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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 1:51:45 PM   
Killerangel


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People in the vanilla world may consider all of us all twisted to an extent.


Personally I am at a loss as to understand why the above statement matters to you. This has come up several times on this thread and I wonder why do you care what others think? Perhaps you could explain? Are you ashamed of your life and worried what others think of it?

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:00:08 PM   
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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:03:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Hell, I AM twisted and thankfully so!



Amen to that :)

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:07:26 PM   
LaTigresse


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Why is that?


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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:08:57 PM   
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i wanna be used and abused by Master.

Hanners beats me, she slaps me around, she shoves large and painful things into various orifices, she jabs and pokes me with sharp objects, she makes me scream and cry, she leaves bruises and makes me bleed.

She uses me and my body in all sorts of very unpleasant ways, but if I felt, that I was actually being abused, the dynamic would end.

What we do is not abuse, abuse is an act of violence. What we do is an act of love.

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:10:23 PM   
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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:11:56 PM   
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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:14:07 PM   
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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:15:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But I appear to be much more comfortable with it than you.

Why is that?




On the contrary i am very very comfortable with it. it fits me like a pair of well fitted gloves. Do not judge a book by its cover, but most do. People can try to analyze a situation till they are blue in the face and never come up with clear answers to all things in life. Maybe it is quite the opposite that i am more comfortable in it than some are, you may never know. There is another saying, about walking in another s' shoes for two moons. Maybe i am more wrapped up in it than some, who knows. The only one that can answer that i suppose is this one. i clearly have no clue as to what would make you think i am not comfortable with it. Maybe that baffles my mind.

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:19:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv

on the booth it says stop abuse against women your thoughts are....????

My thoughts were but, i wanna be used and abused by Master. i kept right on walking when the guy tried to talk to me. For some reason i was not sticking around and talking. Now try to imagine you do not have as much time to think about it as i just did, the both is there you read it and the man starts talking as you were walking past.


So you couldn't see the difference? Geez thousands of women are abused every day and you didn't want to help stop that? I'm gobsmacked, I would have stopped to hear what he had to say.


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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:22:06 PM   
stacey4u2luv


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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

quote:

i wanna be used and abused by Master.

Hanners beats me, she slaps me around, she shoves large and painful things into various orifices, she jabs and pokes me with sharp objects, she makes me scream and cry, she leaves bruises and makes me bleed.

She uses me and my body in all sorts of very unpleasant ways, but if I felt, that I was actually being abused, the dynamic would end.

What we do is not abuse, abuse is an act of violence. What we do is an act of love.




ahhhh but yes, how often though do you say, please use me take me totally and abuse me or when asked what you are doing and you answer, just waiting around to be used, or i love being used, tormented and abused by you or i am yours to use and abuse etc... or is this something that you would never say?

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:28:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But I appear to be much more comfortable with it than you.

Why is that?




On the contrary i am very very comfortable with it. it fits me like a pair of well fitted gloves. Do not judge a book by its cover, but most do. People can try to analyze a situation till they are blue in the face and never come up with clear answers to all things in life. Maybe it is quite the opposite that i am more comfortable in it than some are, you may never know. There is another saying, about walking in another s' shoes for two moons. Maybe i am more wrapped up in it than some, who knows. The only one that can answer that i suppose is this one. i clearly have no clue as to what would make you think i am not comfortable with it. Maybe that baffles my mind.


LaT is not the only one who picked up on your unease, I also asked about it in reference to the several time that you've brought up how others may think of your choice in lifestyle. It doesn't seem as though you are more comfortable than others if you have said how you wonder how others would view your choice. No one is assuming things here about you, we're wondering at your own words. Seems fair.



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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:33:25 PM   
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we wouldn't be fucking around at a mall all day, and you can quote me.... 


Done. What do I win?

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:33:47 PM   
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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:37:54 PM   
TheFireWithinMe


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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:43:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		stacey, you are very wrapped up in it -- wrapped up to the point where you don't want to talk about domestic violence because what -- you don't see it as wrong because YOU like S&M?

I am pretty flipping twisted, but domestic violence ain't cool. Period.

You're so conscious of your collar, that you're positive it's the reason why anyone would approach you. Maybe it was. Maybe it wasn't. Maybe the dude didn't even see it.

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:44:13 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But I appear to be much more comfortable with it than you.

Why is that?




On the contrary i am very very comfortable with it. it fits me like a pair of well fitted gloves. Do not judge a book by its cover, but most do. People can try to analyze a situation till they are blue in the face and never come up with clear answers to all things in life. Maybe it is quite the opposite that i am more comfortable in it than some are, you may never know. There is another saying, about walking in another s' shoes for two moons. Maybe i am more wrapped up in it than some, who knows. The only one that can answer that i suppose is this one. i clearly have no clue as to what would make you think i am not comfortable with it. Maybe that baffles my mind.


The clue is your own words.

Mostly, they do express how very baffled you are by many things that the rest of us see quite clearly.


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:52:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv

Nobody should remove someones clit or brutalize anyones body without consent. i never said that should be allowed. in fact in the Muslim society i think it totally unfair that they need three witnesses to prove themselves innocent of a rape and only one man to say that they were bad for not being a virgin anymore. There is lots of unfairness in the world for situations such as this. Many people men or women suffer from verbal and domestic abuse and it is not right. He is not a fool to try to do something for society. I shared a thought that i had and wondered at the same time if he had seen my collar it was really a quick thought and is why i asked people to judge on the basis of not having much time to think of reaction from quick thoughts. If he is aware of BDSM and what he may or may not know, who knows right? i do wonder how aware people in the vanilla world are aware of our community and if so.... hence if so would he try to change opinion and would he regard this too as abuse and in that context yes maybe his opinions too would be to change our opinions if he view this as wrong. In that case he would be a fool as i would not change my way of life for anything.


Okay, once again.. I'm happy for you and your lifestyle and reality - but it is just that - your own individual world, your own individual reality, and your own individual lifestyle.

But you're seeing a conflict which doesn't exist anywhere outside of that reality. What makes you think that people are going to want to change your views on BDSM?

You seem to have this view that somehow because you are doing this 24/7 you're more aware than others and certainly more aware than people out there in vanilla.

Trust me, you're not. Just because someone isn't kinky or into all this doesn't mean that they're any less aware of it, afraid of it, or anything else. They're not into it because it's not them and they've made a choice. This includes people working in non-profit, human rights, and guess what, the government.

Okay, so you see this man in the mall and something goes through your mind and you jump to a conclusion. Okay, that's being human. We all do it. Some of us even start threads on that basis.

But I'm sure you will see if you do a little bit of introspection and go back over all what you've written here you might see the basis of quite a number of statements are all based on that assumption and hastily drawn conclusion.

Please, I ask you once again, stop and think about this.

'Begin challenging your own assumptions. Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in awhile, or the light won't come in.'
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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 2:57:14 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv


quote:

ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

quote:

i wanna be used and abused by Master.

Hanners beats me, she slaps me around, she shoves large and painful things into various orifices, she jabs and pokes me with sharp objects, she makes me scream and cry, she leaves bruises and makes me bleed.

She uses me and my body in all sorts of very unpleasant ways, but if I felt, that I was actually being abused, the dynamic would end.

What we do is not abuse, abuse is an act of violence. What we do is an act of love.




ahhhh but yes, how often though do you say, please use me take me totally and abuse me or when asked what you are doing and you answer, just waiting around to be used, or i love being used, tormented and abused by you or i am yours to use and abuse etc... or is this something that you would never say?


Maybe it's just me, but all along I've been getting the subblier than thou feeling from the OP, and this pretty much nails it onto home plate.

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RE: You see a booth in a mall and - 12/6/2011 3:37:20 PM   
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You walked right on by, with your self absorbed thoughts all about you and how you get off and get pleasure.

The guy was there working or volunteering his time, doing something so he could help others. He obviously understands these women experience hurt and pain and was reaching out to others, maybe have them think about somone besides themselves ---> so they can help too.

I would of stopped and listened. Then asked him where I could donate my used clothing to battered women shelters.
'Tis the season to be giving.

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Im glad Im not you.

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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv

W/we are all different. i live it i breathe it and i dream it and i only spend time on bdsm sites if i am not being used at the time. So, yes i am always totally aware of my collar and feel naked without it. IE. when in the shower etc..., but other than that if it is a trench coat it does cover the body a collar is bold and black around a neck not even like a necklace which imho a person is more apt to miss. It is a lifestyle that i have come accustomed to and do not rarely put aside. Maybe i am too focused on it but it is where i like to be.




< Message edited by JanahX -- 12/6/2011 3:48:08 PM >

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