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DarkSteven -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 3:59:17 AM)
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Here's your response.
1. Truth is the world is changing, so many Mistresses, dommes, they are not fullfilling the rule.
How is the world changing? What that that have to do with Dommes not fulfilling their role? What IS their role, and how are you as a newbie qualified to state it?
2. Take us subs and slaves into your homes, how else will we be trained.
Hell, no! You are claiming to speak for all male subs, speaking to all Dommes? And you are demanding they open up their homes to you? Their goal is to get to know their men, not to jump into the men's fantasies instantly. And they can train and have a healthy relationship prior to living together. Are you just looking for free rent?
3. Train us even if we are not yours forever, if not we will find the wrong way or not at all.
The purpose of training is to get a sub to behave as a Domme wants. It is NOT to fix a sub's life.
4. So many of us are left out and about not learning not enduring. You mark my words what is plentyful now will one day not be so. Keep making us pay to find our way and youll regret it later.
Again, you claim to speak for all male subs. When did they elect you a spokesman? That "you'll regret it later" gave the the chills. Who on earth would invite a threatening person into their home?
5. Many of us are just starting to experience what you want us to, and you put all these dumb restrictions.
You expect to walk up to any Domme, and have her accept you with no conditions?
6. We want to serve it is just you dont want to train us.
There are Dommes and male subs who every day start up relationships. Yet you claim that you speak for all male subs and that they're all getting rejected.
7. Get yourselves stable and take us in so we can grow to give what you all need.
Um, you're demanding that they get themselves stable? Dude, you're not only presumptuous and demanding, but completely unclear on the word "stable".
8. I may be just a bit wrong but for as long as i have been looking i should be owned by now.
So you're striking out with your approach. Your solution is for the world to change and not you? If your approach is failing, you need to change. Not whine, change.
9. Take out your strapons and open your closets, we need you.
So in addition to opening their houses to you, they should open their toy chests, too?
Fella, get counseling. You have a huge sense of entitlement, and are objectifying Dommes and not seeing them as people. Try some vanilla dating first to get to learn how to deal with women.
Good luck.
Edited to add:
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ORIGINAL: yourplaytoy2use
It is so hard to know for sure. How to wade through the endless what can you do for me, can be daunting on both ends.
Um. You may not understand how the D/s dynamic works. Simply, a submissive serves. My sub, for example, loves to do "girly" things and would prefer to do housework. But she's damn handy with home repair and I am hopeless there. So she spends more time doing that than she'd like. She does it because she loves to serve me.
If people are getting worn down by finding out how a sub can serve, there's a BIG problem. Either the Domme can't communicate, or the sub doesn't know his abilities.
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