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What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they... - 8/25/2011 11:43:14 AM

Pyramus

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I've always been fascinated with a woman's body ... so much that every breast is excitingly different (even on the same person), and I never tire at looking at a woman's pussy, noting the luscious differences between each of the delicious outside and inside folds and upward to the hood and cliteris, etc.

So, it's with wonderment that I see many profiles here stating "I know what a cock looks like".

Well, I know what a vagina looks like - but still, every single one is different in a deliciously exciting way just as every nipple is different in how it responds to touch (gentle or otherwise).

What is it, really, that is SO VERY DIFFERENT about women, in general in this regard?

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 11:48:55 AM

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Read this:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_100186/mpage_1/key_stupid%252Cchicken%252Cdance/tm.htm#100186

Thus endeth the lesson.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 11:49:19 AM

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I find penises to be vaguely interesting, for a very short period of time (seconds rather than hours). There's only one cock that I'm VERY interested in, and that's attached to someone rather special.

When it comes to profile pics, having a pic of your dick shouts "I'm only here for sex!!!". Which is great if you're also only looking for sex, but if you're looking for a relationship...not so much.

Sometimes I've chatted with a guy, he's sent a pic of his face...and a pic of his cock. I would equate that to standing chatting to someone in a bar, and them suddenly whipping out the little feller and saying "what do you think of THAT?" with a smug grin on their face.

I want to find out what's going on in the big head long before I start to wonder about the little head.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 11:52:34 AM

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You know it is not that women in general do not wish to see nudity. I love to see the man i am with naked and to spend hours with his cock in front of my face. When i first meet someone, however, i think it rude to whip out your cock and thrust it in my face. Now perhaps you do not think it would be rude for sally to greet you vagina first at the coffee shop. That is what will just make us different.

I like to get to know the man behind the cock before i worship the member. I have heard theories that state that men are more likely to see women as parts of bodies as opposed to a whole and i think that (though originally it sounds derogatory) could be part of the difference. A cock is not as great as a part unless there is more behind it for me personally.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 11:58:43 AM

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Um, dude? I love pics of women's breasts, faces, and hair. Not so much pussies. You do not speak for all of us men.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:12:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

What is it, really, that is SO VERY DIFFERENT about women, in general in this regard?

Are you equally fascinated by staring at cock? If you are not, why do you think that women should be?

I can't speak for any other woman, obviously, but body parts do not a person make. I don't much care what sort of danglies are on your chest or between your legs. Do the parts work and is there something interesting between the ears?

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:19:45 PM

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Ron, you're the cat's meow.

I'm not going to generalize about women. I'm just going to give My perspective. I honestly don't care what your cock looks like if I'm not interested in the man first.

Thus sayeth LP.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:21:38 PM

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Um, dude? I love pics of women's breasts, faces, and hair. Not so much pussies. You do not speak for all of us men.

I'm with you, DS. I think the female body is the most beautiful thing ever created. But the female pussy is the one body part that is an exception to that statement.

I love everything about the pussy except looking at it.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:26:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Um, dude? I love pics of women's breasts, faces, and hair. Not so much pussies. You do not speak for all of us men.

I'm with you, DS. I think the female body is the most beautiful thing ever created. But the female pussy is the one body part that is an exception to that statement.

I love everything about the pussy except looking at it.

I gotta disagree with you and steve there roch. The way those delicate folds open up like a flower......................siiiiiiiiiiiigh.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:28:44 PM

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What is it, really, that is SO VERY DIFFERENT about women, in general in this regard?

There is no hard and fast rule that applies to all women, but most women know how to spell clitoris.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:32:33 PM

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Good GAWD... if at 45 years old you need this explained to you, then it's time to put the bleach-soaked pillowcase over your head NOW and breathe in deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!!!

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:37:32 PM

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I love everything about the pussy except looking at it.

You betcha..
Generally speaking further:
I love women and their bodies.. such beauty and elegance in the natural design for most of form but when we come to the vagina.. That's one ugly mug.

That's not to say I haven't seen the exception but FFS what happened to the rest.. They look like a genetic experiment gone bad or some meat that's 3 days past prime..

Now before you get your vaginal horses a'racing and wanna tell me this or that.. I've seen enough to know yours is probably ugly as fuck too. That means you too! *points round the room at all of you women.

The benefits way outweigh the sudden "WTF is that? Are you hurt?!?!" feeling we feel inside when you ladies first drop the snatch covers... those pass.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 1:44:12 PM

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To the OP, most guys are turned on by visual stuff, so yeah looking at neked women is a big turn on.

The ladies on the other hand, well... you got to do somethng to get them to engage their brain.

Of course there are exptions to the rules. And that makes it even more complicated for guys to understand ladies
Don't take what MSLA says too hard, some of us take longer to find this stuff out than others.

OH.... as for me... yeah, I like seeing pussy

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 2:13:12 PM

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When I was about 25 I had a very well known male gynecologist tell me I had the prettiest vagina he had ever seen. I assume it was a pick-up line he used to try and snag female patients. I have not had a male gynecologist since. I've nothing against males in the medical profession, my primary quack is male and I adore him. Just, if you're down there for medical business, I need you to stick to business.

Seriously though, I have found vaginas vary so much, some are very pretty, some not so much, some just down right ugly and off putting. It's the same with penises, to me. Some are just, not just no, but HELL no. Others are delightful to look at. I am sure that's all down to personal preference. I'd love to know if anyone is actually studying this. What a paper to write !!

Anyway, I can say I've never had an actual relationship with someone if I didn't like how their bits looked and smelled.

I am personally not in the least offended by nudity, but unless I know the person and find them attractive for reasons other than their body, it doesn't mean a great deal to me. I can admire a fine male or female body and find great beauty in it, from a distance so to speak. You need a lot more to attract me.

I think the females here just get so tired of males leading with their dicks. As some have pointed out, you wouldn't do that at a bar or a party or some other social event. It smacks of creepy flasherism.

But then I continue to be amazed at what some males on the profile side think a female will find attractive.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 2:19:21 PM

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Why no penis photos desired?

Well, its like being flashed by a bum in an alley in the middle of a heroin puke

... jarring & non-consensual. I dont know you.. was just strolling through my email unawares and you jump out exposing yourself to me without invitation.. its rude and presumptuous. Would you walk over to a woman at a bus stop & introduce yourself with your cock hanging out? No? Then don't do it in email/main profile photo. Shows nothing but a huge lack of social skills.

Not to mention your disembodied dick may not even belong to the profile holder/random email sender... how the fuck can you be sure when its a dick shot only? If I dont know you from adam, why would I care about your cock? I have no vested interest. Lets be frank, us womyns have no shortage of men willing to offer us their members at the drop of a hat... go to any bar an hour before closing & you'll see my point. If we want random dick, we can get it pretty easy. What you need to focus on is stimulating our mind.. so we'll have a reason to want to see your cock as a secondary screening tool... lol

And really....
If that is the best 1/3 of a foot you have to put forward.. well.. it wont impress... we can buy them in any size we want... work on your sales pitch, before you underwhelm us with the product on premature delivery plan. Women can overlook a small dick if the one wearing makes up for it in other ways... AND HAS OTHER QUALITIES TO OFFER.... but if all you are IS a dick to us.. well...

(why even ask the question though, when so many women aren't interested... take a hint and wait for the dick photo *request* instead of flashing your wanger around willy nilly)

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 2:20:47 PM

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Well, its like being flashed by a bum in an alley in the middle of a heroin puke

omg, I love this!!

and I agree!!!

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 2:33:44 PM

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Well, its like being flashed by a bum in an alley in the middle of a heroin puke

haha i agree! How eloquently stated with such accurate depiction!

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 2:43:10 PM

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What does it mean when a woman says they don't wish to see nudity? For me it means I know you probably have a cock or a cunt but unless I am interested in the person I really don't need to see your junk. I have similar views about seeing someones belly button, or armpit hair, or one of those moons that happen when you smack your finger.. ok, I might be interested in that if it is a cool shape.
From my POV, a random cock or cunt as a main profile shot, or the first volley in an email exchange tells me that they see it as their primary attraction. Which, I guess is ok since I prefer to know how someones mind works before I want to know more. I wouldn't be interested in someone who leads with their genitals

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 3:40:51 PM

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I've literally seen 100 + dicks in my lifetime, most in my mid to late teens. So I know they come in different sizes, some have funny shapes. But then I was *with* the guy, he didn't just walk up to me and whip it out. You do that in a public place and see how fast you can get arrested for indecent exposure. That's if they don't burst out laughing and just walk away from you. Then there ya are, you silly willy hanging out for all to see and make you look, like, well, a DICK. Now who gets the last laugh? O and here come the police anyways to take you in.

Same thing on the web, only it's an image and there's nothing women or men can do about having it waved in their face since it's been unsolicited. I don't want it in a picture, I don't want it on cam. If I don't feel and have a connection to the man, then it's just dangly bits between your legs. Nothing more, nothing less. I want to be able to hold it, do what I'm told to it and worship it if so chosen. But then it takes a special man for me to do so.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/25/2011 3:46:17 PM

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What is it, really, that is SO VERY DIFFERENT about women, in general in this regard?

There is no hard and fast rule that applies to all women, but most women know how to spell clitoris.

Thank you, Arpig. That choking sensation when somebody pipes up about a subject then doesn't know how to spell it is a drag.

OP, I've had to say this a lot lately and you are no exception. Show women a dick, they think you're a dick. Show women an ass, they think you're an ass. Show women your smiling face and they might even want to talk with you.

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