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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 5/31/2006 7:57:48 PM

theRose4U

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I was sick the day they taught sharing in pre-school.
So I dont share. Whats mine is mine.

I flunked sandbox

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/1/2006 1:51:32 PM

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It was very intense. I would have replied before this, but i have been seriously ill. i am now just getting better.
The whole experience was very intese for my submissive. It resulted in some very deep conversation between her and I. It was more of me tryign to find out what it made her feel and how deeply those feelings hit her.

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ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

I am curious to hear how this turns out.. please share! lol ;)

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ORIGINAL: dincubus

My first experience of sharing my sub will be happening in about 8 hours or so. A friend of ours is a switch and shall be giving my sub several firsts this evening. I am truly hoping this does not backfire upon me, but i do believe that all shall be ok

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/1/2006 4:53:41 PM

CreativeDominant

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Here is a question for both Dominants and submissives. Dom/mes, do you share your subs? Subs, do you serve your Master or Mistresses friends, and if so, in what capacity?

I do not know about anyone else here, but I quite often get mail from "subs" who want do anything for me (and my girlfriends) pleasure. lol Some submissives (term used loosly here) seem to want to "serve" anyone who is present. Is this commonly done? Who does it, and why?

I will allow my sub to serve my friends in a non-sexual capacity. Am I a minority? How do others feel about this issue?

I have no problem with sharing my submissive, depending upon the situation and the circumstances, and the people involved. There would definitely have to be a boatload of communication about this subject before it occurred, not only between me and mine but also between me and the person involved (if scene activity or D/s activity of any nature or sexual activity) and finally between all of us.

It is not a big thing on my agenda...it is not one of those make or break deals: "You will be shared or you are no longer mine" type of deals.

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/1/2006 6:10:22 PM

Sinergy

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Hello A/all,

I went to the Lair De Sade in Los Angeles last year, mainly to people watch and socialize. At one point I wandered down to my favorite room, the dungeon, and was followed by a couple.

He tied her up, facing the wall, blindfolded her, kissed her, and began to flog her. She was tied in such a way that she could turn around, and he instructed her to do so in order to flog both sides.

There was a synergy to their actions, so in step with each other, that I was almost awestruck at it's beauty.

At one point, he turned to me politely watching from the side, and offered me the flogger.

I declined, but mentioned to him that I felt profoundly honored that he would offer. I indicated to him that I really did not feel comfortable intruding on such a perfect scene.

He went back to work.

So from the opposite standpoint (how many Dominant's share other Dominant's subs) I would have to say that I am one of those who doesnt. I need that intimate connection with the person I am playing with, and if it is not there, I dont feel comfortable performing such an intimate act.

On the other hand, I tend to avoid speaking in infinitives, so this could change at some point in the future.

Just me, etc.

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/1/2006 6:33:29 PM

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Luckily for this slave, Master leaves that up to her = ) Totally, completely, in her ball park up to her. Prolly cos the first time He tried it didnt end so well. Yeah..... kind of ended with His slave in the bathroom crying her eyes out with the bathroom door locked. Master felt terrible (dunno why) and His slave felt terrible (hate to ruin the fun).. so well Master leaves that field well alone! His slave triiiiiiiiiiiiiiesssssssss to be abit more open.. has improved alot! Generally when it comes down to it, if His slave "cant" get involved Master always gives her an easy exit. Course He did throw her in a partial orgy once... which was hilarious! Good ol nerves! Ever saw a girl play with another girl and the first words out of the mouth are "oooooo so thats what it feels like" and the next words are "eeeeewwwwww goobers!"

Rah, so Master doesnt share unless He is assured His slave is "okay" with it. His slave has made a few ventures outside of the relationship, on her own.. Never With Master being involved.. and doubt she'll do it again. Crap like that usually doesnt end well

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/2/2006 10:23:27 AM

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I am sorry to hear you have been ill. Also hoping all is well and the experience strengthened your relationship with your sub. :)

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ORIGINAL: dincubus

It was very intense. I would have replied before this, but i have been seriously ill. i am now just getting better.
The whole experience was very intese for my submissive. It resulted in some very deep conversation between her and I. It was more of me tryign to find out what it made her feel and how deeply those feelings hit her.

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ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

I am curious to hear how this turns out.. please share! lol ;)

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ORIGINAL: dincubus

My first experience of sharing my sub will be happening in about 8 hours or so. A friend of ours is a switch and shall be giving my sub several firsts this evening. I am truly hoping this does not backfire upon me, but i do believe that all shall be ok

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/2/2006 9:23:22 PM

KennelDeSade2

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>>i notice you stated 'former' slave....i sense there may be 'several' of those.<<
I am wounded to the quick by your view of my likely dating habits.
OK, I lied, I'm really amused. How many over how long would you consider to be "several?" I consider it in my favor that I am on good enough terms with nearly every "ex" in my life, that dinner from time to time is the rule more than the exception.
And collared, unrestricted, 24/7 type slaves in the last five years? Two. If I'm lucky, it will be three, soon.

Now, was there a point hiding in that, or did you just want to take a slap at me because you don't care for my presentation of views?

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RE: How many Dominants share their subs - 6/3/2006 2:11:03 PM

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Sir does not "share" me in any way without my input, because he knows I'm funny about things like that, and he respects that.

However, we both have outside sexual and play relationships with others - sometimes separate, sometimes together.

And we are both the type to help out, so you're likely to see *either* of us in a "service"-looking role if needed. But actual service? That's for him.

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