you. By the way I am a black master with a white sub who has had white doms in the past and she also agrees that its more mental connection.


I agree with you mistawiggles   I don't think color or gender has anything to do at all with a person being more dominant or submissive.  It's all about the person inside. 

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 8:37:45 AM   
OedipusRexIt


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Status: offline 		Wow - racism, who would have thought.

I respect your right to choose what/who turns you on, but this post is nothing but a rascist remark.  Any time you attribute special qualities to someone because of their race, that's rascism.

Good for you for your preference.  Shame on you for such a remark.  Think about it.

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 8:53:36 AM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fldrkhorse

Interesting that you find the fact that her blog was "hijacked" due to her racist as well as ignorant statement disrespectful and uncalled for but have not said one word about how disrespectful of white, dominant men the words of this submissive were.

WOW, you guys just don't get it. 

What exactly is it that we don't get?  Have you read the O.P.'s original post?  The one where she noted that her "Black Master" had told her that Black Men were superior to white men?
Do you not get the disrespect for white men in that statement?  Or are you a person who only sees racism expressed when it is done by a white person towards a black person and not when it comes from a black person towards a white person?  Or do you believe that since a white person expressed these views (of her "Black Master") and concurs with them, that it is not racism because she is white too?

It is all fine and good to prefer black skin to white, to prefer white skin to black, to prefer an opposite color to your skin in your choice of partners.  It is fine to have your own beliefs as to why you prefer one race to another for you.  However, it is another thing to state that what works for you in your belief system is the way it is for all, whether they follow those beliefs or not,  is...to be blunt...racist bullshit.

I get the fact that some white submissives find their black dominants to be more dominant than their white dominants have been.  That is a personal preference.  The statement that it is because black men are superior is what my post, which you quoted above, referred to.  And no, I don't get that as legitimate reasoning.

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 9:05:06 AM   
darkinshadows


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I can see how the assumption can be made that the OP was racist in comment however, I have seen similar said by other people.
 
Female dominants who assume that they are better dominants than males because they are female supremists.
The submissives who think that slaves lose their senses and do not submit properly.
The dominant who is 50 who thinks that any dominant under 28 is less dominant due to their age.
The Gorean who finds BDSM dominants alot weaker.
The slave who assumes that the submissives do not submit as totally as they do.
The munch attenders who look down on those that practise bdsm behind closed doors.
 
Are all these people ageist?  Subist?(New word) etcetcetc...
There will always be those who assume superiority - fact of life.
Just a thought
 
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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 9:35:07 AM   
trippingdaisy


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Status: offline 		i happen to agree...she has her kink, let her enjoy it! Whether or not he's racist...we don't honestly know if he truly is or not. Perhaps that's something that he uses to subtley make her feel like she's inferior to him. We don't know what his motivations are for that.

However, the question she posed, i have an answer for.

my first Master was black. My other Doms and Master, including the final One i'm with now, have all been white. i remember that my first Master's voice was deeper than much, so he was very commanding in that...i responded well to it. But it's not really because of his skin, but to things that every Dom and Master do differently.

i hope that made sense. :)

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RE: Black Masters - 6/8/2006 1:14:08 PM   
Misstoyou


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wimpcuck

i would only fancy a white woman if she craved Black...



You left that out of your profile... lol

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RE: Black Masters - 6/9/2006 4:14:39 PM   
wimpcuck


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Status: offline 		if i am a racist for wanting to serve Black Masters and white fem dommes who do Black only and own white worms like me    well thats what i am

and you know what  i love that fact!!!!  i would rather choke then serve a white boi

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RE: Black Masters - 6/9/2006 6:08:44 PM   
sweetecho


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Status: offline 		Hi BlkMastersgirl,

i have had a Black Dom.  For me, there was an intensity and excitement that was far beyond what i have ever had with white Men.   It was also the same for Him with regard to me. 

i believe it is the interplay of contrasts and opposites that creates the difference.  i believe that a white Man and a Black woman would have the same experience. 

The particular Black Dom with whom i was involved was also very attracted to me because of my black hair and very white skin and other parts of my body that stood out as pink to His eyes.  Some people enjoy the play of color and contrast.

sweetecho

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RE: Black Masters - 6/9/2006 7:25:52 PM   
Blkmastersgirl


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Status: offline 		I'am glad to see my post brought up again. All I know is that Master and I have had a lot more subs contact us since I posted. I want to say thanks to all who have read the post. If Master flogs any more, we may get kicked out of the apartment complex due to loud noise. Here is how I look at it. I work in a school lunchroom and the food is nutritious, but spicey food can't be forgotten even if it is not accepted by all.

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