AngelControlsU
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This is a classified ad I posted on fetlife, I realize it is a little long and I hope it does not seem as if I am trying to circumvent rules and post it here under the disguise of something else but I would really like some feed back as to how it makes me sound as a Mistress and person really. Especially to a sub who might be reading it, if someone thinks it belongs in a different area I am sorry.
The reason I ask is because moments after posting it I was called a BDSM prostitute among other insulting things by some troll and while I do not worry about what one troll thinks I do worry that Due to past experiences I will unintentionally come off in a way that would scare off any potentially great slaves or subs. Or combined with certain things in My profile people will get the wrong idea.
Ad Title: Domme In Minneapolis, MN Looking for a slave/cuckold/husband & a sub girlfriend
Ad Body: Hi there, I am looking for exactly what it says in the title, Please read on if the title interests you.
My ideal household would work like this (there is most definitely room for variation and with different people things might with slightly differently I will explain more below):
I would like one male slave to serve Me as a live in long term slave, he will be responsible for holding a good job outside of the home and take a large part in supporting My home (I say a large part but do not take this to mean that I do not work, I have been self employed for the last 4 years in Internet Marketing and have great ups and not so great downs but I am very driven and spend quite a bit of time working) I prefer a slave who is a business or property owner, I am especially attracted to attorneys and successful entrepreneurs, but do not let that discourage you if that is not your profession. As I was saying, the male sub’s first priority is financial gain for his Mistress, when not working his free time will be spend cleaning, cooking, household chores and handy man type work, performing as a sexual slave for myself and anyone else I order. He will be disciplined when I see fit and should be very service oriented, your goal should always be to make me as happy as you possibly can. Eventually he might be required to marry and serve as a cuckold husband and father children if I so choose.
I would also like one female submissive, you will notice I use the word sub in stead of slave for the female, this is because I am a Female Supremacist and My styles of Domination are very different with females then males. My female sub would be more like a girlfriend and while she would be submissive to Me she would never ever submit to one else especially a man. She would serve more as a personal / office assistant working only for me and never outside of the home. She would be second in line for cooking and cleaning duties if the male slaves job was to time consuming to complete all of it (like I said the male slave’s first priority is to bring in money for the my household so if he were a busy lawyer or taking lots of over time that would come first).
My Domination style with men consists of physical punishment, humiliation, at times Chastity, and Rewards for good behavior and service. I do definitely develop close personal loving relationships with My male slaves and certainly care about there wellbeing and happiness.
My Domination style with woman is much more nurturing and motherly, I guide them and mold them in to what not only I want but what they strive to be. I fall much more deeply inlove with them and while I am always dominant to their submissive I still regard them as an equal and respect their feelings much more then I do a mans.
I am sure my differences in styles boil down to my Female Supremacy views, while I believe men have an important place in this world I believe it is to serve women kind. I believe in a woman choice to do whatever makes her happy and therefore if what makes a beautiful woman happy to serve Me, if she wants to live for me and devote her life to making me happy I would consider Myself to be one very lucky Domme and view that submission as a beautiful gift. Mean while I feel a mans place is at my feet doing whatever I say, in this case it is him who should count himself lucky to have the honor of serving Me and for Me allowing him to take his rightful place as a slave and servant to a superior Femdom Goddess. This does not mean I will not grow to love and cherish him, just like a beloved family pet, Do I love my dog? Of course I do. Do I cuddle him and nuzzle him and let him sleep with me once in a while? Yes I do! Do I take care of him and would I cry if he was hurt? Your damn right I would. Do I let him decide where we walk and what food he eats and weather or not he is allowed to bark at strangers? HELL NO!
Anyway after all that being said please take a minute to check out my profile and if you think that you might fit in to either position and be happy there in please contact me respectfully. Please put some thought and time in to your introduction, messages with only a sentence or two will most likely be ignored.
Thank you all who have taken the time to read this.
~Goddess Angel
This is the first responce I got:
him: "(like I said the male slave’s first priority is to being in money for the my household so if he were a busy lawyer or taking lots of over time that would come first)."
Jesus Christ, really? There are so many things wrong here I don't even know where to start. How about the easy stuff? Get a real job. Being a BDSM-prostie doesn't make you "self-employed" just like the nightshift pizza guy you scorn in your profile isn't in "mid-level management". The only difference is, that guy probably has a lot of heart delivering pizzas for chunky people like you to stuff in their pieholes, which is more than can be said for you, nitwit. Any self-respecting sub would kick you in the babymaker lol.
I did feel the urge to respond and I did: Ahh I made 90k last year thank you, (in Marketing which has nothing do with BDSM) I don't need a real job I run My own business as I have been doing that successfully for the last 4 years.
Normally I would not even respond to such an obvious troll but I did feel the need to point that out.
Oh and thank you for bring to light a typo I had missed
Oh and I sincearly hope you find a better outlet for your negitivity, it will only hurt you.
him: S I N C E R E L Y N E G A T I V I T Y they're not typos, you're just illiterate. (Yes I made a horrible mistake that made me look pretty stupid! I am a terrible speller but I always run everything though spell check I really don't know how this one sentence slipped though!)
him: you have financial domination nonsense all over your profile, are soliciting for a benefactor in violation of group rules, and I'm the troll? Get lost you clown
Me: Oh and I also supported My ex-husband completely, he did all the cooking and cleaning and housework and I paid every bill bought his clothing and personal items and even gave him an allowance.
If not wanting to do that again makes me a BDSM prostitute then I guess you called me out.
LMFAO!
Me again: I will just write this off as one of your occasional indulgences of your playful shit-talking miscreant deep inside. I hope you gain what ever it is you hope to gain out of it. (a reference to something he said in his profile)
I am not soliciting for anything, merely because I stated that I expect the male slave to work outside of the home while the female sub works for Me (I work from home and currently employ 2 part timers to which I pay an hourly rate) does not mean that he would be the sole benefactor of our household. I have not violated any group rules. I am not asking for anyone to send Me money or anything for that matter. Your just upset at My views of men being akin to dogs, you are the ill-tempered dog that in a perfect world I would have put down.
you can at least take some pride or contentment or whatever it is you were looking for out of knowing that you have in fact pissed me off, I did not want my personal ad to turn to a stupid pissing match with a overly opinoionated about what he knows not troll
Oh yeah sorry for being illiterate. My bad.
I added the comments because I did explain a few things that I left out that might help my case a bit. The question here is though, is he right? Do I come off that way? There are many reasons for Me stating what I want in such a way, for one as I mentioned I supported My ex-husband completely and that did not work out well, did not make Me happy or him for that matter and I know what I want next time around. Am I going to scare off decent subs because I sound like I just want their money? (I did not think this is how I was coming off but apparently some do) I know my take on males and females and there places in life and my Female Supremacist views cause a lot of controversy and get people riled up and angry and I think this might be the case with him too, even though he said nothing on that subject, if this is your problem with My post then I certainly understand that but then say that please.
Is there something wrong with stating that I expect a slave to work outside of the home and carry a large part of the household financial load? I would assume as a slave (not a sub) they would expect their funds (if any) will be at the mercy of their Master or Mistress, this is not an unusual practice, Some slaves expect to work and hand over their paychecks while others expect to serve only with in the home and be supported by there Master or Mistress. Is there something wrong with me clarifying which dynamic I want for my household? Or am I just going overboard with it in my post? Or is this guy just a troll trying to get me riled up (in which case this thread only proves he did and I should just shut the help up and quit second guessing Myself)?
I am asking for constrictive criticism!
Not name calling and immature judgmental rants.
Please be respectful!
Thank you for reading!
*Edited for typos and missed punctuation as always (but that does not mean I still didn’t miss some)*
< Message edited by AngelControlsU -- 7/18/2011 1:47:08 PM >
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