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LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 2:20:16 PM)

It is true. I am smart. And THB is awesome! WE KNOW STUFF. [:D]



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 2:47:29 PM)

Of that I have no doubt,but what is happening too damm fast for me is that I have quickly lost any chance to say no.Make no mistake this is long what I have sought(and She isn't asking anything too far gone right now anyway)it's the realization that I have lost something already,and so quickly.
This isn't my first time around the block....but this one is playing in a different neighborhood than the one I have long resided in.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 2:48:45 PM)

That's what I mean, take a deep breath. You can ALWAYS say no. It's not usually a good idea, but the option is there.

I tend to swim in the deep end of the ocean myself, so I dig.



BitaTruble -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 2:50:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Of that I have no doubt,but what is happening too damm fast for me is that I have quickly lost any chance to say no.Make no mistake this is long what I have sought(and She isn't asking anything too far gone right now anyway)it's the realization that I have lost something already,and so quickly.
This isn't my first time around the block....but this one is playing in a different neighborhood than the one I have long resided in.

"Be brave, Harry. Be brave."



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:04:02 PM)

Okay Bita,I don't recognize the reference(I'm thinking that Harry Potter series?)but it made me laugh.
Let me try to explain the issue,first off it is Her that keeps telling me to slow down,so it's not Her pushing me too fast.
Now .if I had a nickel for every Woman who I have subbed too,submitted my body for them to use as a playground for a set period of time,I would have 2 dollars and change in my pocket.In short I am,or have been a busy little slut,but all of that left me feeling empty,I wanted someone whose "ownership" didn't end with the end of the scene.
So,here I have it,and I am discovering that this is a whole different animal.She has been upfront with where She wants to take me,and I know She intends to break new ground as far as what I will experience.That scares me,but I figure that is the price I need to pay to get what I want....all good so far,especially as She is in no rush to get me there.
What has me quaking in my boots today is the sure knowledge that were She to insist we are to go there NOW I would meekly follow along...and that is scary,if I have lost this much of myself this quickly where will I be in six months?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:18:49 PM)

Really cool places, I would imagine.



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:22:32 PM)

or in a position i never thought i would find myself



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:26:24 PM)

Is that a bad thing? The unpredictable stuff can be good.



BitaTruble -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:31:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u
What has me quaking in my boots today is the sure knowledge that were She to insist we are to go there NOW I would meekly follow along...and that is scary,if I have lost this much of myself this quickly where will I be in six months?

Probably the same place I was about 16 years ago and look how well that worked out. [;)]



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:33:19 PM)

Have I told You folks just how much I love You all lately,I know I don't do it often enough [&o]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:34:23 PM)

Well you spend all your time in P & R and that place just gets me riled. But I never forgot you!



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 3:40:13 PM)

Tell You what,anyone that wants pictures of me done up in full female regalia can have them for the asking....when I find myself in that position of course(come on I'm not about to do it till I have to....lol)[:)]



Politesub53 -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:31:01 PM)

Congrats Mike. I hope it all works out for you. You do realise you will have to treat her like royalty though. [;)]

Btw, if its all the same i will pass on the pics.... [8D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:35:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Tell You what,anyone that wants pictures of me done up in full female regalia can have them for the asking....when I find myself in that position of course(come on I'm not about to do it till I have to....lol)[:)]


Is that some kind of personal goal of which I was unaware? [8D]



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:39:58 PM)

Hell ,it was a goal I was unaware of...till it was told to me [:(].Now it is on my plate and i either accept,or fail[&o]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:41:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Hell ,it was a goal I was unaware of...till it was told to me [:(].Now it is on my plate and i either accept,or fail[&o]



okayyyyyy.....



Lockit -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:44:20 PM)

Mike, I am very happy for you and will hope that you find your way through any apprehension. I can say that I have walked a bit of this with my Knyt. He never saw himself submitting fully to anyone and thought he was more a bottom than submissive. It was because he was afraid to hand everything over basically. However... lol... I saw the submissive in him, made him feel safe and comfortable and boy... did I get a good one! He is very dominant in every day life, work and all that and he struggled with wondering if he could actually go there. We are still working everything out but he grows more comfortable all the time. You will get there too if you are a good fit.

That first realization that it is really happening can blow your mind and make you panic I think... but ride it out. I think you will be glad you did. [;)]



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:47:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Hell ,it was a goal I was unaware of...till it was told to me [:(].Now it is on my plate and i either accept,or fail[&o]



okayyyyyy.....

Easy for You to say,me ....not so sure....lol.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:48:36 PM)

It was the "or fail" that made me give the hairy eyeball. Kinda dramatic, eh?



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/10/2012 4:48:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Congrats Mike. I hope it all works out for you. You do realise you will have to treat her like royalty though. [;)]

Btw, if its all the same i will pass on the pics.... [8D]

Thanks Polite,don't sweat it,the picture offer was only open to Americans anyway....no way,no how any damm furriners are seeing me in such a state(ceptin of course Lucy,but everyone knows I luvs Her [:)])



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