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HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 12:51:47 PM)
quote: No it doesn't, but power isn't often too far away.... I can think back to a couple of vanilla BJ's that ended abruptly because I grabbed the girl's hair or head etc. quote: I can't seem to find it now but someone recently (you, perhaps?) mentioned she can control a blowjob merely by knowing she can stop anytime she likes. Such a simple concept - that never once occurred to me. Isn't this contradictory? I mean did it really never occur to you even after it had happened to you?

LadyConstanze -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 1:24:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus we ARE talking about consensual sex, right? Because if I am not defending myself from a rape, I am out to have a good time. If mister gets ahead of himself and breaks one of my rules (ie: NO hair pulling, ever, he will learn his error swiftly. As to BJ's: women have TEETH. Penises are made of tough, fibrous material, but I can assure you that any woman is in control of a cock that's in her mouth. She might choose to relinquish that control, but never doubt it's there. Never mind the testicles within reach of your hands, even most masos don't like a sharp finger flick or a very hearty squeeze with nails... To be perfectly honest, I always thought a guy must trust a woman a lot to put his penis into her mouth... I always wondered why most guys weren't worried about teeth...

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 1:38:13 PM)
I think of that all the time, LC...the only time I would willingly swallow, srsly... I am lucky in that men really don't try any aggro with me. My slave was over a foot taller than me, and mentally crazy, but he never raised a hand to me, in spite of anger issues.

DianeB269 -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 1:46:25 PM)
FR [sm=popcorn.gif]

CreepyStalker -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 2:47:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 There are still two genders out there and I concede I only have the wiring of the male variety. Two? I can think of at least 8 off the top of my head!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 2:52:05 PM)
Focus is strictly binary, dear.

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 3:37:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus5 We'll just hafta disagree on the size and strength thing. Honestly, Focus, I think too many of these sorts of debates are ultimately grounded, utterly wrongly, in a view of human nature that draws far too much from non-human nature. Physical strength is what other large mammals do - it's not what humans do. Even a very knackered old female chimp could probably beat me up, yet I think I'm now roughly three times as strong as the average woman. Humans' strength is in the brain. The tiniest woman, with not even very much in the brain department, could trick me into a powerless and completely vulnerable position, if she wanted to. She'd know it, I'd know it . . . so it'd become a redundant matter. Instead, we'd do it all by consent. It'd be more civilised - or, put another way, more fitting to human nature.

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 3:39:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CreepyStalker Two? I can think of at least 8 off the top of my head! Does VC know about these other 7 people who sit on your head? OK, that was feeble, but it's late and I'm tired.

mummyman321 -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 3:48:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Never mind the testicles within reach of your hands, even most masos don't like a sharp finger flick or a very hearty squeeze with nails... To be perfectly honest, I always thought a guy must trust a woman a lot to put his penis into her mouth... I always wondered why most guys weren't worried about teeth... From the male side, if I am going to let you get close enough to my penis to touch, I am betting your probably are not going to bite it. But please do squeeze away :) Now if your teeth look like this I might be have some serious 2nd thoughts while running like hell!

mummyman321 -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 3:52:32 PM)
Grrr...pic did not post the first time [image]local://upfiles/191162/2B82519A404346FEAC75BFB6FB1D45CB.jpg[/image]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 5:17:25 PM)
I have just been to the dentist, no worries!

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 5:46:52 PM)
So have I, and I can tell you that it's sheer bliss not having toothache anymore.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 5:53:53 PM)
still has all her own teeth and has no fillings at all

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 6:01:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious still has all her own teeth and has no fillings at all I think that's one of your most admirable achievements and you should very proud of it indeed, hon.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 6:04:29 PM)
Don't you patronise me, Mr The-Thing-I'm-Proudest-Of-In-Life-Is-My-Ability-To-Whistle! [8D][8D][8D]

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 9:24:41 PM)
[:)] quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 That's the thing; you don't necessarily need what you never had. If women and Dommes don't have the brute strength relative to their male partners, and the vast majority don't, then they don't fuck that way.... So yeah, I was kinda curious as to how Dommes do adapt in that particular circumstance. Focus. Oooh... I never much thought about it, or thought much brute strength was required. I do have fairly big legs (muscular too), and have doggy style phucked a gentleman or two, but never gave it a second thought really in terms of strength required. Maybe I was just tall enough to not have noticed it as an issue (anymore than if he were behind me). You've also just made me realize, that I haven't had, or much enjoyed doggy style... I consider it impersonal (emotionally detached), when done to myself. I've never thought of myself as particularly strong, since I'm also fairly dainty, about how I want to be touched. I didn't think of your question, from a doer's perspective before this post. [:)] M

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/29/2011 10:04:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer Do you like feeling that way about your own body, and your own bodily fluids? Short answer: I don't feel that way. [;)] So why, if you and I were in a suitably fluid-bonded relationship, would my expectation that you would immediately give me a nice warm sexy cum shower if that notion struck my fancy be difficult to wrap your brain around?

Focus50 -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/30/2011 3:28:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wickad (fast reply) To the Ladies of Ask a Mistress, Now, this is going to be off topic but ... Why are you feeding the troll? This man is obviously not interested in the answer to his question. He seems very interested in belittling some of the women on this board and thus proving in his mind that he is adhering to the 'twue way'. Wouldn't it be more productive to simply not engage this person? You wouldn't be the first to try and form the wagons in a circle in Ask a Mistress. As for moi, well I've been a regular poster at CM for 7 years now and you are the first to finally unmask my true troll motivations.... Good call, Sherlock - I'm sure there are lightbulb moments happening all across CM's Boards tonight. Tha Troll.

Focus50 -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/30/2011 3:46:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpyUnderCover I agree that it's "primal and animal." I agree that the act can be powerful for both parties. But I don't think that necessarily equates to dominance or to being dominant, and I don't think there is anything for Dommes to "overcome" in our approach to the position. Now, if it makes *you* feel dominant, and that's what you want to feel, than go for it. But there is more than one way to perceive and interpret the act. Clearly there is. Suspected as much in my OP and now it's been confirmed in detail after discussing it. Mind you, the ones trying to shut that discussion down or rally the troops to arms or turn it into a M vs F or big/strong vs small/weak pissing contest (with me always in the black hat) have been most interesting to observe, too. As we say in Oz, "It's all good". Focus.

PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes and Doggy-style. (5/30/2011 3:58:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer So why, if you and I were in a suitably fluid-bonded relationship, would my expectation that you would immediately give me a nice warm sexy cum shower if that notion struck my fancy be difficult to wrap your brain around? It wouldn't, because I've already done it (though not, sadly, with your excellent self). Lady N, you're projecting onto me!

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