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ORIGINAL: LiveByYourNature

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So after talking to someone and realizing that they just aren't going to do it for you, what's the best way to handle that?

Quickly, politely, succinctly.

Though, I must tell you, I've gotten that " It isn't you, it's that you can't control me" line from many a sub/slave wannabe and I can tell you, from experience - many, many years of experience - if you can't find someone who can control you, it's probably you. Especially if you always make that judgment call BEFORE meeting them face to face. You might just have unrealistic expectations. Most people do!