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Lockit -> RE: Courting a male submissive (1/4/2012 5:14:51 PM)
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When a teen, I wouldn't pursue in the sense of being dominant and aggressive, but more the manipulative type of presenting myself, being there and capturing their attention. I had one in mind and I narrowed in on him... but he thought he was in charge. I learned to be more honest about things and that felt much more comfortable to me.
The first, I saw him and knew I was going to make him mine. I approached him, I took him out for dinners and paid for everything. He was totally taken back from my approach, but was curious that a woman would do what I did and wanted to find out what I was all about. He was my first role reversal relationship and I worked and supported both of us and he took very good care of me. He made one damn pretty baby too! lol He had been the man in charge before me and this was all new to him and yet, he found where he really wanted to be. His issues with post traumatic stress from war ended up breaking us up but once he got the help he needed, he found another dominant woman. He worked with her, but he had to have the dominant woman after me. Last I knew they had been together for many years.
While I do enjoy a man that courts me, I also like to do some courting myself. I am different with different people. I mean I am the same person, but you kind of get a feel for someone and go from there.
I look forward to hearing from others and seeing the different takes on all of this. How society might influence things, roles, gender expectations, etc.
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