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Nor this one. That's why I really don't bother, I had a wonderfully entertaining series of conversations over a period of a few weeks with what was obviously a guy pretending to be a woman using his ex-girlfriend's pictures on here.
I personally don't care if a person is male, female, or anything else when I am looking for entertainment, I don't care, for example, if Icarys is a man living in Alaska, or a woman in Zimbabwe. The persona he (or possibly she) presents is entertaining and insightful, and that is all that matters. This is online, and we can be anything we want to here, and I'll accept you however you present yourself. I don't know if LP is real, or if the piles of people who claim to have met her are real, they could all be one guy in a basement in Newark for all I know. But it doesn't matter, because when that pimply geek puts on his LadyPact persona, he says things that I find thought-provoking, entertaining and useful.
Now, as to the problem of fakes when it comes to dating...well I don't use this site for that much, other than finding the odd girl with a passing creepy old man fantasy to live out and they are usually pretty anxious to meet and get it over with, so it's not an issue.
That kind of works for me too when it comes to the internet, in way, it's interesting because there is no physical involvement, if that awkward moment comes when the chick you're dating turn out to have a penis, no harm, no foul - it's much easier to deal with than a long drive home through an unfamiliar neighborhood, with all sort of uncomfortable feelings running through your head, just sayin', it's just an abstract head in cyberspace.
Personally, I prefer to cam, I can find out if you're real or not real fast, and while a lot of people think that it's tantamount to being a stripper or a masturbation aid - so what? Again, there si no physical contact, no STD's, no guy pissing all over your toilet or farting and holding your head under the covers, it better than frigging alone no?
I prefer meatspace, who doesn't? But what are you supposed to do if fireworks go off but you're 2000 miles away?
And, as I say, it's hard to fake a cam - for that matter, who says it has to be sexual? If you can talk to me in a coffee shop, you can talk to me on cam, it's the same thing, neutral territory.
But you say cam, and it's suddenly all about sex, and you're some kind of wanker - I can't reach through the fucking screen and rip your clothes off, it's actually the one medium where you have absolute and perfect safety: you can kill it with the touch of a button, and at least I know what you look like, but I have no address, no phone number, I don't know what kind of car you drive, it doesn't matter if you're fat, or smell funny, now it's just a head with a face.
There is a downside to it of course, plenty of people susceptible to click fever, I quit chatting because I was sick of trying to talk to a chick with five other guys on the line and a half hour between relies, it's like a blindfolded gang bang - I mean, if you did that in meatspace, I'd drop you in a heartbeat.
But if it's just entertainment, what's the big deal? It's just socializing without all the complications, even if you cyber, it technically just makes you really good friends, not really lovers, per se - and it doesn't prevent you from dating does it? Shit I love it when chick tell me about their sexual adventures, it's no skin off my nose, shit, live it up, bird in the hand and all that.
Anyway, if I can't ever see you, I'll never know if you're real or not, and I'm going to be a lot more detached, I just can't get that serious with a voice coming out of the void, I try to take you at face value, but it's very weird for me, that's just the way I am.
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