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ORIGINAL: Arpig

I am sure the first date would be legendary, minstrels would sing of  it for years to come....

Arpig, seeking a delicate bloom,
Took Lady Hib up to his room.
Where they argued all night
over who had the right;
to do what, and with which, and to whom.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

what two doms would do together. The answer: have SERIOUS FUN.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss
I would disagree with you here.  The way you have expressed things (as a man) is actually in many ways how I feel as a powerful woman who does in fact know how to fight.  One of the things people often like about me is that although I look like a sweetish, Wonder White Bread gal, I can take someone down in less than a minute, and I know it.  (Does that make me Wonder White Bread Woman?)  When I choose to trust someone - a man in the scenario you have mentioned - I again choose to put away my ability, my choice to fight.  A man realistically CAN'T force  me with his muscles.  I'm not going to get into the whole psychology of attacks - as Bones pointed out, it's not relevant or productive for the discussion - however, in the d/s scenario, a woman who can fight and KNOWS she can fight, is doing no less than a man who also can fight and KNOWS he can fight.

Hmmm.

OK. I'll fully take that point, if I could believe that a woman could pick me up, carry me to the bed, force my arms down, and sit on my cock. I think there's only one regular user of this forum who might just be able to do that. I'd really love to try it with her, as well: I'd give her no quarter, but I'd still hope she'd win. ;-)

Blimey, that just isn't the kind of physical strength I expect, nor look for, in a woman, Sunny. I don't think of bears when I think of femdoms, I think of snakes. Sexy snakes (in case you thought that was in some way an insulting animal-comparison).