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eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:10:55 PM)
Yes I heard you. Thanks

Lockit -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:13:17 PM)
Again, you want us to help you convince him that you are correct and he needs to change things to how you want them done. You just aren't getting it. You don't want things/ your relationship assessed... then don't vent on a public forum.

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:14:30 PM)
Got it! Thanks!

Lockit -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:15:34 PM)
Dismissed! ROFL...

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:17:23 PM)
:)

JanahX -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:17:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eagertoplease55 I don't need my relationship assessed or to be told to either stay or leave. I just wanted advice on what to say to him. Nothing ... because according to you, he doenst want to hear you talk. Not EVER.

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:21:30 PM)
I can make him laugh.. and he likes it when I moan. He makes me tell him that I love him, would do anything for him, I live for him and belong to him everyday. When I said he talks to much.. he does. I was just complaining... venting.

Lockit -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:26:35 PM)
Perfect... may you both live happily ever after.

ummmmNo -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:27:00 PM)
Eager, I am super confused as to what just happened, but before you talk to him, I have one suggestion. You are coming across as sub who doesn't respect her Dom and even resents him. That's not a good place to be when you are trying to serve... or even talk to someone. My suggestion, if and/or when you talk to him, make sure you are in a calm state and not angry. You are less likely to talk at him or attack him then. You have a lot better chance of getting a reasonable response when you yourself are reasonable. Good luck!

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:27:22 PM)
How sweet of you to say. Thank you.

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:30:48 PM)
THANK YOU.. I'm going to copy and paste that to make sure I read it beforehand.

JanahX -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:33:14 PM)
quote: He makes me tell him that I love him, would do anything for him, I live for him and belong to him everyday. they used to torture people by all sorts of methods to make people say things. What does he do to MAKE YOU TELL him these things since they of course are not coming from you?

ghita -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:34:39 PM)
~FR~ Question to the rest of you... In all the years I came here and "vented" and then snapped for the advice I didnt want to hear...Is this how frustrating I seemed to all of yall? If so...Im really sorry.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:37:04 PM)
Pretty much, sweetie, yeah. ~I even hid you for a little bit ~[&o]

Lockit -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:38:06 PM)
LOL No... not for me anyway. Came close for a moment, but we knew you, you weren't hiding behind a new profile and we loved you! However... you didn't get quite as... silly.

Lockit -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:39:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Pretty much, sweetie, yeah. ~I even hid you for a little bit ~[&o] Oh hell... I missed something? ROFL

ghita -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:40:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eagertoplease55 He makes me tell him that I love him, would do anything for him, I live for him and belong to him everyday. Ive got a recent journal entry titled "Love shouldnt feel forced". In it I was venting (yea, cause I kind of learned its a lot better to vent on a private blog than here. 2 other people have access to that blog.....) Anyway...So I was venting about how frustrating it is when he MAKES me tell him I love him. Truth is, he doesnt MAKE me...but he wont let up on something until I say it. And I always do, because its easier to just say something than it is to deal with the conflict. And I kind of realized....if everything was hunky-dory and perfect, there should never BE the concept of someone MAKING you say "I love you". It kind of negates the entire feeling.

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:43:49 PM)
I haven't snapped. I'm just waiting for someone else that has advice for me.

eagertoplease55 -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:45:25 PM)
you are absolutely right, but thats not what I'm here for. Thanks.

ghita -> RE: confused and need advice please (11/5/2011 7:45:58 PM)
I didnt say you did. I said I did.

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