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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/12/2011 6:43:56 PM

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I don't know if LP is real, or if the piles of people who claim to have met her are real, they could all be one guy in a basement in Newark for all I know. But it doesn't matter, because when that pimply geek puts on his LadyPact persona, he says things that I find thought-provoking, entertaining and useful.

If I could actually pull all of that off, I'd absolutely *have* to have better computer skills than I do.

I've got to tell you though, if you actually remembered the "I could just be some guy from Jersey" joke, you get serious kudos!

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 2:50:38 AM

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I just got into this on page six and haven't read anything. But I figure it this way, if it looks good it is fake. Real people look like shit these days, so if you don't detect that, you probably have a fake.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 6:39:36 AM

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there lots kinds of fakes and degrees of fakinees

the lesbian domme profile thats blond and full of artificial enhancements

the profile where all pics are mode poses

a fair number of female blonde 21 dommes from manchester as surely manchester cant have that many after all where would rooney go

and there small porkie pies

just read profiles

while making thousand mile roundtrips every weekend maybe plausible for someone who lives in a metropolis

somone who lives out in the sticks or in the middle of the frozen wastes may not be

esp if that frozen waste community is filled with hunting and fishing people not the usual ds fodder

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 6:58:15 AM

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the lesbian domme profile thats blond and full of artificial enhancements

the profile where all pics are mode poses

...people who are active on their local scene and yet have never come across a professional dominant...

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 7:01:37 AM

JWriter

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somone who lives out in the sticks or in the middle of the frozen wastes may not be

esp if that frozen waste community is filled with hunting and fishing people not the usual ds fodder

Amen to that!

I look for the fantasy profiles. "I am the perfect submissive" is a statement of a person who has never submitted, more often than not . "I have no limits." is a person with no experience. In either case, they are "saying their right words". Just like the dommes/doms who talk about how they want the 24/7 groveling worm slaves to kick, abrade and otherwise torture, rob of all their money, there are no exceptions to the cruelty they will inflict, and, of course, this will all be wrapped up in a loving relationship. No! Either you will be treated like a cruel piece of garbage or it will be a loving relationship. It can't be both. Use a little logic, consider how often when someone has told you that they are "honest" on their profile, they have turned out to be a liar, how "handsome" usually means passable but arrogant, and, all the other little catch-phrases that, when someone is bragging about themselves, usually point to an undesirable relationship looming in the future.

Also, just take the persons ID and do a Google search. Many legitimate dominants and s-types have groups and blogs where they post their experiences with people, by ID, in a way that will not put those people in danger of being found offline but which may help you get a clue to how they have been received and perceived online.

Lately, I've taken to doing searches for a combination of keywords, statistical information, and, interests, that prove the person is a liar, from the start, and, then blocking and hiding their profile, before their contacting me is even an issue. That way, it saves some of them the time of even trying to convince me of anything, and, it keeps their profile from popping up in the list whenever I do a search. I, also, search out people who have interests that I find so vile that I would not even want to know them as people, much less as friends or servants, such as the ones into "toilet training". That doesn't mean they are fakes though; it just is another method of saving time and trouble, later.

Lastly, of course, actually reading the profile and journal entry, forum posts, considering the quality of the photos, asking for a more recent photo of them holding a very specific sign, or, if they are local asking for a public meeting sooner rather than later, are all good ways to help yourself determine if the profile is fake or not.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 8:42:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

the lesbian domme profile thats blond and full of artificial enhancements

the profile where all pics are mode poses

...people who are active on their local scene and yet have never come across a professional dominant...

lol vaguely so you think while at a ds munch with people I dont know I should go up to them and saty are you by chance a pro domme lol

particularly since part dyspraxia is i dont tend to make friends easily

but hey thats my explanation whats yours for saying you know people who are obv blatant liars

you wanna play games sweety go ahead

at least im not one the crowd that there status says there offline when infact they are online

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 8:47:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

the lesbian domme profile thats blond and full of artificial enhancements

the profile where all pics are mode poses

...people who are active on their local scene and yet have never come across a professional dominant...

lol vaguely so you think while at a ds munch with people I dont know I should go up to them and saty are you by chance a pro domme lol

particularly since part dyspraxia is i dont tend to make friends easily

but hey thats my explanation whats yours for saying you know people who are obv blatant liars

you wanna play games sweety go ahead

at least im not one the crowd that there status says there offline when infact they are online

but hey i alsp dont say im just here for the forums like so many the trouble makers and egotists do

which when yoiu is funny because why say your here for the forums and then say your hidden when your not

being here for the forums would surely mean your here for the forum and not just to associate with boot lickers

and i said I HADN'T MET ONE not they dont exist but hey you said that in my 2nd thread now 3 months down line

still using it be original sweety but then having a rude short profile obv shows u cant be lol

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 8:52:17 AM

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lol vaguely so you think while at a ds munch with people I dont know I should go up to them and saty are you by chance a pro domme lol

Seriously, nobody's quiet about it. If you really had been on the scene for a while it would have come up, believe me.

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at least im not one the crowd that there status says there offline when infact they are online

Seriously? You object to me turning the 'online' function off? You may not realise this, but women get spam when that little green light's on. I choose to cut down on it by appearing offline. I'm not sure what that has to do with me just being here for the forums, though...

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 9:00:51 AM

LadyConstanze

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but hey i alsp dont say im just here for the forums like so many the trouble makers and egotists do

which when yoiu is funny because why say your here for the forums and then say your hidden when your not

being here for the forums would surely mean your here for the forum and not just to associate with boot lickers

and i said I HADN'T MET ONE not they dont exist but hey you said that in my 2nd thread now 3 months down line

still using it be original sweety but then having a rude short profile obv shows u cant be lol

Some of us are actually here for the forums, what is funny about hiding your online status so you don't get spammed? It's not like we have nuclear meltdowns and then hide our profiles, like some people do on a regular basis.

Actually you said that NO MALE PROS exist, you also said a lot more rubbish. As for not having met one, I guess you can't meet all that many people sitting at home, makes sense.

As for the rest of what you are trying to say, not a clue - have you ever considered to use that fantastic invention they call a spell check?

Btw weren't you also going to leave, several times? Maybe you should start a poll who wants you here, you might find somebody who votes for you?

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 1:39:35 PM

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LadyC, you haz c-mail.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 1:42:25 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK
the profile where all pics are mode poses

Why would somebody put up pics that weren't poses? Personally, I've got exactly one shot on the site that I didn't necessarily "pose" for. It's on the "keeping abreast of other threads" string. In fact, I'm not even the one who posted it. The person who took the picture posted it, with My permission.

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just read profiles

Yes, we're all well aware of your obsession with other Dominants.

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while making thousand mile roundtrips every weekend maybe plausible for someone who lives in a metropolis

Actually, it's easier the other way around. When you live in a small town, you don't have to deal with the issue of traffic to get to the city that is your destination. It almost always takes longer to go back because the traffic is more dense in leaving the city where you attended.

No blaming the slash key on this one. Big difference between a hundred and a thousand, especially since you spelled it out. The munch that I attend is roughly a hundred miles away. Current temperature is fifty-four degrees. Hardly a "frozen wasteland". Though, I will admit we froze our asses off at the camp out last weekend, especially the wee hours of Friday night/Saturday morning.

I won't speak for anybody else, but I have exactly one event that I traveled "thousands" of miles. That was Southeast Leather Fest 2010. It just happened to fall in the same week that My son was graduating, so we added a day to the trip. (Didn't stay for all three.) You'll find the "women of SELF" shoot as number 44 or 45 for the pics from that particular year. I am, very obviously, included in the shot.

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somone who lives out in the sticks or in the middle of the frozen wastes may not be

As I said, it hasn't quite "frozen" here yet, but when it does, I'm pretty sure we'll be cutting back visiting the city at least half of the weekends out of the month. We certainly won't be making trips to the bigger city, that is six hours away. Only been there once so far, but I really enjoyed their three day event.

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esp if that frozen waste community is filled with hunting and fishing people not the usual ds fodder

Why would that be? For some folks here, that's part of their livelihood.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 4:13:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: DavidLee44UK

sad sad sad

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ORIGINAL: JWriter

Lately, I've taken to doing searches for a combination of keywords, statistical information, and, interests, that prove the person is a liar, from the start, and, then blocking and hiding their profile, before their contacting me is even an issue. That way, it saves some of them the time of even trying to convince me of anything

I do feel pity for both of you.

I feel pity for JWriter that she has such a huge mistrust of people that she would waste her time in the fashion she has just described in order to prove people are liars. To actually look for the bad in people, rather than the good is a sorrowful approach. I don't understand her desire to seek out the insincere who may never even contact her at all.

I feel pity for DavidLee44UK who does more to damage his spirit than heal it.

Yes David, it is sad, sad, sad.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 4:28:39 PM

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I am going to lock this thread for an overhaul. No promises as to its return.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 6:31:57 PM

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This thread required a major overhaul because of a few serious TOS violations.

Please stay on topic.

VAXi

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 8:43:14 PM

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Here's how I sort them out. I print them out, then tack them to a corkboard. Then I throw darts. If I manage to hit one (and not, for instance, miss and nail the cat or break a mirror), it's a real person.

Kenneth Mars taught me this tek.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/13/2011 8:51:24 PM

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I know the thread had to be *ahem* fixed, for obvious reasons, but has anyone pointed out that a little common sense and judgement goes a long way in the process of looking at a profile and deciding if it's weal or fakies?

Juuuuuuuuuuuuuuust askin'...............

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/14/2011 11:48:59 AM

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I know the thread had to be *ahem* fixed, for obvious reasons, but has anyone pointed out that a little common sense and judgement goes a long way in the process of looking at a profile and deciding if it's weal or fakies?

Juuuuuuuuuuuuuuust askin'...............

People with a full set of teeth are obviously all fake, just saying

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/14/2011 11:51:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

I know the thread had to be *ahem* fixed, for obvious reasons, but has anyone pointed out that a little common sense and judgement goes a long way in the process of looking at a profile and deciding if it's weal or fakies?

Juuuuuuuuuuuuuuust askin'...............

People with a full set of teeth are obviously all fake, just saying

One of my teeth is missing guess that makes me real after all.

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/14/2011 12:32:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear
I know the thread had to be *ahem* fixed, for obvious reasons, but has anyone pointed out that a little common sense and judgement goes a long way in the process of looking at a profile and deciding if it's weal or fakies?

Juuuuuuuuuuuuuuust askin'...............

People with a full set of teeth are obviously all fake, just saying

I have a few missing teeth at the back, so that makes me real too. Yiiiiiiipeeeeeeeeeeeee Kaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiii Yaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy!

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RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? - 8/14/2011 12:54:24 PM

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I had molars extracted as my jaw was too small, must be real too, but I'm just judging from a video that was posted... Contrary to what this video shows, we DO have dentists in the UK! Honestly!

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