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AAkasha -> She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 12:53:44 PM)



How much insanity and unpredictability could you endure from a woman that pushed all your buttons but was a little crazy at the same time? Think of the stereotypical imagery in movies of the wild woman in bed who is slightly off her rocker. I heard a comedian say that when you see "super hot chicks" who are crazy with guys it's because obviously the girl is wild in bed, so much that he tolerates her insanity. Of course that's an exaggeration of the theme I'm looking at here.

I am not talking about clinical depression or someone who has issues and is dealing with them. I am talking about someone who is wild and crazy and so dominant and kinky and open to everything, but she's also just a little off, unpredictable. Is that even potentially a part of the attraction - or do you just stay away completely?

When I talk to formerly vanilla guys who were "with kinky girls a few times" a common theme I hear is that the women were fun and adventurous but sometimes "a little weird" or "crazy." Is this the experience of anyone who has come across a wild woman in vanilla settings?

Akasha




Hillwilliam -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 12:59:52 PM)

A woman doesn't have to be crazy to be with me.

But it damn sure helps. [8D]




FelineFae -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:04:15 PM)

my way of thinking is that " the cute ones are always crazy " and " it's all just a matter of finding a brand of crazy that works with your own brand of crazy ".

Having said that, there is a stopping point. Many moons ago, a younger fae, i was with someone, and i gave everything i had to that relationship. She wasn't perfect, but neither am i. And then... i saw a side of her that wasn't something one could "get past". It was a " first time, shame on you / next time, shame on me " situation. There would not be a next time.





LadyPact -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:36:52 PM)

Reversing genders for the sake of discussion.

I'm in the stay away completely camp.  While I can absolutely be impulsive in the "let's go to this event or another" all of a sudden inspiration*****, bat shit crazy just isn't something I want anything to do with.  It doesn't matter to Me how hot somebody thinks they are, the disruption in life honestly isn't worth it to Me. 

The working on issues thing does hold an importance to Me, but there are also points where someone has already been too much.  If there hasn't been some kind of new meds, therapy, or treatment program, I'm not likely to listen to promises about how the old behavior will change.



****  By the way, the other half is reading over My shoulder as I'm typing this one.  Yes, I've been a PITA sometimes because I've suddenly decided I want to go somewhere.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:41:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

How much insanity and unpredictability could you endure from a woman that pushed all your buttons but was a little crazy at the same time?



Been there, done that.  I used to date a model in NYC.  She was one of the most stunningly beautiful women that I've ever seen in my life.  Anytime we'd go out, I knew that all eyes were going to be on us (actually, on her).  To make things even better, she was a complete nympho.  Most amazing sex I've ever had, and she could never get enough.

I met her in a bar.  I was playing darts, and she just walked up to me and said, "I want you.  You look yummy."  It was less than 30 minutes before we left the bar and headed to her place.  We didn't even make it to her apartment.  We pushed the stop button on the elevator and had sex right there.

The only problem was that she was crazy as a loon.  She'd get upset for no reason and start throwing dishes at me.  She even threw knives at me a few times.  At other times, she'd just start crying uncontrollably for no reason.  I thought she was completely nuts.

I thought about leaving her dozens of times.  But each time I did, I'd be awakened in the middle of the night by her licking and sucking on my cock.  It's amazing how a well-timed blowjob can keep a guy from leaving a bad relationship.

I know I was shallow.  But I was in my mid-20's.  These days, I don't tolerate crazy, no matter how beautiful or sexy she is.




lobodomslavery -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:52:39 PM)

She ought to have been committed. You were too charitable by far with Her. Theres out of your head crazy and that is that section no doubt about it. She should have been sectioned in a psychiatric ward
kevin




anniezz338 -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:54:34 PM)

And this is a bad thing?




NocturnalStalker -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:55:45 PM)

We all go a little crazy sometimes...




Rochsub2009 -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:57:18 PM)

Edit:  Nevermind.  I've self-censored my own post.




Hillwilliam -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 1:58:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

How much insanity and unpredictability could you endure from a woman that pushed all your buttons but was a little crazy at the same time?



Been there, done that.  I used to date a model in NYC.  She was one of the most stunningly beautiful women that I've ever seen in my life.  Anytime we'd go out, I knew that all eyes were going to be on us (actually, on her).  To make things even better, she was a complete nympho.  Most amazing sex I've ever had, and she could never get enough.

I met her in a bar.  I was playing darts, and she just walked up to me and said, "I want you.  You look yummy."  It was less than 30 minutes before we left the bar and headed to her place.  We didn't even make it to her apartment.  We pushed the stop button on the elevator and had sex right there.

The only problem was that she was crazy as a loon.  She'd get upset for no reason and start throwing dishes at me.  She even threw knives at me a few times.  At other times, she'd just start crying uncontrollably for no reason.  I thought she was completely nuts.

I thought about leaving her dozens of times.  But each time I did, I'd be awakened in the middle of the night by her licking and sucking on my cock.  It's amazing how a well-timed blowjob can keep a guy from leaving a bad relationship.

I know I was shallow.  But I was in my mid-20's.  These days, I don't tolerate crazy, no matter how beautiful or sexy she is.


You still got her number?




samboct -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:03:05 PM)

"Think of the stereotypical imagery in movies of the wild woman in bed who is slightly off her rocker."

Glenn Close? Noo, not the bunny!




lobodomslavery -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:08:31 PM)

Man if i was throwing knives and dishes at people i would ask to be sectioned too for my own safety and the safety of others around me. DONT YOU DARE EVEN BEGIN TO COMPARE ME TO THAT NEFARIOUS PERSON YOU HAD FOR A DOMME. THE COMPARISON IS ILLOGICAL. I dont throw dishes at people much less knives. THAT IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOUR. ARE WE CLEAR
kevin




anniezz338 -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:12:08 PM)

So? And Your point is?




lobodomslavery -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:13:39 PM)

my point is comparing me to this hot voluptuous vixen is like comparing apples to lasagne, there just is no comparison, not all mentally ill people are unstable and not all unstable people are mentally ill
kevin




Hillwilliam -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:14:24 PM)

Some are just annoying as FUCK with no redeeming qualities whatsoever.




lobodomslavery -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:15:32 PM)

How dare you. How dare you make a judgement of me like that . You DONT KNOW me
kevin




anniezz338 -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:16:41 PM)

Pfft. Over thinking it




NiceGuyNihilist -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:16:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Man if i was throwing knives and dishes at people i would ask to be sectioned too for my own safety and the safety of others around me. DONT YOU DARE EVEN BEGIN TO COMPARE ME TO THAT NEFARIOUS PERSON YOU HAD FOR A DOMME. THE COMPARISON IS ILLOGICAL. I dont throw dishes at people much less knives. THAT IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOUR. ARE WE CLEAR
kevin


Rest assured, you have established your emotional stability beyond any reasonable doubt.




lobodomslavery -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:17:56 PM)

How would you like if i cast aspersions on your character. im sure You would not like it, so what gives you the right to cast aspersions on my character. You have none. Keep your mouth shut, firmly shut, as my mam used to say if you nothing pleasant to say DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL
kevin




Hillwilliam -> RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy. (9/20/2011 2:19:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

How dare you. How dare you make a judgement of me like that . You DONT KNOW me
kevin

How do you know I was talking about you? guilty conscience? [:D]




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