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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:12:10 AM   
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That argument is foolish, and I will not engauge in Reductio Ad Absurdum. The issue here is willing abortion not miscarriages. I already told you that if one life is likely to end, then I believe you have to protect the woman because she already can survive on her own.


And we have moved past that argument.

I stated men should take responsibility to end abortions. Are you going to say that argument is foolish? That its only the woman's responsibility?

Not at all. I believe wholeheartedly that the father should, if possible, take care of the woman and child everyway he can. I am not a fool who believes that women alone are to shoulder the responsibility.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:13:13 AM   
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Not at all. I believe wholeheartedly that the father should, if possible, take care of the woman and child everyway he can. I am not a fool who believes that women alone are to shoulder the responsibility.


How many women have you slept with?

How many did you not wear condoms with?

How many have you followed up on to see if a pregnancy was the end result?

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:16:30 AM   
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8. All (at least the first several times). And all. I am very responsible like that. I do not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. Neither of us will bend on this.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:23:04 AM   
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8. All (at least the first several times). And all. I am very responsible like that. I do not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. Neither of us will bend on this.



While you claim to be very responsible like that, most men arent. I have first hand knowledge of that fact having grown up with four brothers and over a dozen male cousins, not to mention 9 years working Labor and Delivery.

The fact is that no one wants to do anything to prevent those pregnancies... we are speaking of the pro lifers.

No one wants to do anything to help raise those infants... again, speaking of the pro lifers.

But, by god, if those infants arent the most precious gifts on earth for those few moments its crowning.

I cant help that you dont see the hypocrisy in that belief.

But, you really should look at the hypocrisy of forcing a woman to do something with her body that puts it in more danger than your body would be in to prevent the pragnancy to begin with.

And if that comment confuses you, you should study up on the mortality causes and rates of pregnancies.


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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:31:23 AM   
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8. All (at least the first several times). And all. I am very responsible like that. I do not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. Neither of us will bend on this.



While you claim to be very responsible like that, most men arent. I have first hand knowledge of that fact having grown up with four brothers and over a dozen male cousins, not to mention 9 years working Labor and Delivery.

The fact is that no one wants to do anything to prevent those pregnancies... we are speaking of the pro lifers.

No one wants to do anything to help raise those infants... again, speaking of the pro lifers.

But, by god, if those infants arent the most precious gifts on earth for those few moments its crowning.

I cant help that you dont see the hypocrisy in that belief.

But, you really should look at the hypocrisy of forcing a woman to do something with her body that puts it in more danger than your body would be in to prevent the pragnancy to begin with.

And if that comment confuses you, you should study up on the mortality causes and rates of pregnancies.


It is unfair that you call every person who is against abortion dead beats who will not help raise children. It is also unfair to assume everyone who does not use a condom is prolife. Both of those arguments are sadly misaligned. It is neither fair or propper. No one is forcing her to fuck in most situations. If they are, then it is regretable but it happens. Bad things happen to good people. I wish to God that this was not so, but it is.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:34:47 AM   
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Abortion should be safe, legal and rare.


You'll never have all three. Roe v. Wade guaranteed the first two.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:35:25 AM   
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It is unfair that you call every person who is against abortion dead beats who will not help raise children.


I did not call anyone a dead beat dad. I said they didnt bother to check.

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It is also unfair to assume everyone who does not use a condom is prolife.


I agree, they are not, nor did I say they were.

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No one is forcing her to fuck in most situations.


No one is forcing him to fuck either, in most situations.

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If they are, then it is regretable but it happens. Bad things happen to good people. I wish to God that this was not so, but it is.


So rape is ok with you.

Pro lifers are against abortions. How many of them are also against the funding of birth control?

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:41:10 AM   
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It is unfair that you call every person who is against abortion dead beats who will not help raise children.


I did not call anyone a dead beat dad. I said they didnt bother to check.

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It is also unfair to assume everyone who does not use a condom is prolife.


I agree, they are not, nor did I say they were.

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No one is forcing her to fuck in most situations.


No one is forcing him to fuck either, in most situations.

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If they are, then it is regretable but it happens. Bad things happen to good people. I wish to God that this was not so, but it is.


So rape is ok with you.

Pro lifers are against abortions. How many of them are also against the funding of birth control?

No. You said that no one wants to help raise the infants. That is biased and not always true. No one is forcing to him to fuck. Agreed. He should man up and take care of his child and his childs mother.
I did not say rape is okay. I said only that it is inevitable and there is nothing we can do to change that. As such it is not truely an argument to bring rape up. I wish it didn't happen. I really do. However, destroying a life to get over an injustice is selfish and cruel. Adoption is a better alternative.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:45:22 AM   
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Wow. Just. fucking. wow.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 2:55:06 AM   
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No. You said that no one wants to help raise the infants. That is biased and not always true. No one is forcing to him to fuck. Agreed. He should man up and take care of his child and his childs mother.


Why?

Why should she be forced to raise a child?

Why should she be forced to carry a child full term?

Why should she be forced to continue a pregnancy?

Let me explain some realities. No one wants to pay for funded birth control. Forcing the poor to settle for the results of sex as the rich do not have too, since they can afford it.

Poor women have abortions, rich women have D&Cs.

Poor women are seeing their access to birth control being denied, their access to abortions being denied and their right to give up a baby for adoption being denied if the father objects. Thats a whole lot of force by a group of people who are only concerned about the welfare of an unborn child.

Im sorry, thats a load of crap. Its about people pushing their morality onto others.

Drunk drivers kill... how many people are demanding alcohol be banned?

Smoking kills.. how many people are demanding tobacco be banned?

An unhealthy diet kills.. how many want McDonalds banned?

Where is the outcry here? All those things have caused the deaths of infants and children. Why arent people pushing for those to be banned?

I have my suspicions.

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not truely an argument to bring rape up. I wish it didn't happen. I really do. However, destroying a life to get over an injustice is selfish and cruel. Adoption is a better alternative.


Adoption is a better option? Its perfectly ok to force a woman to carry something within her body that was the result of what is often a violent and traumatic event? Its akin to having a cancer. But you would suggest a woman should keep that cancer growing inside of her for 9 months, simply to make you feel some sense of moral righteousness?

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:04:14 AM   
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All established steps and proceedures in a pregnency. I am not a doctor. As for health insurance and a lack of funding I must say if you can't pay, don't play. The same as buying a car in that instance. A fact of life my friends.



LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!! NOW THATS FUNNY!!! what the hell have you been smoking?

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Not at all. I believe wholeheartedly that the father should, if possible, take care of the woman and child everyway he can. I am not a fool who believes that women alone are to shoulder the responsibility.


dood =====> what planet are you on? What you believe and what is actually happening are completely two different things. Ever watch teenmom? How functional and productive do you think those teens kids are going to be in society? The dads of those kids are long gone, if not at that moment, then they are now. Youre idealism is borderline crazy. Get real!

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:07:51 AM   
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I wish I could find that funny. Too many of the men on these boards have said exactly the same thing. Its rather sad, actually.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:21:16 AM   
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Is it so wrong for me to believe that men should do better? That society should be better than to kill their young? It is not okay for people to abandon their kids. I support Life. I aslo support the fact that men should take a greater role and look to their duty. I am sorry that a reality show does not show this side of us. That is sad. Also, if you are going to call me dude, spell it correctly. It is idealism? Chivalry truely is dead I suppose and I should stop fighting for my beliefs because reality tv and social norms are against me.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:25:28 AM   
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I did not call you "dude".

I have, in fact, not insulted or attacked you in any way.

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Chivalry truely is dead I suppose and I should stop fighting for my beliefs because reality tv and social norms are against me.


Thats a curious statement. Do you believe that, suddenly, men stopped taking care of their own? Is it a new trend, or could it be that its been happening all along and merely has become better known? Because, before DNA tests that proved a man was the father, women were often abandoned to "deal with it on your own".


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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:29:28 AM   
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I wish I could find that funny. Too many of the men on these boards have said exactly the same thing. Its rather sad, actually.


obviously none of them have to pay child support. Im sure they would be changing their tune if 40% of their income was garnished each month.

Oh but I forget ... we are talking with billionaires here ... money is no object- Im sure.


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Also, if you are going to call me dude, spell it correctly.


DOOD ====> as I asked : what planet are you on? Get with it!

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:31:21 AM   
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WHat you believe, and what is the sad reality are two different things. Sure, it would be NICE if your ideals were the norm. HOWEVER, since it is NOT, then why should a woman who took all reasonable precautions (and dont even get me STARTED on the rape/incest/etc) be forced to carry a baby to term if the child is unwanted?

ok, theres loads more I could say, but I gotta start wrapping up my shift at work, and I'm afraid that continuing would likely net me a goldtrimmed letter...

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:37:35 AM   
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It is unfortunate that there are so many who believe that children are being forced upon them. If you do not want a child then I suggest abstaining or getting your shit tied. The same for men. I do not only believe this door swings one way. However, I am wasting my time here. None of you believe in the good in people (men inparticular). I cannot change that. I will step up when the time comes. I am sorry others will not do the same. I am sorry that they are the men you see and hear about. I wash my hands of this. No one is going to give. God bless or Blessed Be. Or what other fair the well you would like to add.

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:39:07 AM   
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No because you believe a victim of rape should contine to carry a product of that act..

Have you ever been forced? Gotten pregnant? Lost a child? I have

I was raped repeatedly as a child... The last time that bastard touched me...I got pregnant... I was 12.....

In your opinion I should have had that child? At 12..... And had the emotional maturity to give it up?...

Yeah... You really are smoking something great there...I'd like some...

Abortions aren't a walk in the park.... They aren't pleasant.... There's a part of your soul that's shattered that you can't ever fix.... There's an emptiness to you... You can ever fill...

You think its EASY!!!!!!! It's the most unbearable pain you could ever imagine...

It hurts and your left hollow....

But women choose it still... Because its the best option to them.... That torture is the best shot they have... Wither its a teen that can now finish high schools... Or a Mom who can't provide for another mouth... Or the only way to fix that one mistake...the only way to get that feeling of being violated from under your skin out....

Pro life people never really understand... The pain the suffering the mental torture... That someone who chooses this option goes through...

I miscarried the only child ill ever have and that guilt follows me.... But I was going to abort... Fate did it for me.. so I didn't have to face the cowards who can't see the strength and steel resolve to make the best choice they have available....

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:43:51 AM   
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It is unfortunate that there are so many who believe that children are being forced upon them. If you do not want a child then I suggest abstaining or getting your shit tied. The same for men. I do not only believe this door swings one way. However, I am wasting my time here. None of you believe in the good in people (men inparticular). I cannot change that. I will step up when the time comes. I am sorry others will not do the same. I am sorry that they are the men you see and hear about. I wash my hands of this. No one is going to give. God bless or Blessed Be. Or what other fair the well you would like to add.



Because in pa to get your tubes tied for a woman....you have to have had three children or be nearly 40.. for men its 27...and a sperm bank deposit..

I need a hysterectomy....it would solve all my issues with my girl bits.... But they refuse.... because at the time I was 14.... And freezing eggs would cost too much... Now its because its barely managed by birth control... So why fuck up a good thing....

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RE: Time to call "Pro Lifers" what they are. ... - 2/1/2012 3:49:10 AM   
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No because you believe a victim of rape should contine to carry a product of that act..

Have you ever been forced? Gotten pregnant? Lost a child? I have

I was raped repeatedly as a child... The last time that bastard touched me...I got pregnant... I was 12.....

In your opinion I should have had that child? At 12..... And had the emotional maturity to give it up?...

Yeah... You really are smoking something great there...I'd like some...

Abortions aren't a walk in the park.... They aren't pleasant.... There's a part of your soul that's shattered that you can't ever fix.... There's an emptiness to you... You can ever fill...

You think its EASY!!!!!!! It's the most unbearable pain you could ever imagine...

It hurts and your left hollow....

But women choose it still... Because its the best option to them.... That torture is the best shot they have... Wither its a teen that can now finish high schools... Or a Mom who can't provide for another mouth... Or the only way to fix that one mistake...the only way to get that feeling of being violated from under your skin out....

Pro life people never really understand... The pain the suffering the mental torture... That someone who chooses this option goes through...

I miscarried the only child ill ever have and that guilt follows me.... But I was going to abort... Fate did it for me.. so I didn't have to face the cowards who can't see the strength and steel resolve to make the best choice they have available....

I'll say it one last time. If there is a chance that a mother will not live. A legitiment chance, that either the child or the mother will die (as would a twelve year old) then you must protect the immediate life. I am sorry you had a real piece of shit in your life. I am sorry bad things happen to good people. But that just is not my problem. I am a good man. I have flaws. I have done nothing but attempt rational arguments with you lot. Your circumstances are regretabe. Your comfort is no cause for an abortion. If someone steals from me, I don't go rob their debt child because they needed the money for child support. Sad though it is, this world was cruel to you. That does not change my opinion and it never will.

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