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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 5:58:34 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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i mean, i guess that's why guys put full-body nude photos on their profiles; because that's what they want to see, and they assume we want to see it, too.
not so.


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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 6:00:55 AM   
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Yeah, I figured out who it was immediately like Poise did. You are a strange woman with a very strange outlook on life, it's no wonder that you keep making new profiles to try to find someone, because I imagine when the new prospects get to know what you're like they start running.

Oh, lizi, it's going to get even better.  Just wait for this incarnation to have one word to say about pro dommes the way the last screen name did.  Of course, that was before the last screen name chose to put up her own ad on the "Professional Services" forum.


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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 6:13:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
one of these days, guys will figure out that we (in general) don't think like them.


+1

Guys think & act like guys think women want them to but in reality guys think and act like guys and most women don't.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 6:50:53 AM   
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Guys think & act like guys think women want them to but in reality guys think and act like guys and most women don't.



Ka-ching. There you have it.

Guys are assuming things are the same because they think what they want anyone else wants. Ok, I can see how this happens, but when they find out things are different it kills me that they keep persisting with their version of reality. Look at this thread! The OP likes what he likes, fine, he's in utter amazement that others like something different and says he can't figure that out. Not to be rude, but what does it matter what he thinks on the matter?

Either he changes up his game and goes forth with no dickie pics, or he is in for lot of angst trying to get a lot of other people on his agenda...and that's so not happening. I mean why do different people like different things to eat? We are all entitled to our preferences, not sure why the whiners come here - which to be clear, the OP is not whining- and try to whine others into doing what they want. How effective is that going to be?

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 8:04:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't see the prob with cock shots. The ladies say they like Mine.

Wait till you see what poise has cooked up for me to put in additional photos. I'll try to post em soon.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 8:05:31 AM   
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yer not just some random wanktard!

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 8:52:34 AM   
Amygdalin


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Status: offline 		They say as children and teenagers we often don't respect or really appreciate all the things our parents and family do for us. Kids can be cruel. After reading all of this, I am extremely grateful to my father for taking me in hand when I was 12 or 13 and had just entered puberty and questions like these (though perhaps not so graphically defined) came into my mind. And to my mother for being a stand up woman so I learned to view them as more than walking sex machines.

I think with the most important head I possess so I wasn't left without answers to 6th grade questions when I became a growed up with big kid responsibilities. Sorry, but this just seems like a common sense thing.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 9:36:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm clearly not in the majority.  I have no issue with cock pictures and rather like seeing all sorts.

I really like looking at them.....all the shapes, sizes, the way they dress one way or the other, circumcised or not and the way the balls hang; visually they appeal to me hugely. I also like vulvas for the same reason. Genitals fascinate me.

I don't need to be attached or involved with a cock to find it pleasant to look at. I've seen some *out of the ordinary* cocks and pussies but they all appeal to me on a visual level, all the same.

All that said.......I am not driven to look for pics and I've probably had about 8 sent me in 7 yrs of being on CM....:)

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 9:39:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

I'm clearly not in the majority.  I have no issue with cock pictures and rather like seeing all sorts.

I really like looking at them.....all the shapes, sizes, the way they dress one way or the other, circumcised or not and the way the balls hang; visually they appeal to me hugely. I also like vulvas for the same reason. Genitals fascinate me.

I don't need to be attached or involved with a cock to find it pleasant to look at. I've seen some *out of the ordinary* cocks and pussies but they all appeal to me on a visual level, all the same.

All that said.......I am not driven to look for pics and I've probably had about 8 sent me in 7 yrs of being on CM....:)

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Wanna bet that number doubles before the day is out? LOL

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 10:30:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl

I'm clearly not in the majority.  I have no issue with cock pictures and rather like seeing all sorts.

I really like looking at them.....all the shapes, sizes, the way they dress one way or the other, circumcised or not and the way the balls hang; visually they appeal to me hugely. I also like vulvas for the same reason. Genitals fascinate me.

I don't need to be attached or involved with a cock to find it pleasant to look at. I've seen some *out of the ordinary* cocks and pussies but they all appeal to me on a visual level, all the same.

All that said.......I am not driven to look for pics and I've probably had about 8 sent me in 7 yrs of being on CM....:)

agirl


Wanna bet that number doubles before the day is out? LOL


I've given my opinion and thoughts on this in the past and it didn't alter my inbox whatsoever.Nor did I expect that to change, so yes, I'll *betcha* :)

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 10:32:53 AM   
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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 10:35:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Oh, lizi, it's going to get even better.  Just wait for this incarnation to have one word to say about pro dommes the way the last screen name did.  Of course, that was before the last screen name chose to put up her own ad on the "Professional Services" forum.



Seriously? I mean she comes across as being looney but that's just hilarious. I swear things around here lately are like a circus.

On topic.
OP, it just seems to me to be a fruitless endeavor to wonder why people like what they like and to project what you like onto the rest of the population. We're all different, we all have preferences. That's how it is, you learn to work with that. Therefore, if a man wants a woman he should play it safe and save the genital pictures till he's sure they'll be welcomed.

If I want attention from my man I flash him, then I get his attention. I don't ask him for an hours long discussion about our deepest feelings complete with a thorough Q & A session at the end. He'd run screaming. Do we discuss feelings? Yes, we do, but we do it within boundaries that we are BOTH comfortable with, therefore its probably a shorter length of time than what I'd shoot for, but I'm still happy with things at the end. I also get to ask questions, often, he doesn't necessarily like it, but knows I'm an inquisitive little beast and that's how I operate. He tolerates it for me, I tone it down for him. Give and take. Moral of the story, if you want something, figure out how to get it. Stop thinking that because you want a certain thing or something turns you on that it's the same for the rest of the world.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 11:05:42 AM   
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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 11:16:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		WOW! I never realized there are men who dont like to look at pussy! I think they are like exotic flowers. Even girlie cum is more appealing to me then that of men. Allthough sometimes when they are all stretched out n hangin all over the place it is a turn off. Hence I stay away from used up ones. I also take that into consideration when I am playing with clamps and weights, I dont like to stretch my kitties to where the labia is just hangin in the breeze permantley. If is I just retract it with mouse traps. Now that I think about it everyones bodies are different for men and women both. I like very much to check all of it out because no two are the same. Thy body is a universe and I guess I like to explore :)Just my oppinion and you know what they say...

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 11:19:02 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Omg....that picture is exactly what we do too!
I was out shopping with a girl friend a while back, and a guy I was dating casually sent a text with a penis picture out of the blue. I didn't really like him that much and his equipment was so underwhelming...the whole thing was hilarious....we laughed so hard we had to leave the store and had stomachaches for the rest of the day because we kept thinking about it and laughing some more. See, he also posed himself in the bathroom mirror with the sink drain hole right next to his penis, they were like the same size and the similarity was dreadfully funny and kind of sad at the same time. If he only knew. I never really saw him again, I really couldn't develop any respect for someone that came across to me as an utter doofus. Supposed to be a Dom too...ugh

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 11:55:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Well, if you really want to know the reaction lotsa women have when they look at cock pics here ya go.


Wow - they instantly start practising bj techniques by stretching their mouths wide open?

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 12:02:54 PM   
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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 1:05:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Some women have larger labia and it does not correlate to being "used up". That is such poppycock.

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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 1:35:39 PM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		see, i like looking at genitalia; i start thinking about them all artistically.
BUT despite that (i mean, i think people talk enough about how lovely the female form is, but i think the male body is pretty lovely, too) i don't like a random guy sending them to my inbox. it's just annoying, no matter how aesthetically pleasing his cock might be, and most of them are pretty lovely.
but what turns me off about it is that it seems like cock shots are sent with this attitude like"this should be enough, come to my house now." and i just don't work like that. =p
hahaha


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RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says ... - 8/26/2011 2:50:19 PM   
Aresidora


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Some women have larger labia and it does not correlate to being "used up". That is such poppycock.



Sorry not trying to be insulting or too graphic of the nasty, but larger labia is NOT what I am talking about. With larger labia as stated I like to use mouse traps for retraction. When I said used up, I mean when things that were once inside are now hanging out. Or when inner labia have been stretched by weights so frequently that they hang an inch past the outter labia normally (wince and shutter).
Smooth tissue is the fastest healing part of the entire body, try not to ruin such a pretty picture with heavy weights on a constant basis. Please give the kitties some bounce back time.


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