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Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:29:06 AM

Metatron24

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I'm not sure where to post this, so I post here since there's no forum dedicated to website features discussion.

I think it's safe to say this site is intended mostly for people who are interested in hooking up, but there are a lot of women on here who are already collared. etc. which results in wasted time when you try to message them.

Seriously, if you are already in a relationship, why do you even come to this website, you are just waisting everyone's time.

With that being said, it would be great if a little drop down box could be added for people to indicate their r/s status such as "actively looking" "looking for conversation only", etc. so you could filter out all those profiles.

It would also be great if the same could be done for all the hookers, so you could automatically filter out all those scam profiles that want "tributes"

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:39:48 AM

GreedyTop

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*yawn*

as to your first comment.

I am not looking, but I enjoy the forums.

Sorry you feel folks are wasting your time.. but has it occured to you that culitvating a FRIENDSHIP with some of those women that arent looking might lead to NETWORKING?

I shall stop there.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:46:30 AM

Kaliko

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Isn't there a section to choose "friends only" and the like? When you are both searching and when you are putting together your profile?

I have, in the past, checked off "friends only" in my "actively looking section."

Perhaps when you're doing your search you could specify who it is you're looking for and narrow down the results.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:46:35 AM

Forest101

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I am not looking for to hook up, but I come to this website because last time I checked it was a free world and I could do so if I wished too. I enjoy talking to some of the friends I have made on here though and browsing the forums.

A lot of people put in their profile what they are looking for, now I know that means you might have to read them, but hey, you might find yourself interested in them if you did.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:47:53 AM

xxblushesxx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*yawn*

as to your first comment.

I am not looking, but I enjoy the forums.

Sorry you feel folks are wasting your time.. but has it occured to you that culitvating a FRIENDSHIP with some of those women that arent looking might lead to NETWORKING?

I shall stop there.

Hey! Quit wasting my time ya fuzzy monkey!!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:48:04 AM

GreedyTop

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well said, both Kaliko and Forest!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:49:15 AM

GreedyTop

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*yawn*

as to your first comment.

I am not looking, but I enjoy the forums.

Sorry you feel folks are wasting your time.. but has it occured to you that culitvating a FRIENDSHIP with some of those women that arent looking might lead to NETWORKING?

I shall stop there.

Hey! Quit wasting my time ya fuzzy monkey!!

DAMMIT!! I IZ NOT FUZZY!!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:52:29 AM

xxblushesxx

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Uhm...monkeys iz always fuzzy. #justsaying...

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:56:51 AM

JanahX

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Why dont you start your own website and make all these great improvements, since you know everything about fucking everything Mr. "I couldnt get laid in a whorehouse - so I gripe and complain about everyone. And since I have no control over my own life, I have this GREAT NEED to tell everyone how to rule their lives."

Thanks for the laugh ... I've had quite a few this morning ../..

< Message edited by JanahX -- 11/6/2011 7:01:10 AM >

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:58:24 AM

GreedyTop

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Uhm...monkeys iz always fuzzy. #justsaying...

thank god for razors ;)

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 6:59:17 AM

Ninebelowzero

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I likes you!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:08:36 AM

LillyBoPeep

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OP, there IS a "They are seeking" drop-down menu in the profile search section... so, maybe you're just not paying attention.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:28:50 AM

Delilya

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Sorry you feel that actually having to read a profile is a waste of time. It works well for me.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:32:29 AM

TheFireWithinMe

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya

Sorry you feel that actually having to read a profile is a waste of time. It works well for me.

I get the feeling that reading profiles takes too much time. He wants a relationship and he wants it NOW DAMMIT!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:37:27 AM

Ninebelowzero

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Is that the Uncle Ben's boil in a bag instant relationship?

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheFireWithinMe

quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya

Sorry you feel that actually having to read a profile is a waste of time. It works well for me.

I get the feeling that reading profiles takes too much time. He wants a relationship and he wants it NOW DAMMIT!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:38:13 AM

littlewonder

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how about actually reading people's profiles? When I do have my profile unhidden I always say "taken" in my profile and I check the box that says "friends only".

I'm going to assume you don't read profiles. You are just one of these people that looks at the pics and thinks "she's hot so I'll email her".

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:39:04 AM

TheFireWithinMe

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quote:

Is that the Uncle Ben's boil in a bag instant relationship?

No it would be the "add water instant relationship" kinda relationship. Tends to be soggy.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:39:14 AM

VaguelyCurious

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

Mr. "I couldnt get laid in a whorehouse - so I gripe and complain about everyone. And since I have no control over my own life, I have this GREAT NEED to tell everyone how to rule their lives."

Janah made me laugh from my bad place.

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This is a particular gripe I've never really understood. If someone isn't looking for anything, you can normally see it by their profile. If someone's reading speed is so slow that skimming a profile takes significantly longer than looking at a check box, a text-based dating medium is probably not an ideal choice for them...

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:42:10 AM

LillyBoPeep

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Is that the Uncle Ben's boil in a bag instant relationship?

nooo that's too slow -- where's the microwave kind?

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:46:36 AM

Delilya

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheFireWithinMe

quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya

Sorry you feel that actually having to read a profile is a waste of time. It works well for me.

I get the feeling that reading profiles takes too much time. He wants a relationship and he wants it NOW DAMMIT!

Oh well then, let me get out my equipment and oblige him.

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