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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:04:14 PM   
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If you can't flirt here where can you? I even flirt on Facebook, in bars, dammit even in supermarkets. But then I like getting laid!

Besides it's bloody good fun & yes I would NS. this songs for you sweetie.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRzGzRqNj58&ob=av2e


It was in response to this. Making a joke. A poor one apparently.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:37:10 PM   
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The current drop-down menu that others have pointed out still won't filter out those that are taken.
it filters based on what the fuckers say they are looking for. if they can't be bothered to update that when they hook up, what the fuck makes you think they will bother with the 'taken" check box?

i don't know, it all sounds just a little too fucking facebook to me.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:43:44 PM   
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being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick
no you're not, what fucking planet are you from? you're not entitled to a fucking thing, regardless of degrees or looks or income. you may have a better shot at the hotties, but you sure as fuck aren't entitled to anything babycakes, and the sooner you fucking realize that, the sooner you'll lose your virginity.

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and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures
even if their own looks are just average.
aha!! i suspected as much! another fucking weiner who can't deal with the concept of women as independant thinking beings. go ahead and order your asian subbie. once the marriage is formalized and she has her fucking green card you'll discover just exactly how domineering and controlling those bitches really are.

good luck there buckwheat, you're going to fucking need it.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:44:38 PM   
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because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,


It sure does!  From your posts, though,  I wouldn't count on that normal looking chick having a brain, but who cares about such silly shit huh?


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:48:01 PM   
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I adore your new pic!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:53:00 PM   
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But again, it's your profile that's the problem dude...
I've said that now, what? 4 times? And you can't be bothered to ask why I may feel that way so you could perhaps see if the critic is valid and change some things to your own benefit?


In fact, you can have a profile like yours -that's TOTALLY a turn off and a red flag to most women- and STILL be entitled to get as much pussy as you happen to want, because it's not because you did something wrong when writing your profile that you're not finding what you're looking for.... no... no... it's THEM! How dare they not be interested in a guy that puts a bunch of red flags in his profile! How dare they have standards and look for MEN instead of spoil self-centered arrogant spoiled little boys?
How dare they, don't they know they owe you cause you happen to be lonely and horny?



I agree. OP, I looked at your profile and it seems to be a complete turnoff to submissive women. You may have more luck if you consider revising it, but I won't critique it here as you don't seem to be interested. Perhaps, though, you might give the idea some merit.


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:54:30 PM   
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The flaw with the current system though is that if I was looking for a Submissive Female then yeah, I'd get only Submissive Females but they may or may not be taken. If it operated like a typical social networking/vanilla dating site, then you'd be put into a pool for submissive females who are also looking for dominant men to strike a relationship with. Right now it is too vague and leads to situations like this topic where it is people nagging to anyone that cares to listen.
yo dingleberry, check out the screen capture. like i said, you don't fucking know how to use the search function.




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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 2:57:11 PM   
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are you guys talking about Metatron's profile? i dunno i didn't think it was THAT bad. i suppose if he took the "applications" part off -- and used it more to talk about himself and his nonkink interests, his philosophies, whatever.

OP, more about you, less about kinky stuff -- there's another section where you can list all sorts of BDSM stuff and it'll show up in the empty space on the left-hand side of your profile. use the right side to write about you, your hobbies, your ideas, future plans, goals, etc etc.


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 4:05:02 PM   
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Having something like, "Actively Seeking" does not filter out the people that only use this site for something beyond finding others for relationship.  This means you're seeing a dominant/submissive/slave that is... in a relationship, looking for friends, wants money, seeks only online activity, wants a relationship.  When you have that huge of a pool to select from, it is harder to find what you want.  If I put down for my orientation I want a "Submissive" who is also looking for "Dominant Men" what good does that do me when they are only seeking friendship/are taken?  I'd rather be placed in the league of those that are seeking those like me and want a relationship out of it all.  Sure, you may have people that don't update their "status" all the time but it is an overall positive step in the right direction to reduce frustration that is commonly experienced here from others. 

I know this is the whole, "This guy/girl has something in their profile I dislike.  Fuck them and their suggestion" but to reject the proposal to have a more refined interface/search engine goes to show how dumb some people truly are.

*Insert comment about mirror/hair.*


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 4:11:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

If you can't flirt here where can you? I even flirt on Facebook, in bars, dammit even in supermarkets. But then I like getting laid!

Besides it's bloody good fun & yes I would NS. this songs for you sweetie.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRzGzRqNj58&ob=av2e


At least you serenaded me with a confession of your jealousy for one, The NocturnalStalker.


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:52:47 PM   
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because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,


This may be one of the stupidest things Ive read in a while. What this statement does entitle you to is: You just wrote something extremely stupid for being a avarage guy who has a degree. And any normal looking chick will as they have been, ... going in the opposite direction.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:04:13 PM   
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Having something like, "Actively Seeking" does not filter out the people that only use this site for something beyond finding others for relationship. This means you're seeing a dominant/submissive/slave that is... in a relationship, looking for friends, wants money, seeks only online activity, wants a relationship. When you have that huge of a pool to select from, it is harder to find what you want. If I put down for my orientation I want a "Submissive" who is also looking for "Dominant Men" what good does that do me when they are only seeking friendship/are taken? I'd rather be placed in the league of those that are seeking those like me and want a relationship out of it all. Sure, you may have people that don't update their "status" all the time but it is an overall positive step in the right direction to reduce frustration that is commonly experienced here from others.
what the fuck ns? if they are seeking only friends they won't show up on your search when you filter for those seeking dominant men. if they show up on your search it is because they have that box checked off on their profile.

like i said, learn how to use the fucking search function, its really very simple and quite versatile.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 5:40:38 AM   
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All I'm getting from this is that a monkey can get a degree in America.
Oh, and this in the tone of Spartacus...

I'M A CUNT

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 6:08:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MadAxeman

All I'm getting from this is that a monkey can get a degree in America.
Oh, and this in the tone of Spartacus...

I'M A CUNT



HEY!! watch the Monkey comments!!!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 7:09:54 AM   
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because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick, but American chicks feel so picky because there's way too much dudes who spam them with requests, because of the continual influx of immigrants into this country, who are by and large males completely skewes male to female ratio.

Guess what there are plenty of cute chicks in 3d world shithole countries that would be happy to date average guy like me as mail order brides, and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures even if their own looks are just average.


I bet if you lose the sense of entitlement and bad attitude you will get laid a lot more.

Ishtar agrees:

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If you'd spend a little less time bitching about everybody else not doing things properly and a little more time composing a decent profile, reading other people's profile, and not sending copy/paste messages, you may actually have a shot at getting lucky.

Instead, you're just here ruining your chances by proving to the anybody you may mail in the future what a self-entittled, arrogant sour-puss you are.






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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 7:57:33 AM   
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Am I supposed to be impressed by the fact that you being a CHICK had success on a dating site?
Wait let me guess, you created a profile, then wait 5 minutes until your mailbox filled up then picked the best guy.

Now try being a guy, you only get 1 - 2 replies for every 100 messages you send out ...
Online dating for chicks is so much simpler than for guys it's not even remotely fair.
The ratio is seriously messed up.

So just because out of every 100 males there is one or two guys that enjoyed success it doesn't disprove the fact that remaining vast majority of the guys are waisting their time.
Of course it's easy for you to be picky about every little detail about a guy like his forum posts etc., because your getting tones of replies to your profile,
but if you were getting the same number of replies most of the guys get you wouldn't be talking like that.
because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,
but American chicks feel so picky because there's way too much dudes who spam them with requests,
because of the continual influx of immigrants into this country, who are by and large males completely skewes male to female ratio.

Guess what there are plenty of cute chicks in 3d world shithole countries that would be happy to date average guy like me as mail order brides,
and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures
even if their own looks are just average.

Guys have it so much harder on dating sites.. life isnt fair.. oh boohoo.. You are only 24, you got several decades to live and find just out how unfair life is... lol

And now immigrants are being blamed for stealing all the American women??? WTF?? Considering so many immigrants are illegal Mexican/S. American men working for slave wages with not a very good future (other than being caught and deported).. yeah,.. I can see how American women just flock to them..

And since you havent figured it out yet, a lot of those mail order brides arent interested in you, they are interested in getting a green card and will put up with you for a few years until they get it (you will be legally financially responsible for them). Then after that, most imo would dump you for some rich guy who makes 6 figures... But hey, go for it.. then when that happens you can complain that life isnt fair..

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 8:56:02 AM   
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I do a search of those close to me and my age.(not all sites can do that and it takes a while) I read profiles looking for commonalities and conflicts. I have some basic things to say about me and intermingle those in with the common interests I found on their page (often found in the journal) But not too long, just a paragraph or two. (learned the hard way, write a page, get back “that's nice” or “really”) I close the message with an invite to read my profile. Often nothing happens at that point. My profile does (in my opinion) put my best foot forward.

On this site I can see if a woman does read my profile but most of the time I do not hear back. I like this, it stops time from being wasted on both our parts. So now she writes back and can construct not just one but two or more sentences.(really, that is important to me) So if it appears the we are getting along well through messages it is time to put my other foot forward, trip, fall. I have about two paragraphs that I should just go ahead and make into a copy and past but since everyone is unique (just like everyone else)

This (as I often say) starts the proverbial crickets to start chirping. It really is best not to meet if those things are a problem (yeah, I have met women that wanted to cheat on their husband and the first I found out about it was over coffee, I could have saved us both some time) I have met one woman from another site that I have been at longer (except she contacted me based on a comment I made not a message) we have met for coffee and we meet again today. Probably nothing will come of it, there are some obstacles (shes half my age for one) but it is good to have friends. Sometimes I have met a great woman because a friend introduced me.

I guess what I am saying is that search function is a start, but only a start. Narrow it down too much and you might miss something special.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 12:28:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tj444


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ORIGINAL: Metatron24

Am I supposed to be impressed by the fact that you being a CHICK had success on a dating site?
Wait let me guess, you created a profile, then wait 5 minutes until your mailbox filled up then picked the best guy.

Now try being a guy, you only get 1 - 2 replies for every 100 messages you send out ...
Online dating for chicks is so much simpler than for guys it's not even remotely fair.
The ratio is seriously messed up.

So just because out of every 100 males there is one or two guys that enjoyed success it doesn't disprove the fact that remaining vast majority of the guys are waisting their time.
Of course it's easy for you to be picky about every little detail about a guy like his forum posts etc., because your getting tones of replies to your profile,
but if you were getting the same number of replies most of the guys get you wouldn't be talking like that.
because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,
but American chicks feel so picky because there's way too much dudes who spam them with requests,
because of the continual influx of immigrants into this country, who are by and large males completely skewes male to female ratio.

Guess what there are plenty of cute chicks in 3d world shithole countries that would be happy to date average guy like me as mail order brides,
and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures
even if their own looks are just average.

Guys have it so much harder on dating sites.. life isnt fair.. oh boohoo.. You are only 24, you got several decades to live and find just out how unfair life is... lol

And now immigrants are being blamed for stealing all the American women??? WTF?? Considering so many immigrants are illegal Mexican/S. American men working for slave wages with not a very good future (other than being caught and deported).. yeah,.. I can see how American women just flock to them..

And since you havent figured it out yet, a lot of those mail order brides arent interested in you, they are interested in getting a green card and will put up with you for a few years until they get it (you will be legally financially responsible for them). Then after that, most imo would dump you for some rich guy who makes 6 figures... But hey, go for it.. then when that happens you can complain that life isnt fair..


Yea right if you expect a 6 figure guy to fall for some fresh off the boat chick with no language skills and no education when he has a selection of the top tier finest american women then keep dreaming.

I'm still the best chance she has in this country: what is she going to do if it wasn't for me? Wash dishes in Chinatown or marry some ragtag tattooed hoodloom who is going backhand her?
Face it, she would still rather live for free with a younger guy like me who has a deegree. Guys like me doesn't exactly grow on trees you know ...

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 12:31:28 PM   
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Nope, they live in them.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/7/2011 12:36:49 PM   
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Nope, they live in them.



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