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Kana -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 8:57:49 AM)
"You know the message you're sending out to the world with these sweatpants? You're telling the world, 'I give up. I can't compete in normal society. I'm miserable, so I might as well be comfortable.'" - Jerry Seinfeld

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:08:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana "You know the message you're sending out to the world with these sweatpants? You're telling the world, 'I give up. I can't compete in normal society. I'm miserable, so I might as well be comfortable.'" - Jerry Seinfeld Even the ones with the sayings on the ass? [:D]

Fornica -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:33:51 AM)
hahahaha, I always ask my daughter if she's given up on society when she wears sweats. She looks at me like I'm an idiot..lol

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:40:03 AM)
I am of an age where I can afford to dress how I please not to please. My Dad.

MmeRegineSybille -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:40:30 AM)
Yoga pants are the best and leggings.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:41:53 AM)
I am reminded of the commercial (for what, I don't recall) where the gal admits that she wears yoga pants everywhere because she is too lazy for regular pants!

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:42:45 AM)
I don't wear pants.

MmeRegineSybille -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:43:27 AM)
I do not do a moment of yoga and never have but when I was very ill last winter a friend gave Me a pair of the pants. I was so happy

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 10:45:11 AM)
Yes, I got mine from a friend who ordered a pair in the wrong size, lucky me! My favorites are from Chico's. I have done yoga, but not in those pants. That settles it. From now on, it's yoga pants and a ponytail and the hell with impressing the proles!

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:30:35 AM)
Effort matters, cleanliness matters to me more than makeup and hairdo and nails and other decoration things, but, I will admit that I will now go to the store for milk and bread looking a way I would not have gone to get the mail 25 years ago. Whether that comes from maturity or laziness, I just don't care enough to worry about honestly.

Clickofheels -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:35:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fetters4U Good personal hygiene and clean clothes are essential for me... If I know that I look good then I feel good. It helps me feel positive and confident. Ed Me too, Ed! (smiles)

OsideGirl -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:40:56 AM)
Actually, there are two looks prevalent here in San Diego that drive me crazy. Guaranteed that on a cold winter's day you will see: 1) Someone wearing flip flops and a winter coat 2) Someone wearing Daisy Dukes with Ugg boots and a winter coat. To me flip flops and Uggs are the equivalent of sweatpants for feet.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:41:51 AM)
~hides her many pairs of flip flops~ ~pulls skirt over Uggs~ Though I am agreeing, Uggs in the summer? NO. That is SILLY.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:42:59 AM)
I like Daisy Dukes:-)

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:46:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero I like Daisy Dukes:-) Please, do not model them for us. [8D]

Musicmystery -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:50:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1 Inspired by another recent thread dedicated to "appearance" I would like to ask something that has been on my mind a lot lately. When you go to a munch/party (or just out in the vanilla world for that matter) does the effort you put into your appearance matter? For myself, if I walk into a party and the people are ratty, dirty, unkempt it is immediately off-putting. They don't have to be pretty, thin, or have the "style" I do but pajamas and torn jeans comes across to me as disrespectful to everyone else. As though it wasn't worth it for them to even attempt presentability for the event. Is this simply shallow, or is it a matter of showing you care enough about yourself and respect the venue enough to at least try? Shallow? No, it just weeds out the people who aren't hung up on appearance and who wouldn't be happy with you. Consequently, you both initially are drawn to people better suited for each other.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:54:40 AM)
Nnnnnnnnnooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero I like Daisy Dukes:-) Please, do not model them for us. [8D]

Clickofheels -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 11:56:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana "You know the message you're sending out to the world with these sweatpants? You're telling the world, 'I give up. I can't compete in normal society. I'm miserable, so I might as well be comfortable.'" - Jerry Seinfeld Actually... If you are grossly obese, wearing a pair of sweatpants that show every roll of body fat along with every indention in your body between your waist and your knees, have stains on them in evidence of everything you've eaten for the past four days, and that show the crack of your arse (while NOT bent over) Add to that a T-shirt with so many stains you can't see the metallic face of Elvis, and a pair of filthy shoes with so many holes you can see the dirty feet inside them then Yes! To me you ARE telling the world you are miserable with who you are and have given up!!

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 12:05:15 PM)
& that's my suave look.

Winterapple -> RE: Does effort matter? (1/16/2012 12:08:37 PM)
I was going to mention Uggs in my post because I recently heard a guy complaining about women wearing Uggs and sweatpants. And I've seen that flip flops in cold weather thing to. Uggs like Birkenstocks are pretty much hideous and I can't defend them aesthetically. But I own both. I just try to wear them selectively. My Ugg boots(those babies are warm) I only wear in winter during bad weather. But I've seen women walking around in Daisy Dukes and Ugg boots in the summer. A variation on Daisy Dukes in winter, I guess. I try to keep my birckis for puttering around the house and I've never liked wearing flip flops. I do have me a happening pair of Dr Scholls massager sandals that I tricked out with tiger stripes that are good for the pool and the beach. But, personally I've never encountered a man who thinks a woman looks good in Ugg boots or birkies. I don't think either is the footwear version of sweatpants but sexy their not.

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