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chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/25/2012 8:19:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster
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Tell ya what, chatter, you can take every single stitch off and give me a BJ and I won't charge you a dime. I might even get YOU off if'n I'm feelin' sentimental.
Ha! Now I have "dumb dumb" on my forehead. If You agree to screen thru the most experienced slaves on this board, pass a very long extensive questioning test, are not diagnosed as overly sadist or a complete narciissist. I might say hi to you with my clothes on and 2 yrs later we will see if you are worthy of a blowjob [:-][:D]
Basically I did think there was a different relationship element in the BDSM scene. "Live and learn" I see there really isn't. A good healthy relationship applies in both. Not sure why I thought that crap. lol.
One thing I have learned from reading is that with the right partner it can take on a different dynamic. I do believe BDSM people seem to be more open minded, and explorers. Can be more honest and upfront then alot of vanilla relationships, less hiding, more real. Of course there are always the ding dongs who mess up that theory.
Anyway, Im not even sure I fit in the BDSM category, and not sure about vanilla either. I do beleive there are those of us that fit in the category of SPICED VANILLA. The gray area.
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