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Whenready -> RE: Does Dominance Imply Order? (11/2/2011 3:26:00 AM)
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Interesting! But don't most people want to be able to find the black pen when they need it, and the whatzamahoozey you only use once a year? Life is frustrating when there isn't some sort of order, isn't it?
I should add that my ex had his home exactly as he wanted it to be, but unfortunately he was a hoarder, so...I didn't consider his way very dominant. (and this may be colouring my outlook on this issue)
My bolding here. This is, I suspect, for blushes at least, the key. I live in a messy house. I know where the black pen is, and the whazamahoozey (its under the thingummyjig). There's a ladder against the wall because I haven't got around to putting the guitar and its stand in the roof yet. It'll get done - but probably not today. In the meantime I choose not to spend time putting the ladder away again - and then getting it out tomorrow. It's not in my way. I would probably fail your tidiness test - but I pass mine. To me, mine matters more, and I would expect the converse to be true. It's a person thing, not a dom/me thing.
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