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Sinergy -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 10:07:32 PM)

Hello A/all,

The internet is a vast information trove with very few consequences for those who depart private information to all and sundry.

Having said that, I personally find a person who admits on this public forum that he/she will share personal information shared with him/her to all and sundry to be a person where the elevator doesnt actually go all the way to the top floor.

Sure, expose me because you are able to when I share private information with you.

I can sleep at night because I did not betray those who trusted me to keep a confidence.  What goes around, comes around.  Please dont post your complaints when somebody rats you out at some future time.

Enjoy your evening,

Sinergy




understud -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 2:02:48 AM)

Anominity by internet chat or not whoever did it hated the person.  Anyone that would do that imho is getting just a little bit freaky lol.




feastie -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 7:04:38 AM)

It's not for anyone to judge people for others.  If you personally object with a profile, an email, an IM, that's fine and your prerogative.  Block and delete.  But don't make that decision for me by adding that to a list of your personal rejects.  Your reject may not be mine and some very fine people may actually be hurt by your actions.  Sure, you may not care about those folks, but no one elected you judge and jury for the people at large. Posting personal information about others because you had a "bad experience" is flat out wrong.  It doesn't matter if the site is vanilla or not, if the people are kinky or not.  It's a very selfish action, no matter how you dress it up.




MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 7:07:03 AM)

Well said, feastie.




slaverosebeauty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 9:47:54 AM)


I was up a long time last night after having read most of the posts in this forum [and IMs and readng the ravings from those who I exposed and from friends who back me up] and I thought, that since Calandra has and will evidently continue to go behind this person's back to slander, give flase and incomplete information about and with regards too, I would be an adult and say this publically, since she just wants to be as LA so eloquently put it, 'middle schoolish.'

Since no one will stand behind me publically, I will have to stand up for myself.

Yes, I posted those emails; they were sent to ME. For months I had on my profile clearly stated what I was and was NOT looking for, so ANY email that was rude, unfounded or showed contempt [aka that the person(s) did NOT read my profile] I did what I thought was the best course of action, I posted those emails up for others to see so that they could make their own decision and to hopefully get rid of those who had nothign better to do than email someone with whom they had little if any compatability with.

CM moderators appoved my profile and its contents [they have in the past asked me to change things and i have], and I had on there for months on end that ANY and ALL rude, illmannered, distusting, etc emaisl were subject to being posted on BOS. Thats a LEGAL disclaimer.

BOS started over a year ago as a way for me to clean out my emails and IMs to expose predators; it moved to livejournal at the request of friends who have read my other journal on there so that they were on one site and 'linked' together. I NEVER asked, forced nor cohersed ANYONE to read those postings, nor did I ask any of those listed on BOS to email me, thus entrapping them; it was suggested, but I was not going to sink to the levels of trolls.

If you don't agree with my actions, fine, don't read my blog, don't contact me, I didn't ask you to. Friends and those who can see BOS who what it is, enjoy it, it's sad that a few people who got outed {publically} because of their own actions are crying and not able to handle things like adults. I removed ALL phone numbers before posting, and from the list I had, I had more than 50 numbers and real names that I checked out VIA google and that information was NEVER posted.

As for it being illegal, its all legal. Unless a 3rd or 4th party posted those emails, which they did not {on the info page I state that these were received by 'slaverosebeauty}', if that was not stated, then that would be a 'copywrite' violation; since I was the one who was the receptiant of ALL the emails posted, no law was broken. I took it down, NOT deleted or erased, due to the number of emails and threats, emails, and slanderious remarks received.

I have seen who my 'friends' {for lack of a better term} are on this site by reading the postings and since a few of you supported BOS or have sent me emails telling me how much you ENJOY reading it, its sad that you would backstab me now. Slander is still illegal and those who Calandra has given my screenname to are just as guilty as she is of slander by encouraging her.

Livejournal is currently investigating ALL reports against me and verifying who I am and that I was the ORIGINAL receipant of the emails; and since I was {yes I have proof}, no law was broken; sorry to destroy everyone's fun and rantings about 'ethics.' It's unethical to slander someone that you don't know.

Your glass houses are showing.
 
I do have a question, why is everyone getting upset NOW, when that was up for OVER a year. Yup, more than 366 days, and a handfull of apologies from those who were posted and thanks from those who I did not post, but, for ethical reasons did not post what would have been detromental to certain persons livelyhood, familiys, etc {you know who you are and why}. Makes no sence to me.

Cowards & predators hide and slander, genuine moral people don't.

Oh well. It's down and my profile was deactivated for my own saftey, but my provate journal on livejournal will have the FULL stroy, not just what was contrived and what has been left out.

I have the courage to stand up formself and to warn others, too bad others won't do the same. It's shamefull at what a single drop of blood in the water has done.

You can go back to your lives and leave me alone.




Pleasureprincess -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:17:17 AM)

I haven't outed anyone but have posted letters I've gotten as well. I think Slaverosebeauty is a good person for doing what she thought was right. Good for her.
And that's my opinion.
Maybe you don't agree but that's fine. You don't have to but you should understand her feelings and what's going on. Lying on someone is wrong.




jimmy2x -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:37:38 AM)

I just wanted to defend my friend slaverosebeauty on here. I have never posted before and more than likely will not do it again. I just want people to know what a good person she is. I don't understand why people on collarme feel the urge to write rude or disrespectful emails to people they dont even know. If you read her profile it clearly states what she is looking for and not looking for. If I knew that sending her a negative email was going to get it posted elsewhere, then I would not bother sending it at all. She is a good Woman with a warm heart. I know her personally and it just bothers me when people from all over the country keep sending her these nasty emails. I dont fault her for what she had to do and if it helped keep some of her neg emails down then more power to her.




MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:38:32 AM)

quote:

Cowards & predators hide and slander, genuine moral people don't.

 
slan·der
  1. false statements injurious to a person's reputation.
  2. A false and malicious statement or report about someone.

Irony at it's best.




juliaoceania -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:47:08 AM)

changed my mind.. not worth it, it will not change her mind of this thread didnt




Pleasureprincess -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:53:56 AM)

Well Jimmy I agree with you. she's only been honest and upfront with her profile and who she talks to. She get's tons of mail from morons who send her nasty stuff  AFTER she tells them she's not interested in them. Thats where you all get the wrong impression of her.
If you read it you'll see. it's all AFTER DISMISSING THEIR INTENTIONS she gets the bad email or Im from them.




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:58:27 AM)

I stand more and more by my original statement - we have no evidence that the person in the picture is the one behind the profile.

Or (against TOS to say....  LOL)

But seriously, folks.  Why would someone post their picture online, list their location and such, then go around accusing other people of various things?  Seems, well, foolhardy to me.

That all having been said, I have not read the BOS, and have no intention of doing so.  I'm a busy guy.

Now I'm off to paint my walls with white-out, mostly for that cool feeling when you write on it.

Yours,


benji




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 10:59:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

changed my mind.. not worth it, it will not change her mind of this thread didnt



Shame, it was well written. 

Yours,


benji




juliaoceania -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:00:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pleasureprincess

Well Jimmy I agree with you. she's only been honest and upfront with her profile and who she talks to. She get's tons of mail from morons who send her nasty stuff  AFTER she tells them she's not interested in them. Thats where you all get the wrong impression of her.
If you read it you'll see. it's all AFTER DISMISSING THEIR INTENTIONS she gets the bad email or Im from them.



I emailed her and asked her if she had a problem with daddydoms, because many of these emails were RESPECTFUL on her blog. She emailed me back that she hated daddydoms and their lilgirls... I guess she hates me. I have nothing against her. I think she needs help to deal with her issues. Personally I think it is very odd to put a pic and profile on a personals sex site and then get bent out of shape when people email you their  sexual interests.  If she is going to judge the vast majority of us on this site, why post a profile? I mean if I stripped naked at a bikers convention I would expect a few catcalls... but that is just me and I could be wrong.




MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:02:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

changed my mind.. not worth it, it will not change her mind of this thread didnt



Shame, it was well written. 

Yours,


benji
I agree.




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:03:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pleasureprincess

Well Jimmy I agree with you. she's only been honest and upfront with her profile and who she talks to. She get's tons of mail from morons who send her nasty stuff  AFTER she tells them she's not interested in them. Thats where you all get the wrong impression of her.
If you read it you'll see. it's all AFTER DISMISSING THEIR INTENTIONS she gets the bad email or Im from them.



Hell, I get nasty e-mails from men, and I don't even want to see the e-mails women get.  If we all went around publicising it, the internet would have no room left for porn!

Illegal or not, it's petty, childish, and rude. 

Just my opinion.  And everyone already knows I'm a predator, so meh....

Yours,


benji




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:04:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I mean if I stripped naked at a bikers convention I would expect a few catcalls... but that is just me and I could be wrong.



Try it!  Cuz ya never know....  LOL

Yours,


benji




Pleasureprincess -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:04:37 AM)

Yeah   juliaoceania why did you delete it?
Your statement was something worth all of us reading.




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:04:45 AM)

I think that it's quite interesting that one of your criteria for a "troll" is
 
"anyone with an IQ under 100"
 
~sigh~
 
Yanno, this could have been an opportunity for you to look at your actions and decide whether maybe you've been harsh, judgemental, or unfair... You're not interested in looking at your actions.
 
I think it's interesting that you judge others and assign labels "daddies are criminals who are pedophiles in their hearts" etc...
Yet when people discuss your actions (Notably, not even NAMING you specifically until late in the thread) you cry foul.
 
I will not post you on this issue again, publically or privately. If I ever become aware that your blog of shame is up again, I will check to see if it contains pictures, handles, or other contact info and will make appropriate people aware. If I am listed, I will make very sure of the truthfulness of the statements made, and will act accordingly. I live completely out in the open, and I have no problem suing you if you make false claims.
 
I hope you find resolution for some of your issues, I really do...
Lady Kathryn
Athens Ga.




MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:08:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pleasureprincess

Well Jimmy I agree with you. she's only been honest and upfront with her profile and who she talks to. She get's tons of mail from morons who send her nasty stuff  AFTER she tells them she's not interested in them. Thats where you all get the wrong impression of her.
If you read it you'll see. it's all AFTER DISMISSING THEIR INTENTIONS she gets the bad email or Im from them.



I emailed her and asked her if she had a problem with daddydoms, because many of these emails were RESPECTFUL on her blog. She emailed me back that she hated daddydoms and their lilgirls... I guess she hates me. I have nothing against her. I think she needs help to deal with her issues. Personally I think it is very odd to put a pic and profile on a personals sex site and then get bent out of shape when people email you their  sexual interests.  If she is going to judge the vast majority of us on this site, why post a profile? I mean if I stripped naked at a bikers convention I would expect a few catcalls... but that is just me and I could be wrong.
The word that comes to mind about both the profile and the blog is pathetic. The person, the blog, the intentions for doing it. Ends does not justify means. 




Pleasureprincess -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/4/2006 11:08:32 AM)

Well if you ever had a chance to know just like everyone else emails that are unwanted she tells them to stop mailing her. Don't you do the same thing? tell people to leave you alone and they still mail you?  Collar only lets you block so many people, after a while it's going to be full. and not all are respectful. Sometimes respect is perceved in different ways.




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