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RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? - 11/14/2011 7:30:09 PM

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Fast reply because I can't read all of this stuff lest my eyes start bleeding...

I like MY submissive man. He is wonderful and perfect for me. He's not a sissy, nor a pushover. He is simply the right man for me... and he chooses to submit to me.

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RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? - 11/15/2011 7:27:28 PM

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You excite me, JJ.

You aren't the first.....(actually, the first was my accountant....but then I showed her 1996 - 2003.....and she was much less attracted to me).

(Although I have to say.....2006, all of '08 and and the 1rst quarter of 2010 were pretty fucking hot).

I should add that, the second half of 2003 gave me a Woody that lasted easily through spring of 2004...and not to digress but....the first 60 days of 2002 were pretty exciting as well (except for February 9th through the 18th).

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RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? - 11/15/2011 7:35:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Fast reply because I can't read all of this stuff lest my eyes start bleeding...

I like MY submissive man. He is wonderful and perfect for me. He's not a sissy, nor a pushover. He is simply the right man for me... and he chooses to submit to me.

~ Red

Well, let me just say this about that.....the fact that you HAVE another sub makes you and I an impermissible match.

I was actually feeling something....but that whole...."got someone already" thing just thew me for a loop.

(I'm afraid I can't go any further with you).

Sorry....it's just not gonna happen.

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RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? - 11/16/2011 1:42:23 AM

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It's amazing how women can sit here and tell men this is that, you have to be this or that to be qualified in this type of couting world. But if dominant or submissive men told women they have to change, oh no, shock.

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RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? - 11/16/2011 2:04:16 AM

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Obviously, men and women have different ways of thinking, different priorities when looking for the opposite gender etc etc. If male doms/subs tried to tell women to be more sexual first up ( I don't mean going physical at that point) if they want top points in going further, my god the outrage. But when women tell men to think more like women in the courting process to take things further, it's the politically correct way or else it's the highway.

It just seems no matter what role, it's the women's way or else you are wrong. My opinion is that either way is wrong or right. But it's just bigoted and sad how the instinctive male way is always wrong while the female instinctive way is always right.

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RE: Are Women attracted to submisive men? - 11/16/2011 1:16:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

Obviously, men and women have different ways of thinking, different priorities when looking for the opposite gender etc etc. If male doms/subs tried to tell women to be more sexual first up ( I don't mean going physical at that point) if they want top points in going further, my god the outrage. But when women tell men to think more like women in the courting process to take things further, it's the politically correct way or else it's the highway.

It just seems no matter what role, it's the women's way or else you are wrong. My opinion is that either way is wrong or right. But it's just bigoted and sad how the instinctive male way is always wrong while the female instinctive way is always right.

I disagree.

It's not the "woman's way" or the "man's way", it is the "Dominant character's way".

Although, since in the vanilla world they don't play by the D/s label rules, we stumble around and go with who holds the stronger bargaining chips. If you want the woman more than she wants you, she's dominant. If you want the man more than he wants you, he's dominant. Just like the argument between employers and employees. It's down to who wants what the other is packing more.

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

It's amazing how women can sit here and tell men this is that, you have to be this or that to be qualified in this type of couting world. But if dominant or submissive men told women they have to change, oh no, shock.

Of course every Domme gets pissed when the male sub tells them they've got to change, we're Dommes. But I've never heard of a sub going up in arms against their male Doms for telling them to change-- barring the "bad sub/bad Dom" situations of course, but that's really a role issue and not gender related. You don't see submissive women banding together to picket their Doms collaring them for example.

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