LillyoftheVally
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This is pretty simple really, it only becomes complex when you let your emotions get in the way, which is of course the problem/advantage with all relationships.
From reading what you are writing you do not want to end things with him but you want him to change, you want other people to validate what you believe to be true either as a justification for asking him to change or as a justification for ending the relationship. You will not get either from me, there is rarely a relationship where neither partner does anything wrong. You do not want to accept responsibility and he is not here to state his side of things.
You have two choices, you state your postion, its clearly unmoving so you have to say what you want and where you stand and tell him that it needs accepting. Thats the problem with being so rigid in your beliefs, it is far easier to rescue a relationship when you are both willing to move with each other to achieve the best that you can.
The other option is to leave, the posts you are writing here are rather bitter, you seem very unhappy and resentful towards your partner.
Your comments here have given yourself those two options, my suggestion would be the latter because I don't think you are going to stop emotional association with his behaviour because of what you did at the start of the relationship.
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