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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:06:03 PM   
DeniseL308


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Status: offline 		I have an opinion

I voiced it

I get personally attacked for it

Discussion? I welcome a discussion. I have not seen one person yet wanting to discuss anything.

Go back and look at every post. NONE are for opening a discussion. They are ALL just personal attacks because my opinion is not shared by them. Go ahead, go back and read every one. Not one poster asked for a discussion. ALL just made personal attacks. I am doing what anyone of you would also do. I am defending myself against a MOB.

My Good Domme 101 post is totally open for discussion. THAT is why I did the post in the first place. My views are not etched in stone. Only those about thievery.

Once again, is anyone open for a discussion?.....or you all just wanting to attack someone that has a different opinion.

NOW, once again, would anyone like to DISCUSS my posting? Can anyone keep civil? Can anyone not take it personal that someone has a different point of view?
????????????????

You have the floor. Show me what you are made of.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:06:13 PM   
NocturnalStalker


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lazarus1983

Okay, guys, this Donald Pleasance lookalike is just going to run in circles with his silly little ideas, so let's move on and stop feeding this apparently well armed and traveled troll.

I mean seriously, one time in Northern North Pole, he bayoneted that Sarlaac Pit creature that was attempting to steal candy from a blind kid with his F16 Desert Eagle Gun with additional Gun attachments that shoot Guns.


Rofl.  I was thinking the exact same thing.

I'm expecting him to go on a Michael Myers tirade.


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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:12:04 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

Once again, you "people" totally miss the mark again.

I have a very healthy on-going repore with four very nice Dommes as we speak. They have actually gotten to know me and agree I am a pretty nice guy. I am loyal, have a good sense of humor, and DON"T STEAL. Imagine that, what a foreign concept to you all......HONESTY.

My post has NOTHING to do with what you INCORRECTLY ASSUME my intentions are. You are believing your own bullshit, and self-deluding yourselves and no one else.

You do not know me, and you have no idea as to my intentions of the post, or my desires on Collar Me.

I need binoculars to see how far your rounds are falling, they are that far off the mark.

Blackmail, tribute, financial domination, and extortion are ALL considered theivery and ALL wrong.

If you don't like what I say, then post a comment, but don't expect to change my mind and don't expect me to care what a thief thinks or what a supporter and lover of a thief thinks. I DON"T.


Fella, you're off.  Blackmail and extortion are illegal (although there are some who legally do roleplaying along those lines).  Tribute and financial domination are legal. 

Pro Dommes provide a service, just like a dentist or a painter.  And they charge for it, just like a dentist or a painter. 

It's not my thing and I refuse to pay for it.  But I have no issues with those who do. 

To say that it's thievery implies that the transaction was nonconsensual.  It's similar to saying that consensual sex is morally wrong because there are rapists in this world.

Just letting you know, there are only two or three who charge in the replies you've been getting.  All the others have no dog in this fight but are merely disagreeing with you.

And I probably shouldn't say this, but if you have four lifestyle Dommes in your life, you have better things to do than post here, and you've managed to land a significant portion of Nebraska's Dommes all by yourself.  And the flood of supportive emails in your inbox, all disagreeing with every single poster here.... hmm.


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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:16:39 PM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ColeYote
Please, delete your profile and sever your ethernet cable to avoid any further embarrassment to the human race.


  This made reading the entire thread worthwhile.

*****
As for the OP, that reference to lynching with the rope ready and us looking for a tree reminds me so much of another poster. 

OP, if their kink is not your kink, then use the block feature.  All the whining in the world will not make thousands of young, free (as in no financial cost) fetish delivery systems arrive at CollarMe...to service every "Do me!" coughsubmissivecough male who shows up.

Also, IMHO, men who want crack whores need to go to them, pay up, then shut up.  There.  Problem solved.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:17:28 PM   
DeniseL308


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Status: offline 		Hisprettybaby - your last post contained four personal attacks/insults
thishereboi - your last post contained two personal attacks/insults
lazarus1983 - your last post contained five personal attacks/insults

Discussion? You "people" do not know the meaning of the word.

I am still waiting to have a civil, mannerly DISCUSSION with someone. Does anyone have that ability? To DISCUSS a topic that they disagree with someone on and NOT taint it with personal attacks and insults?......hmmmmm?

The floor is open.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:19:49 PM   
Alecta


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
NOW, once again, would anyone like to DISCUSS my posting? Can anyone keep civil? Can anyone not take it personal that someone has a different point of view?


So you say, but you've ignored and declined every offer to discuss anything but guns?

I put to you again that your rules are much more applicable as a guide to becoming a successful Pro-Domme, that a woman who identifies as Dominant in her lifestyle choice shows her dominance by deciding when and how SHE wants sex, if at ALL, not how you like it, and by how she CHOOSES to dress, not how you want her to. That no-one's tried to "rehabilitate" you to become their idea of a good sub or slave, contrary to your view that all Dommes should behave according to your rules, that there are those whose fetish fantasy it is to be blackmailed and extorted from, and that NOT paying for a service or goods received is thieving, ergo by your own morality, you are condemning those who accept but do not pay for "professional" services from the Pros.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:20:47 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure how you expect to get any kind of civil discussion with your original post - you want to talk about attacks and insults?  Wow ... you HAVE heard the saying about the pot and the kettle, right?  Then you proceed to take my post - which contained no attacks or insults, and you accused me of being a financial domme (which, for the record, I have no problems with people doing that, as long as they are up front about it) without any kind of evidence what so ever.  So, again, pot/kettle?


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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:21:00 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
Discussion? I welcome a discussion. I have not seen one person yet wanting to discuss anything.

Go back and look at every post. NONE are for opening a discussion. They are ALL just personal attacks because my opinion is not shared by them. Go ahead, go back and read every one. Not one poster asked for a discussion. ALL just made personal attacks. I am doing what anyone of you would also do. I am defending myself against a MOB.

Oh for crying out loud. Here you are pissing and moaning about being attacked when you want a discussion, yapping on about how you want a DISCUSSION. Go back and take another REALLY GOOD FUCKING LOOK at your own OP.

You did exactly what you are accusing everyone else of doing. I did not see one word in there that asks for intelligent discussion. Your OP was all judgments, insults and personal attacks on Pro Dommes/financial Dommes/tribute Dommes, and whining about wanting a FREE fetish delivery service and how you shouldn't have to pay for it.

If there really is more to you than being some dick-centric do-me sub wanting a fetish-delivery service for free, why not enlighten us all? Because if you are hoping to find a relationship on CM, you've probably already alienated most of the really good Dommes on here that frequent the message boards.

Before you go and say again that I hate you, I don't hate you. I'd have to know you before I could decide that one way or the other. All I'm saying is, there are many people out there with many different fetishes. So this one isn't for you. Okay, it's not for me either. But just ignore those Dommes and, for God's sakes, don't blacklist them by username in your journal. That's against the TOS and will, at the very least, get you a friendly gold-edged letter in your inbox if you keep it up.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:22:49 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

Hisprettybaby - your last post contained four personal attacks/insults
thishereboi - your last post contained two personal attacks/insults
lazarus1983 - your last post contained five personal attacks/insults

Discussion? You "people" do not know the meaning of the word.

I am still waiting to have a civil, mannerly DISCUSSION with someone. Does anyone have that ability? To DISCUSS a topic that they disagree with someone on and NOT taint it with personal attacks and insults?......hmmmmm?

The floor is open.


I believe I've been doing exactly that.  No response from you thus far.


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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:25:08 PM   
Alecta


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
I believe I've been doing exactly that.  No response from you thus far.


Aw, that's ok. He doesn't love me either.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:25:46 PM   
xxblushesxx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

Hisprettybaby - your last post contained four personal attacks/insults
thishereboi - your last post contained two personal attacks/insults
lazarus1983 - your last post contained five personal attacks/insults

Discussion? You "people" do not know the meaning of the word.

I am still waiting to have a civil, mannerly DISCUSSION with someone. Does anyone have that ability? To DISCUSS a topic that they disagree with someone on and NOT taint it with personal attacks and insults?......hmmmmm?

The floor is open.


I believe I've been doing exactly that.  No response from you thus far.



If I were really inspired, I could go back through these posts and re-post the replies that opened up the floor to discussion. I'm not his bitch, so he can damn well do it himself.
Or not.
Either way, he's totally ignoring all but what he wants to see.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:27:25 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Denise, you have said that your mind is made. We as a group have disagreed, and you have accused various posters of being in collusion with criminals, discussed various pieces of ordnance, and expressed that you are prepared to defend yourself with same.

Not much to discuss, is there?

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:27:34 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
I am still waiting to have a civil, mannerly DISCUSSION with someone. Does anyone have that ability? To DISCUSS a topic that they disagree with someone on and NOT taint it with personal attacks and insults?......hmmmmm?

The floor is open.


I believe I've been doing exactly that.  No response from you thus far.


Aww Steven, he just says he wants to have a discussion. He's already shown for six pages now that all he really wants to do is have a temper tantrum and issue threats. He may be an adult man but he's acting like an attention-seeking little boy having a temper tantrum because not everyone agrees with him. lol

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:29:38 PM   
DeniseL308


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Status: offline 		NocturnalStalker - your post has two attacks/insults
thishereboi - your post has one attack/insult
DarkSteven - your post has three disagreements in it, but you did not attack or insult. I thank you for that. As a clarification, the four Dommes are not "in my life" yet. We are all just at the phone calling stage and getting to know one another. It is however going well, but as you said, they are not in Nebraska...LOL!!!
CynthiaWVirginia - your post contained three personal attacks/insults

Discussion? Where?

DarkSteven is the only one that seems to have any manners at all. He disagrees with me and says so. That my "friends" is a discussion.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:33:58 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
DarkSteven is the only one that seems to have any manners at all. He disagrees with me and says so. That my "friends" is a discussion.

Most of the posters have made it very clear that they disagree with you. The deal is, bucko, you came out attacking people in your very first post on this thread. You attacked them merely because you don't share a particular kink with them. How the hell did you EXPECT people to react to that? They gave back what they got from you. Imagine that!

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:33:58 PM   
Alecta


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
DarkSteven is the only one that seems to have any manners at all. He disagrees with me and says so. That my "friends" is a discussion.


it's only a discussion when you as OP respond in kind.....

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:39:29 PM   
DeniseL308


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Status: offline 		Dark Steven,
I am only one person with one keyboard.

The others here are bombarding you with thoughts that are not my own. They have me outnumbered and I cannot keep up with their false accusations and cannot anwer them as fast as they are posting them. I am just one honest guy, and not a very fast typist. I am trying.

Please do not be distracted by their bantering, and insult hurling. I am answering you as fast as I can, but they DO have me outnumbered, and hurl their insulting posts much faster than I can defend against them. I am trying to correct typos, and hope you can be patient with me.

I am glad to see ONE person has the ability to disagree and not feel the need to attck and insult because we just disagree.

Remember the old Dave Mason song........."We Just Disagree"

David (my real name)

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:42:24 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Many people have disagreed and not attacked. They also did not threaten.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:43:50 PM   
Alecta


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

Dark Steven,
I am only one person with one keyboard.

The others here are bombarding you with thoughts that are not my own. They have me outnumbered and I cannot keep up with their false accusations and cannot anwer them as fast as they are posting them. I am just one honest guy, and not a very fast typist. I am trying.

Please do not be distracted by their bantering, and insult hurling. I am answering you as fast as I can, but they DO have me outnumbered, and hurl their insulting posts much faster than I can defend against them. I am trying to correct typos, and hope you can be patient with me.

I am glad to see ONE person has the ability to disagree and not feel the need to attck and insult because we just disagree.

Remember the old Dave Mason song........."We Just Disagree"

David (my real name)



That's not "discussing" either...

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:44:25 PM   
DeniseL308


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Status: offline 		Alecta, do you want to join in the discussion?

You are welcome if you choose.

David

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