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Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:39:57 PM)
Good. I hope for your sake, that you are able to stand firm, and close the door on him. quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Lol.......someone bitch slap me! Yes I did call him Master in the conversation becuase im so used to it. No I am not going back IM done. I just wanted to show you what nonsense psycho babble answers I would get and tell you NOTHING! ANd to answer Your question...........yes he is involved in studies of capitalism....in the last two yrs......studying my pocketbook......lol. I think I would go after a man like this who got involved with my daughter, I would be a lioness. Yes sometimes we dont show ourselves the respect we do give others. WOmen are like that sometimes and its not a good thing. NOt too worry, the moron here has gained some IQ points in the last 24 hours. I am NOT GOING BACK TO THAT.

Awareness -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:41:32 PM)
FR Hmmm. Joined the other side and makes a beeline to the message boards. Is anyone else thinking what I'm thinking? A word of advice people: Don't get sucked into the drama.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:45:48 PM)
Again 1) Giant Vibe 2) Tequila 3)Shameless cougaring. 'Nuff Said.

lizi -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:47:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Lol.......someone bitch slap me! Yes I did call him Master in the conversation becuase im so used to it. No I am not going back IM done. I just wanted to show you what nonsense psycho babble answers I would get and tell you NOTHING! ANd to answer Your question...........yes he is involved in studies of capitalism....in the last two yrs......studying my pocketbook......lol. I think I would go after a man like this who got involved with my daughter, I would be a lioness. Yes sometimes we dont show ourselves the respect we do give others. WOmen are like that sometimes and its not a good thing. NOt too worry, the moron here has gained some IQ points in the last 24 hours. I am NOT GOING BACK TO THAT. Glad to hear that. Here's a couple of things to tuck away for moving ahead that I always use to judge things. 1. What would my 3 adult sons think of the man I was interested in? Could I introduce him to them and it would go well? 2. Do the two of you make more together than what you are apart? Are you a better person with him, because of him, vice versa? Do you bring unique, priceless things into each other's lives? Do you try harder in general because of him and do you see him doing the same? 3. Excuses are for losers. That goes for double talk, back-tracking, or any kind of smoke and mirrors. If someone can't be arsed to stand on what they say, or you aren't sure what they stand for because it morphs into whatever suits them at the time, they aren't worth your time. 4. Watch actions not words.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:50:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Hmmm. Joined the other side and makes a beeline to the message boards. Is anyone else thinking what I'm thinking? Sure, I recognize the possibility. But I'm either going to play a thread straight, or not post in it at all. (Same deal with my participation on the site in general. When it got too weird I stopped posting entirely, and I had no knowledge of what was "really" happening, I just knew something was really bad.) Liars eventually reveal themselves. Lots more people read these threads than just the OP. It takes a lot of energy to hunt fakes, and I'm a busy guy. I don't mind "being trolled," and a percentage of threads like this really do help real people.

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:56:23 PM)
That's my thought as well. quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 a percentage of threads like this really do help real people.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:58:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fornica That's my thought as well. quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 a percentage of threads like this really do help real people. Small as they may be. Gawd love em.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 6:59:46 PM)
THanks again, this thread really has been the deciding factor of leaving him. I could not comfortable discuss it with my family or friends, probably because I knew what the answers really were. I just needed to hear how stupid I was being, even though I knew it, he just has had so much influence over me its been unreal. It was not suppose to be about drama, it was about someone who genuinely needed some help understanding that this was not a part of BDSM and this man had to go. ANd I got that. I needed that push. So really its the end of the story. I do hope all the posts can help someone else who might happen across this thread and are going thru hell like I have been.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:11:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 THanks again, this thread really has been the deciding factor of leaving him. I could not comfortable discuss it with my family or friends, probably because I knew what the answers really were. I just needed to hear how stupid I was being, even though I knew it, he just has had so much influence over me its been unreal. It was not suppose to be about drama, it was about someone who genuinely needed some help understanding that this was not a part of BDSM and this man had to go. ANd I got that. I needed that push. So really its the end of the story. I do hope all the posts can help someone else who might happen across this thread and are going thru hell like I have been. Hey, listen, we are here all the time. This is what we are here for. Sometimes, it's okay to ask to hear the answers you already know because sometimes that is all it takes to make a hard choice where the heart is concerned. Drama is gonna be drama, it would start if there was nothing being said at all. So, don't stress that. Just do what you do to be healthy, and think about the things you see in front of you in logical terms. And you don't have to just leave. You are always welcome to come back any time. We'll leave the lights on for ya!

Awareness -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:14:23 PM)
I recognise that, however when it turns into a saga with multiple people expending energy trying to convince someone to follow the obvious path and what should be a simple response turns into 11 pages of back and forth, I kinda get the feeling someone's having their fun. I'm also somewhat wryly amused at the regulars' habit of deciding newbie chicks who post need 'rescuing' but newbie guys who post are HNG's, douche-bags or time-wasters.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:16:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness I recognise that, however when it turns into a saga with multiple people expending energy trying to convince someone to follow the obvious path and what should be a simple response turns into 11 pages of back and forth, I kinda get the feeling someone's having their fun. I'm also somewhat wryly amused at the regulars' habit of deciding newbie chicks who post need 'rescuing' but newbie guys who post are HNG's, douche-bags or time-wasters. I suppose I can see that as a logical statement. People do tend to be harder on men than on women. I wonder if it is because men tend to resort to insults faster...well, it seems that way sometimes.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:25:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness I'm also somewhat wryly amused at the regulars' habit of deciding newbie chicks who post need 'rescuing' but newbie guys who post are HNG's, douche-bags or time-wasters. Yeah. But that's been a problem in BDSM ever since the scene went het. I don't see why this place should be any different. LadyPact got pissed about it maybe two weeks ago and posted a long-ass thread that I didn't read, but posted in at the very end anyway. The Intro threads I've read recently, and even the posts by unknown malesubs in Ask A Mistress, seem pretty decent to me right now. At some point I have to think people are tired of bickering for a while, and really would like to build something positive with one another.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:28:42 PM)
It's also not necessarily true. If a 21 year old lady comes on demanding tribute from all the piggies, she is put in her place. If a man comes on telling all the "cumsluts" to petition him for his attention, he is put in his place. But people who come across as regular people exploring and asking questions one would expect to hear from someone who is new, but not an HNG, are treated as people. No matter their sex. (imo)

stellauk -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:32:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama quote: ORIGINAL: stellauk quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama Stella, while I think you are one of the most insightful posters on these forums, I just happen to disagree with you this time. This I understand and accept, but 'dismiss'? Really? Fair enough - I'll concede that "dismiss" was too strong for your theory for the OP's situation - which is so similar to my last situation that I'm having a hard time separating myself from it. I was misapplying your theory to my ex when you were of course applying it to the OP's man. It's okay, it's all good.. Just as long as someone benefits from it.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:33:43 PM)
Women and men confuse sex with intimacy in different ways. A good example of the female version of confusion is on this thread. But if a guy says, "Describe your perfect fantasy spanking," most people seem to hear, "...so I can jack off." I hear, instead, "...because I want advice for how to flirt, or to build up my confidence that real women in the real world really might like what I am into." But again, I don't mind being trolled. A lot of posters do. And I think a lot of regular posters are women who never want to be tricked by a man ever again.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:36:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Women and men confuse sex with intimacy in different ways. A good example of the female version of confusion is on this thread. But if a guy says, "Describe your perfect fantasy spanking," most people seem to hear, "...so I can jack off." I hear, instead, "...because I want advice for how to flirt, or to build up my confidence that real women in the real world really might like what I am into." But again, I don't mind being trolled. A lot of posters do. And I think a lot of regular posters are women who never want to be tricked by a man ever again. I don't mind trolling, but I appreciate subtle trolling. I don't mind someone asking how to flirt with me, but I expect it to be based around more than just my vagina.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 7:36:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness I recognise that, however when it turns into a saga with multiple people expending energy trying to convince someone to follow the obvious path and what should be a simple response turns into 11 pages of back and forth, I kinda get the feeling someone's having their fun. I'm also somewhat wryly amused at the regulars' habit of deciding newbie chicks who post need 'rescuing' but newbie guys who post are HNG's, douche-bags or time-wasters. I dont have this name for no reason, Chatterbox! I just had to comment I couldnt help myself. I dont call making a decision to leave a guy Ive been in love with for two yrs "having fun" its really not a bit fun. I had no guys holding my hand, actually it was mainly women. ANd most of the posts have been from concerned educated women, some even lived thru this type of WRONG Domination. Very insightful posts that made a real difference in someones life. Not everyone is a liar and some people are genuine and I am one of them. Thats probably how I got targeted by the guy I did. I was an easy mark. Now with that being said Get your underwear out of your butt(Just joking, dont have a cow!) and know this thread was real, not a game.

Awareness -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 8:23:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xXLithiumXx I don't mind someone asking how to flirt with me, but I expect it to be based around more than just my vagina. I'd think subtlety would be lost on a Malkavian. You fuckers are insane.

xXLithiumXx -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 8:25:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness quote: ORIGINAL: xXLithiumXx I don't mind someone asking how to flirt with me, but I expect it to be based around more than just my vagina. I'd think subtlety would be lost on a Malkavian. You fuckers are insane. Ah, but in the insanity is insight. Many forget that fact, but it is a fact none the less. Also, subtlety would not be lost on us, it gives us more room to move. ;)

Awareness -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/24/2012 8:25:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 ANd most of the posts have been from concerned educated women, some even lived thru this type of WRONG Domination The problem here is not "wrong domination". The problem is that your Master, ex-Master, whateverthefuckheisnow happens to be something of a cunt. The problem you have/had/described/imagined has nothing to do with BDSM. It has to do with character. Pure and simple.

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