LafayetteLady -> RE: Amy Winehouse found dead (7/24/2011 10:29:55 PM)
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I don't think it is a matter of being a "hater." People tend to fall into one of two "camps" when it comes to the death of drug addicts. Those who feel it is a waste and sad that someone who is talented died so "tragically," and those who just don't have the pity to feel bad for someone who threw their life away. My brother died of a heroin overdose, so it isn't like I haven't been "touched" by drug addiction in my life. A drug addict, beyond what they do to themselves cause pain for everyone close to them. It isn't pretty, it isn't fun. I was not a fan of Amy Winehouse. I think it is ridiculous to talk about her death as so "sad" when the majority of us didn't know her. Wishing peace and condolences to her family is one thing. Something people do in general when hearing about a death. Personally, I think we all, as people who aren't celebrities, look at the lives of Winehouse, Cobain, Joplin, Hendrix, Belushi, etc. as something we just can't seem to understand. After all, these people were all where they wanted to be in their careers, and to us they were living their dream, playing their music, making movies, whatever. Amy Winehouse made a hit record that sold millions, won grammies. That was the goal. It is difficult to understand why when you reach your goal, you throw it away with stupidity. And yes, it is stupidity. It isn't like she was in denial about her addictions. She knew it, and did not go to rehab (no pun intended). This doesn't hold true for Hendrix or Joplin (far more talented than Winehouse in my opinion, by the way), they were "victims" of their time and we didn't know anywhere near as much about addiction then, or the dangers these drugs could be. I don't follow the idea that some people just like to party and get "caught up" in addiction without other issues. I doubt that most people who have been addicts or dealt with them on any level would agree. So yes, Amy Winehouse is dead from drug use. She was not the most talented artist of our time, she was someone who had ONE record and was spinning out of control before she even put that album out. Don't know her to "hate" her. But also don't know her to really care that much. All I think is that it is another person who wasted their life and did horrible damage to their family with drugs.
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