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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:27:32 PM

DeniseL308

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Those are NOT threats. They are POSSIBLE scenarios that MIGHT happen with other people to other people. Not at anytime did I say I would do them, I said it was a possible scenario that might happen with someone else.

You need to improve your reading interpretation skills, or lack thereof.

Don't you need to get back to extorting money from lonely men? Ooops, I am sorry, TRIBUTE, that is what you call it, my mistake. Your rent is due soon. Don't you need to get busy writing another copy/paste fake reply to post on Craig's List? Don't forget to attach a photo of some hot babe.

< Message edited by DeniseL308 -- 10/27/2011 4:33:03 PM >

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:31:02 PM

Hisprettybaby

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As SweetDommes said, the bolded areas ARE threats, and then you went on later in the thread about your guns and all. That sure sounds like threats to me.

As for the posters on this thread being hateful, we don't hate you. As I said before, we don't even KNOW you. What we are all irritated at is, once again, seeing another thread about the same B.S. that we see several times a month.

I looked back at all my posts on this thread, five so far counting THIS one right here, and I don't see hate in any of them. What I do see is I'm calling you on your B.S. You're just pissed because posters have called you on your dick-centric DO-ME sub bullshit.

You laid it all right out in your OP saying that it's all up to the Dommes to make your deepest fantasies come true for free. You weren't saying you're having a hard time finding a Domme that's interested in having a mutually satisfying relationship. It was ALL about YOUR DICK and YOUR FANTASIES. That sounds like you want a service and most times people have to pay for a service.

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ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
Don't you need to get back to extorting money from lonely men? Ooops, I am sorry, TRIBUTE, that is what you call it my mistake. Your rent is due soon. Don't you need to get busy writing another copy/paste to post on Craig's List?

Now THIS ^^^^ DOES happen to sound hateful AND, as a matter of fact, asinine. You may feel this is hateful, but it's not. I don't hate you, I'm just irritated at the stupidity. Why don't you just get off your high horse and realize you fucked up? If I were you, I would kill this profile and start over....with a better attitude this time. It might be your only hope.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:32:35 PM

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You need to do your research before making accusations about who asks for money. But that would require reading and paying attention to what people actually are interested in instead of treating them like lifesupport systems for your kink. We don't ask for money until a boy is helping to run up our bills. I'm not sure why you seem to think that we ask for money or "TRIBUTE" but you are sadly mistaken.

And for the record, passive aggressive threats are still threats. What I bolded from your original post would be considered a threat in most legal circles.

I'll be honest - I don't hate you. Your current behavior annoys me, yes - because as HPB just stated, we see it ALL THE FREAKING TIME on here. But honestly, I'd have to give a crap about you to hate you ... and I just don't.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:32:43 PM

ColeYote

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Dear gods, so much wrong in one post. I'm astounded.

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1. DO NOT take any money at all for anything you do. Deep personal fantasies should not have to be paid to come true. If you DO charge, you are now in a sexually oriented business, and you now have just become a whore that does not fuck. Nothing is more useless than a whore that does not fuck. You can be replaced by a crackwhore with a whip and $40. Think about it.

Off to a bad start I see. Sexist, disregarding and/or unappreciative of any skills a dominant partner might have, and I just plain don't agree with bias against the sex industry.

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2. DO NOT HATE MEN. We weren't born yesterday. Anyone with a pulse can see a hate spewn profile a mile away. One day you will meet the wrong guy and he will turn on you like a pet tiger. All that pent up rage will come pouring out on little ole YOU, and you will either be very damaged or killed. Good luck trying to prosecute. All of your hatred writings will be brought out in court and the men and women in the jury and the judge/media/bystanders will ALL see the evil hatred inside you. Do you really want your hateful and nasty profile displayed and read into the public record? It could happen. HATE does not belong here. Leave it behind when you log on.

Yet more sexism, and what's more, complete hypocrisy. So lemme get this straight, dominant females shouldn't hate men, however according to you a man is completely justified in killing a woman if she has an issue with men. HYPOCRITE.

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3. THIS IS ABOUT SEX. SEX seeps out of every nook and cranny of this site and the BDSM world in general. You can bullshit yourself into thinking it is not, but don't believe your own bullshit. What message are you giving when you tell your submissives they cannot have sex with you, and your profile and photos display your ass/tits/ and hoohah(I like that word) all over the place. What message are you sending? You are saying " I am a cock teaser, and have been since junior high". You are not a Domme, you are a cockteaser. If your submissives are UNFULLFILLED, they will go somewhere else. Human nature. If you are going to show them your beautiful breasts, then give them a nibble. No harm done. Let them kiss and lick that sweet ass. Let them place a gentle hand on your soft hoohah (that word again). You have technically not had sex, but you have given them a bone. We all know you are NOT a slut (damnit), but you can still hold your head high by giving them someting to enjoy. You need to understand your mouth/tits/ass/and hoohah are NOT unique to you. EVERY WOMAN HAS THEM. They are all just shaped differently, and some are thinner than yours. Think about it.

You're claiming to speak on behalf of all subs, yet I know I don't agree with you, and a good number of subs don't. Oh, by the way, are you familiar with a little term along the lines of "topping from the bottom," because that is EXACTLY what you're doing here. And more objectifying women. Great.

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4. KEEP THE $40 CRACKWHORE IN MIND. You have to keep in mind " What am I doing better than a $40 crackwhore?" It is no suprise to any of you that men tend to think with their dicks in sexual matters. This IS sexual. Thanks to SATAN being alive and well on planet Earth, crackwhores abound everywhere and in every town. For a pack of cigarettes they can get a blowjob, and for $40 they can have regular sex, anal sex(my personal favorite) or anything else on the menu. It is YOUR job as a responsible Domme to keep your submissives away from them. What do you offer them in exchange? Only you can answer that question. Just know your sweet subbies might get involved with something that might ruin their lives. All because they were unfullfilled. In real life, some of those crackwhores look pretty nice and attractive. If your sweet subbie sissy boy wants to feel like a man one evening, and has two $20 bills in his pocket, he may just partake of them. Are you going to be the responsible Domme to your collared sub and keep him away, or are you going to be an ice queen that he can never touch. YOUR CALL! Think about it.

... I'm not even going to dignify that by addressing it.

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5. FOR GOD'S SAKE KNOW HOW TO DRESS! In Europe and most of the rest of the world, a true dominant woman dresses classy, because she knows she is dominant and does not have to prove a thing ot anyone, including herself. It is the sex industry that gave us the slutty leather look. You are NOT a slut (damnit), but a very secure lady. Dress that way. This is NOT some cheap porno movie with a bunch of bored 20 something actresses following a script flailing away at a middle-aged guy with a cheap $5 flogger. That is the sex industry's version of BDSM. Be better than that. You can be sexual and sensual without having sex and "showing the goods". COVER UP! If a subbie one day loses control and you get raped, you have NO DEFENSE. Your profile shows your ass/hoohah/tits hanging out all over the web. Not too many prosecutors are going to take this one on, and his defense will rip you apart. Remember, even things you delete are able to be brought back by law enforcement, and subsequently be made available to the defines.

More sexism, blame the victim mentality, no-true-scotsman fallacy, etc.

You know, I don't think I've ever met a straight male sub who respects women and dominants LESS than you do. Hell, I can probably count the number of males (gay, bi, straight, vanilla, kinky, it doesn't matter) I've met with less respect for women than you do on my hands. Please, delete your profile and sever your ethernet cable to avoid any further embarrassment to the human race.

< Message edited by ColeYote -- 10/27/2011 4:39:59 PM >

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:37:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

Barretta Model 92F. Good choice. ... So does the Hornady 115 grain jacketed hollow points. I found the Browning did better at longer ranges when I was in Yemen, but it is a very first class piece.

Use +P or +P+ in that Beretta. If anyone considers a Browning Hi-Power (better of the two imo), make sure it is stamped "Made in Portugal" or forget using +P ammo.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:53:37 PM

DeniseL308

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To ColeYote and others of like mind.

You love and support those that steal from others. I do not. Deal with it. I KNOW I am right and you are WRONG.

Theiving is wrong. You support and love those that do, therefore you are wrong too. This is very black and white.

I know it is wrong to take money from others. You think it is right. You support stealing, and support those that do. I do not, and do not care one bit what a thief thinks.

I once caught a thief trying to steal my ammunition and a canteen from my pack in North Yemen. I did not want to fire a round because it would alert the ememy in the nearby caves, so I used the bayonet. It took four solid thrusts to render him immobile, so I just let him bleed out. For about 12 minutes he just laid there mumbling something I later learned was a Molsem prayer. I hope he is with all those virgins now. LOL!!! You know the dog we had with us licked up the blood off of his neck. It was funny, his eyes kinda opened and shut a bit everytime the dog licked his neck. I still chuckle about it now because that WHO song kept going through my mind at the time....See me, feel me, touch me.....LOL!!! Funny what one thinks of.

NO, I don't give a damn for theives.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:55:25 PM

Alecta

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Moral dilemma: Is it stealing to go into a store for milk and not pay for it?

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 4:58:32 PM

DeniseL308

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seekerofslut.....my Browning was made in Belgium. It worked pretty good

I would like to try one made in Portugal. I have not experienced one from there yet. Thank you.

BTW, that +P+ seems to be ballistically equivalent to a 38 Super. I have an RIA in 38 Super, but only used 9mm ball in the Browning.

Looks like I need to give it a shot (pardon the pun)

Thank you

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:05:46 PM

searching4mysir

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

To ColeYote and others of like mind.

You love and support those that steal from others. I do not. Deal with it. I KNOW I am right and you are WRONG.

Theiving is wrong. You support and love those that do, therefore you are wrong too. This is very black and white.

I know it is wrong to take money from others. You think it is right. You support stealing, and support those that do. I do not, and do not care one bit what a thief thinks.

I once caught a thief trying to steal my ammunition and a canteen from my pack in North Yemen. I did not want to fire a round because it would alert the ememy in the nearby caves, so I used the bayonet. It took four solid thrusts to render him immobile, so I just let him bleed out. For about 12 minutes he just laid there mumbling something I later learned was a Molsem prayer. I hope he is with all those virgins now. LOL!!! You know the dog we had with us licked up the blood off of his neck. It was funny, his eyes kinda opened and shut a bit everytime the dog licked his neck. I still chuckle about it now because that WHO song kept going through my mind at the time....See me, feel me, touch me.....LOL!!! Funny what one thinks of.

NO, I don't give a damn for theives.

You have yet to show how it is STEALING. You just keep asserting that it is.

Those who have a financial domination fetish WILLINGLY give their dom/mes their money/ tributes. That is what you don't seem to get. It is no different from going to the dry cleaners and giving their money for the service of dry cleaning your clothes. You don't like that fetish. Fine, neither do I. Neither of us has to pay a pro-domme then. We can walk away.

Are these dommes holding a gun to your head and demanding your wallet? No. They have a profile stating that IF you want to be their sub then you are required to pay them. If you don't want to pay them, then move on. Some other person who gets their kicks out of opening their wallet will.

You are right, it is black and white. The difference is that you are so blind that you can't even see that. You are so tied up into getting your cock hard that you DEMAND that a domme do as YOU please. Guess what Spanky...you ain't the be-all end-all. These dommes aren't crying over missing out on you. They couldn't care less if you hung around and whined like a toddler who didn't get the candybar at the checkout counter or if you left the site.

The thing is, Denise, you just keep digging that hole deeper and deeper so that any domme who is NOT a financial domme would have nothing to do with you. Hope you have fun spanking your monkey because no one here would touch your dick with a 10 ft pole.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:20:04 PM

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Wait, what? He is not MY sub!!

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:24:45 PM

Toppingfrmbottom

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The Op does of course, hopefully know the black list on his journal is against TOS and re portable.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:40:36 PM

Hisprettybaby

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

To ColeYote and others of like mind.

You love and support those that steal from others. I do not. Deal with it. I KNOW I am right and you are WRONG.

So you didn't come to a DISCUSSION forum to discuss. You came to force your own opinion about something on everyone else and then bitch and moan about it when other people disagree and won't stroke your fragile ego. I see now. Thanks for clarifying that point.

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

The Op does of course, hopefully know the black list on his journal is against TOS and reportable.

It's been reported.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:43:31 PM

DeniseL308

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Once again, you "people" totally miss the mark again.

I have a very healthy on-going repore with four very nice Dommes as we speak. They have actually gotten to know me and agree I am a pretty nice guy. I am loyal, have a good sense of humor, and DON"T STEAL. Imagine that, what a foreign concept to you all......HONESTY.

My post has NOTHING to do with what you INCORRECTLY ASSUME my intentions are. You are believing your own bullshit, and self-deluding yourselves and no one else.

You do not know me, and you have no idea as to my intentions of the post, or my desires on Collar Me.

I need binoculars to see how far your rounds are falling, they are that far off the mark.

Blackmail, tribute, financial domination, and extortion are ALL considered theivery and ALL wrong.

If you don't like what I say, then post a comment, but don't expect to change my mind and don't expect me to care what a thief thinks or what a supporter and lover of a thief thinks. I DON"T.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:45:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

To ColeYote and others of like mind.

You love and support those that steal from others. I do not. Deal with it. I KNOW I am right and you are WRONG.

Theiving is wrong. You support and love those that do, therefore you are wrong too. This is very black and white.

I know it is wrong to take money from others. You think it is right. You support stealing, and support those that do. I do not, and do not care one bit what a thief thinks.

I once caught a thief trying to steal my ammunition and a canteen from my pack in North Yemen. I did not want to fire a round because it would alert the ememy in the nearby caves, so I used the bayonet. It took four solid thrusts to render him immobile, so I just let him bleed out. For about 12 minutes he just laid there mumbling something I later learned was a Molsem prayer. I hope he is with all those virgins now. LOL!!! You know the dog we had with us licked up the blood off of his neck. It was funny, his eyes kinda opened and shut a bit everytime the dog licked his neck. I still chuckle about it now because that WHO song kept going through my mind at the time....See me, feel me, touch me.....LOL!!! Funny what one thinks of.

NO, I don't give a damn for theives.

Oh bullshit. You've never done any of the things you're bragging about/fantasizing about.

If a man gives a woman money whether it's because she's his wife/mother or domme, it's not stealing.

"A man has one hundred dollars and you leave him with two dollars. That's subtraction." ~Mae West

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:46:06 PM

QueenTofME

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a 1965 Playboy would have many more curves than most men today want.

I am not a Pro...and men are constantly asking me what I will wear. I say, something comfortable...and they seem disappointed I won't be like their last Pro or their last Porn flick. I also hear them rattling of all the 'will you do this and that to me, for me". I am thinking who is the F**king Domme anyway...but realize for pay to their last Pro, the Pro will give him what he wants when he wants (basically when he shows up with a wad of cash).

Its not right or wrong, it just is.

There are so many varieties of subs/slaves as well as Dom/Dommes on here that none of us can assume there is a right and wrong way to be anything. We are all different, with different likes, needs etc. Some are more vanilla, some are "out there".

Last I heard, it was acceptable to have an opinion and voice it. (both the pros and the cons...so to speak)

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:47:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308

Blackmail, tribute, financial domination, and extortion are ALL considered theivery and ALL wrong.

If it isn't consensual, you are right, it is thievery. The difference is that they are looking for men to consent to it. Which is why you should just move along before getting your panties in a bunch.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:48:26 PM

Alecta

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Has anyone commented on the OP's career as a pirate yet?

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:56:28 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeniseL308
Blackmail, tribute, financial domination, and extortion are ALL considered theivery and ALL wrong.

If you don't like what I say, then post a comment, but don't expect to change my mind and don't expect me to care what a thief thinks or what a supporter and lover of a thief thinks. I DON"T.

Well, you poor little picked on boy. Guess what....NEWSFLASH!! If the sub KNOWINGLY AGREES to it, then IT'S NOT DISHONEST. As many, including myself, have said already, some guys are into that shit. I've seen plenty of profiles that make it very clear, UPFRONT, that that's what those women are into. If you can't read, that's your own problem, but that does not them dishonest. It just makes you illiterate. It may piss you off, but it's still not dishonest.

If you do happen to write to someone and then later find out she's into one of the above, then just BLOCK and DELETE like I said before. See? Easy peasy, that's all you need to do. The deal is, you might not like someone else's kink, but they have just as much right to theirs as you have to yours. There are some subs out there AND some Dommes who DO happen to like those kinks. Besides, who died and made you the holier than thou kink patrol??

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 5:59:40 PM

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I don't know what's worse. The fact that you spent so much time to piss and whine about how to be good at something you know absolutely nothing about or the fact that your journals prove you can't understand basic TOS.

I'm sorry you haven't had any luck getting laid but trust me, this thread isn't going to do it.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 6:02:59 PM

lazarus1983

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Okay, guys, this Donald Pleasance lookalike is just going to run in circles with his silly little ideas, so let's move on and stop feeding this apparently well armed and traveled troll.

I mean seriously, one time in Northern North Pole, he bayoneted that Sarlaac Pit creature that was attempting to steal candy from a blind kid with his F16 Desert Eagle Gun with additional Gun attachments that shoot Guns.

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